My husband has worked hard in this life, and what he has done with all his heart and mind is to protect the interests of his family from infringement.
In their first year of marriage, his parents sent a small box of bacon. I'm happy. During the period gave money back. However, my husband can't do it, his parents are at a loss, and he has called countless times and said that his parents must not send it, or his parents will not eat. Okay, nothing has since happened. I'm not rare either.
When he gave birth to a child, his parents didn't make a single phone call, let alone come to see the child. During the New Year's Festival, I have not given my child a red envelope, and the children do not know that there is a person with their number. I complained to him, and he said that his family customs were like this. All right
When it was almost New Year's, he jumped out and asked me to call his parents and ask me to buy something to send back to his parents. For this, there are also two lines of tears. Well, I don't want to tear my face off, it's okay to call them, just call them!
My mother went back when the child was more than four years old, and I took the child myself. The child's kindergarten was picked up from school in my unit. Every night at 7:15 p.m., the northern winter is so cold and cold and dark, my children and I walk home one foot deep and one foot shallow in the wind and snow. During this time, I cried countless times and asked his parents to come over and take care of the children, at least in the winter. He was indifferent to my tears, indifferent to the sins of his children.
One year, my dad was at my house. It was almost New Year's, and his parents didn't know what to say to him on the phone. Separated by a hundred and eighteen thousand miles, I don't know where so many complaints come from. In front of my father, he counted at home how bad I was to his parents and how I was not filial piety. My dad listened, and his lungs exploded. Over the years, their family has not taken care of me and my daughter, and my father is looking at it. My dad's blood pressure was high. The next day my dad went back angrily!
I immediately called them and asked them what they wanted to do? I don't want to get a divorce too soon! Something for the family! Motherly filial piety! You have never raised me, you have not taken care of me, where is your face, calling every day for me to honor you? Don't you just want money? Come and get it?
Since then, my world has been quiet, and no one has asked me to buy something for his parents and call every day. No one said with two lines of tears that I didn't honor his parents!
Affection is mutual, especially for people who are not related by blood. Everyone needs help sometimes, but for them, I don't stick a finger!
I have never said these things to my children, and I hope that children still feel that the world is beautiful and that there is harmony and happiness between relatives. But as the child grows up, I believe she can feel who loves her and is the one who is good to her!
The one in my family thinks it's good to think that his parents didn't suffer losses, but in fact, in my opinion, they have lost a lot.
