Insights (DJ00123987) – different perspectives, different stories.
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Author: Insight Kyrie
For the rest of your life, may you be well, and may I be well.
01
Recently, a love story on YouTube blew up the circle of friends.
The story short film is easy and funny, but it makes 30 million netizens burst into tears after watching it.
Lisa and David are a couple, and in the 2 years together, they often shoot videos "Show Love".
And this time, they announced that they had broken up.
They gag, like a pleasant peaceful breakup, watching the netizens laughed, but looking at it, it was wet eyes...
Lisa and David are both YouTube celebrities and they met 2 years ago.
Lisa was mischievous, and David was always used to her; David liked to make fun of her, and Lisa never got angry.
Together, they love a soccer team, travel to the beach together, and sail together on a sailing expedition.
Like all couples, they firmly believe that the other person is the person they are looking for.
Even in front of the camera, vowing to be with each other and never be separated.
However, it was the two people who seemed to be able to reach the end, and suddenly announced that they had broken up.
30 million fans didn't want to believe it and came to ask why.
Lisa replied: "We still love each other, but there are many reasons to break up, if there must be a reason, maybe we didn't have the fate to go to the whitehead." ”
Lisa's answer made countless netizens feel the same, and those who did not believe that they broke up had no choice but to agree.
"Goodbye Jinhua Station" said: One day, you think of a person for no reason, he once made you hope for tomorrow, but he did not appear in your tomorrow.
Like many stories without an ending, too many two people with white heads have not been able to reach the end due to coincidence.
There are too many sincere feelings in the world, resisting the emotional crisis, surviving not being optimistic, and finally losing to no fate.
02
In the best-selling book "Amitabha Buddha Momda", there is a story that is unforgettable.
Lao Zhang is a friend of Da Bing, and one day, he suddenly pulled Da Bing to Shanghai.
After getting on the plane, Lao Zhang found a flight attendant, kept asking for a blanket, asking for a drink, and the flight attendant gave it to him like the same.
After arriving in Shanghai, Lao Zhang immediately rushed to the ticket area to buy a return ticket.
On the plane just now, Lao Zhang continued to ask the flight attendant for something, and the flight attendant still did so silently.
Da Bing was full of doubts, until the plane landed, only to learn the original commission...
A few years ago, Lao Zhang wanted to open a bar, and only his girlfriend Jiajia supported him.
Without money, Jiajia gave it to her, and when she encountered setbacks, Jiajia gave him encouragement.
Lao Zhang was touched, secretly bought a ring, and proposed to Jiajia when the bar opened.
However, just a few days before the opening, Jiajia's parents told Lao Zhang that they did not want to marry their daughter to a person with unstable work and asked him to leave Jiajia.
Old Zhang chose to let go in a daze.
A few days ago, when he learned that Jiajia was going to get married, Lao Zhang couldn't bear it anymore and wanted to chase Jiajia back.
When she saw Jiajia, she found that she already had her own life, and the two of them could only miss it.
Da Bing asked, "If you are not separated, you will not miss it, do you hate Jiajia's parents?" ”
Lao Zhang smiled and said: "If you are destined to have a fate, no matter how far away you will come back, even if you have no luck, even if you are forced to stay, you will eventually separate, don't blame her parents, only blame us for not having a fate." ”
It turned out that the flight attendant on the flight was Jiajia, and seeing that she had a good life, Lao Zhang was relieved.
"Passing Through Your Whole World" says: The beginning of the story is always like this, the timing is unexpected; the end of the story is always like this, two flowers bloom, the sky is different.
Each person is a floating flower, wrapped in the wind, randomly encountering, colliding, entangled with another, but unable to bind together.
When we experience fruitless love when we are young, stubbornness must be attributed to one reason.
In fact, I did not understand that all the two people in the world who could not reach the end were because they had no fate.
03
Someone on zhihu asked: Whose fault is it that the Supreme Treasure and the Purple Xia Fairy like each other, but are not together?
Netizens replied: None of them are wrong, only because they have no fate to go to the whitehead.
Many stories take time to baptize, and many endings do not understand the meaning until many years later.
At the age of 20, you broke up with the person you loved, and you desperately wanted to find a reason, distance, family, personality, and three views, you must distinguish who is right and who is wrong.
And when you look back at the age of 40, you suddenly find that none of you are wrong, but fate is doomed not to be together.
When we were young, we were angry that Ke Jingteng misunderstood Shen Jiayi, and only in middle age did we understand that Ke Jingteng was even more reluctant to let go.
When we were young, we complained about Fang Xiaoxiao's departure from Lin Jianqing, and only in middle age did we understand that Fang Xiaoxiao was the most obsessed.
When we were young, we regretted that we had given up Zixia for the Supreme Treasure, and only in middle age did we understand that the Supreme Treasure had already done its best.
All the love in youth is doomed by yin and yang.
I once saw a picture like this on the Internet:
There was a noodle shop closed for a week, the owner's ex-girlfriend got married, and he was going to smash the yard.
Later, when he returned safely, someone asked him if he had smashed it?
He said no.
He went to the scene, paid his share of the money, and left.
Once, he thought that this beloved girl would only put on a wedding dress for him and spend the rest of his life with him.
Later, the white wedding dress can still be worn for others, and he realized that if there is really no chance, all that remains is wishes.
The Buddhist family has a saying: "If there is a reason, there is no reason to live, and a breeze sends white clouds." ”
All the youth and first love in the world are easy to miss, if you really like it, don't resist regrets.
Although sad, you should also be blessed with grace, keep your memories, and have no regrets and relief.
Thank you to the person who once loved but could not, may someone be with you, stand dusk, porridge can be warm, twist the lights, book half a life.
Cherish the rest of your life, may you be well, and may I be well.