All sentient beings, who don't want to live comfortably? However, there is no pure leisure and happiness in this world. As long as it is idle and not busy, as long as it is easy and not difficult, as long as it is happy and not bitter, it is unrealistic.
The world's idle things come from busyness, the easy things come from difficulties, and the pleasures come from suffering. Only by understanding these three points can we truly experience the comfort and comfort of life.
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Nana, a friend, had just returned from a 5-day annual leave and said with a tired face: "I don't know why, these 5 days are idle and panicked, and I feel more tired than going to work." "When I asked, I knew that she didn't go anywhere during the original 5-day holiday, and she wanted to rest at home, but because she had nothing to do, she wanted to think about the west. Originally, a small thing became more and more serious the more she thought about it, and she even felt that the whole world was about to collapse.
On the surface, it seems idle, but the heart is troubled by trivialities. The way of leisure is not right, a whole day of doing nothing will be boring, a boring is easy to think wildly, but will let yourself fall into a variety of entanglements.
As the old saying goes, "All things are self-sufficient in contemplation, and idleness is idleness until the mind is idle." "It can make the heart comfortable and peaceful, which is a high-quality leisure."
I once saw a joke. Someone asked Xueba for advice: You are tired of doing math problems, what activities will you generally use to rest? Xueba answered: Do language questions. After laughing carefully, I think there is really some truth - idle, to get from busy.
My neighbor's aunt knows this well, she is a person who can't sit still, and she is always busy on weekends and holidays. The uncle couldn't look over and let her rest, but she said: "It's good to be busy, and it's more tiring to be idle." "After saying that, I happily went to tinker with my own business."
Later observation found that the aunt was busy with her hands, but her mouth was humming a small song, and so on, stretching out, sipping a good cup of tea, enjoying the comfort of "stealing half a day's leisure", so uncomfortable!
It is the most precious thing to be busy, and it is even more rare to have a physical and mental security.
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There is a story that has always been deeply imprinted in my mind:
In an alley, there are often people carrying burdens and selling, and one of them is an old man who sells oil and is very popular with children.
Every time you go out with your own oil bottle, you can see the old man's superb oil pouring technology. Only to see him scoop up a spoonful of oil, his eyes looked at the mouth of the bottle, the oil spoon was slightly crooked, and the oil in the spoon instantly turned into a thin yellow line, flowing straight into the bottle, never dropping a drop of oil. Watching the old man's easy movements, many people go home and imitate them in a similar way, but they often pour water all over the ground.
Finally, one day, a child couldn't help but ask the old man, "Why do you always easily pour the oil into the bottle perfectly?" The old man couldn't help but smile: "Easy from difficult, I fell to the ground at the beginning." But when kung fu is practiced at home, practice makes perfect, and naturally it becomes easy. ”
When I grew up, I found that there are many things in the world, more or less like this. What is easy to do is actually accumulated from overcoming difficulties again and again.
There was a poignant buzzword: "You have to work hard to look effortless." "Everyone has the mentality of fearing difficulties, and they don't know how easy it is not to experience difficulties. How difficult it is to get through, how comfortable it is to reach the other shore.
Good things come from difficulties, encounter difficulties to do first, maybe the first few steps are difficult, but as you walk, you will find that things are not as difficult as imagined. Because gradually the foot is smooth, the road will be flat.
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"What is true happiness?" There is an answer that goes like this: When you have experienced suffering and know the preciousness of happiness, you can truly experience the taste of happiness.
The happiness that comes from suffering is true happiness. Without suffering, how can we highlight happiness?
Always happy or always painful, will make people numb, only bittersweet fellowship, can make people's hearts smart and alive.
Hong Deyuan, an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, shared a story of his own:
To find a peony, he and his researchers had to walk through a plant called sarsaparilla, which was covered with hard spines. Their jeans were pierced by sarsaparilla, and the blood flowed, and Hong Deyuan, who was more than 60 years old at the time, sighed, "Why is it inappropriate to put a good academician here to suffer so much." ”
But when they crossed the path full of sarsaparillas and found the target peony in a short time, the joy and joy of that moment surged into his heart, and the momentarily made him forget the pain he had just experienced.
The pleasure of experiencing suffering is real and heavy. It is the existence of bitterness that makes the pleasure a little sweeter. Swept by a storm, the rainbow will be dazzling. Climb to the top of the mountain, and the mountains and rivers will become more and more magnificent.
People who live clearly are not afraid of busyness, difficulties, and suffering. They know that this is part of life, and as long as they have the courage to accept it, it is the gift of life.
In this long and deep road of life, we must endure the loneliness of "bitter cold and thin clothes, riding a thin horse alone and stepping on a broken moon", in order to enjoy the leisure of "looking back at the place where it has always been, returning, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine".
No matter what kind of day, being able to bear the weight of life and live comfortably is a person's most remarkable skill.
Source: Net Object (ID: cystyle001) | Author: Jing Jing | Anchor: Lan Yan
Source: Visual China
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