I was born in the countryside, when I was a child, the family conditions were not good, my parents had three sisters in order to have a younger brother. I am the second eldest in the ranking, and they all say that the second eldest is the least favored in the family. My own experience tells me that this is the case. Listen to my mother, I was malnourished when I was a child, could not speak until I was four years old, and my body was smaller than my peers. Because there are many children in the family and grandma is patriarchal, we have not seen grandparents come to our house since we can remember. My dad was highly educated at that time, a high school student, and they were a high-achieving student after 50. Dad worked as a cadre in the village, the salary was low, and my mother was from Sichuan and married far away from Fujian. Because no one took me, when I was five years old, not long after I could talk, I was sent to school. Since then, our sisters have been guaranteed and owed every semester of tuition by the teacher. The only income in our country at that time was tea. Every spring, our sisters went up the mountain with my mother to pick tea leaves on weekends, and then went to pay the tuition. That's it until junior high school. I remember when I went to junior high school, the most feared thing was to start school and register. I was afraid that my mother would say that she had no money to sign up. Fortunately, my mother would help us sign up. Maybe then she thought well, girls, read until junior high school graduation can be. This is the best explanation for the fact that our three sisters are all junior high school graduates. As all four of us grew up, our family was very expensive, and in that era, we often heard our parents quarrel when we couldn't make money. That's when I swore that I would never look for a boyfriend like my dad. After graduating from junior high school, because my family did not have money, I did not continue to go to school. This is also the most regrettable thing in my life.
Later, I went out with my relatives at home to set up a stall. That's when I was eighteen. Because I love to read, after I earn money, I often go to the library to borrow books. At that time, I didn't dare to buy books because I still had younger brothers and sisters at home. My mother often called me and told me that there was no money at home, so every few months as soon as I saved some money, I immediately sent it home. Sometimes he would send thirty-fifty dollars in envelopes to his sister who was in junior high school. At that time, I didn't understand things, and I didn't know that I was a girl to dress up better. Every day, I pedal a tricycle and go to the gate of each factory to sell goods, or ride my bicycle to the wholesale market to get goods. Regardless of the wind and the sun, I am always on the road.
Nineteen years old, my phone pixels were not good at that time. Because of the frequent running, people are very tanned. When I was twenty years old, I got in touch with my brother Jiebai, who was also a stall owner, and he often brought his classmates to see me and take me to play. Later, we became boyfriend and girlfriend because of an accident. I was happy when I was in love. After being known by their parents, they strongly oppose the boyfriend's poor family and debt. Parents who have said they have not won their children. A year later, we unexpectedly had a boss, in fact, at that time, because we did not reach the age, we did not even get a license, which was considered illegal birth!
This is the eldest's first birthday party, the sister bought for her son Tang costume. After having our sons, our lives got worse and worse. My son was always sick and we were always arguing. It's almost a small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for two days. And I often hang on the color on my body. During this period, there were many quarrels to separate. At that time, although I didn't understand things, my children were the most reluctant to do so. That's the main reason we have today. So much so that to this day I often tell my younger son that they have to thank their brother, because with an older brother, there will be two of them.
I don't know how the days came by day by day. The noisy and noisy division and integration have survived the seven-year itch of husband and wife. The marriage certificate was made up by the eldest who had to go back to his hometown in the first grade. It didn't take long to have the second eldest. In fact, at the beginning, I did not plan to want it, I also secretly ran to the hospital by myself, checked and found that it was twins, the doctor did not dare to do it, I only informed my family. I was just 25 years old, and the next year I returned to my hometown on the Qingming Festival and gave birth to my brothers by caesarean section.
The only luck was that my mother-in-law helped me bring one at that time, which made me a lot more relaxed. To this day, I am still very grateful to my mother-in-law for helping me with my children. The brothers were finally able to live a healthy and healthy life after several tribulations. As the children grow up, the husband matures more and more every year, and the quarrels between us are gradually reduced. When I was two years old, that is, when I was 27 years old, we returned to my hometown with our family, and my husband changed to the maintenance industry. In the first few years of returning home, the incomprehension of our parents and the contempt of our family have made our days crisis several times. Fortunately, the husband is angry, and the business in the store is getting better and better. In a few years, we paid off our foreign debt and earned a little money for ourselves. With the passage of time, parents have slowly accepted the reality and have begun to truly accept their husbands. When I was 31 years old, we bought the first house in our lives, at 33 we bought the first car of our lives, at 34 we opened a hardware store, and at 35 we built a house in our hometown.
People's life is really fast, in the blink of an eye, we have become uncles and aunts in the eyes of others after 80, and in a few years we will be uncles and aunts. Time can dilute everything or change everything. People, it is not easy to come to the world, for the sake of loving us and for the sake of the people we love, live well!