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Yang Kasa said a sentence at the "Talk Show Conference": "As a person who has been single for a long time, I often desperately find that those girls who are much better than me, their boyfriends I can't even look up to." 」 ”
Please look at the picture above, the male protagonist of the "Meng Meiqi Incident", Chen Lingtao, this self-indulgent appearance, can you see it? Although we can't judge everything by our appearance very superficially, it is almost good, but Chen Lingtao's appearance is obviously much different from that of the two girls.
I really don't know what kind of vision this Meng Meiqi and Chen Lingtao's ex-girlfriend have, what is wrong with this beautiful girl, and what kind of charm the man in the middle has attracted you two young and beautiful women at the same time. Is it bad to find a quality guy to fall in love with? Just such a boy who looks a little awkward, you have something to argue about.
Presumably everyone has already eaten melon, I here to popularize the "Meng Meiqi incident" what is going on?
In the early morning of the 25th, the ex-girlfriend of music producer Chen Lingtao posted an article saying that Meng Meiqi had interfered in her relationship with her boyfriend Chen Lingtao, and posted a number of screenshots of chat records, accusing Chen Lingtao of cheating during the relationship.
In the long article, Chen Lingtao's ex-girlfriend broke the news: in July, she found the chat records of the two when they fell in love; in August, she saw that the two agreed to go to the hotel; in October, Chen Lingtao accompanied Meng Meiqi to Tibet for his birthday. At the same time, Chen Lingtao's ex-girlfriend also said that it was suspected that "Meng Meiqi already knew that he had a girlfriend and chose to associate with him." ”
On the 25th, Chen Lingtao responded with a text, but the post made people look at the clouds, he defaulted to cheating and apologized to his family and friends, and also mentioned the issue of estate handling, suspected of wanting to end everything with suicide. When I saw this, I was stunned, what is this Chen Lingtao's operation? He should apologize to the two girls the most, it is he who hurt the two girls, how can he want to avoid trying to solve the problem with suicide as soon as there is such a problem, is it too extreme.
Chen Lingtao's move can be said to make it difficult for Meng Meiqifang to make public relations.
Chen Lingtao is really a "little man" who has no responsibility, is it good to escape when something happens?
Here, the most scummy is Chen Lingtao, playing with the feelings of the two girls at the same time, if you want to associate with Meng Meiqi, please break up with your girlfriend first? If you don't want to break up with your girlfriend, please don't harass Meng Meiqi. Meng Meiqi is also, if you really know that Chen Lingtao has a girlfriend, you don't have anything to do with him, otherwise can you tell? Proper love brain one.
At noon on the 25th. Lehua Entertainment, a company owned by Meng Meiqi, also issued a statement in response, saying that "Meng Meiqi has never actively intervened in the feelings of others and is currently single."
What else? Meng Meiqi did fall in love with Chen Lingtao, but did not know that he had a girlfriend, and it was Chen Lingtao who took the initiative to hook up. Now that Meng Meiqi is single and has broken up with Chen Lingtao, she does not want to go through the muddy waters of Chen Lingtao and his ex-girlfriend. The breakup of the two of you is the matter of the two of you, don't get involved with Meng Meiqi anymore.
Meng Meiqi also apologized to the public: "I never wanted to intervene in the feelings of others, but I caused substantial harm, and I also said sorry to the people who were hurt by this, and I also said sorry to the fans who have always supported and trusted me, which disappointed you." Finally, I would like to say sorry to everyone who is concerned about this matter, and I will reflect deeply! ”
Should you really reflect deeply and find a good quality boy to fall in love? Why should I like this kind of guy with a girlfriend, it's really a strange thing.
Meng Meiqi has experienced this incident, and her career will be affected to a certain extent.
The Meng Meiqi incident reminds me of a particularly reasonable sentence: The biggest stumbling block for women in their careers is rotten peach blossoms.
Therefore, we also warn the majority of girls: have good looks and strength, and fight hard for a career? If you have to provoke any rotten peach blossoms, what benefits can you do for your career, it is purely a drag. Girls still have to improve their own concept of love, to be like Meng Meiqi, it is really stupid.
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The biggest stumbling block in women's careers is called rotten peach blossoms.
But there are two kinds of women who can do things: the first is a partner who has very stable feelings, can give her a very strong sense of security, so that she can have the energy to do a career. Second, either single or divorced, they will not love me in the end, this matter is a waste of time.
The point is, they did the following three things, filtering out the scumbags and rotten peach blossoms:
First, they have a sense of boundaries and refuse all ambiguity. The only way to a benign and stable relationship is to confess, but ambiguity is never the only way, and if a person enjoys ambiguity, she does not know how happy a benign, stable, secure relationship can make people.
Meng Meiqi has no sense of boundaries, whether it is the boy who takes the initiative to hook up with you, or you may know that he has a girlfriend, you should not be ambiguous with him. If people have a girlfriend, you should maintain a certain boundary, even if he takes the initiative to hook up with you, you have to take the initiative to refuse, rather than accept. Women without a sense of boundaries are easily seduced by scumbags, such girls will not succeed in their careers, and the "rotten peach blossoms" alone are enough to delay her good youth.
The second kind of woman is never greedy.
They never accept gifts from men they don't like, they can buy what they want, and once they do, then this person is definitely someone she can give, because a person will always remember what he has given, and will not remember what others have given him, and the more he spends his thoughts on you, the more he dares not prick you, because he is afraid of losing, afraid that he will lose you that he has spent so much effort to get you.
I hope that the majority of girls can remember this sentence, we must remember, do not accept gifts from men you don't like, and you can't afford to buy them. Especially Meng Meiqi, a big star, he can buy anything he wants, why do you have to like Chen Lingtao, a boy with a master.
Third, they never think about who they want to change.
People can't be changed, so trying to change a person, the only result in the end is that they are hurt, so what if they can't change? To screen ah, character is not good, basic ability is not good, cognition is not good, direct pass, do not covet the emotional value they bring to you.
Meng Meiqi obviously did not do this, Chen Lingtao has a girlfriend and hooks up with you, this is a character pass, such a man should be directly passed, rather than you still covet the warmth he brings you. A good beautiful girl, can dance and sing is still very good, the business ability is so strong, looking for someone to fall in love is not OK, but to provoke what rotten peach blossoms, it is really enough.
Meng Meiqi said that after this incident, she should reflect deeply, reflect well, and reflect on why she had such a rather cheap emotional experience
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To be honest, I am really disappointed in Meng Meiqi, "Rocket Girl 101" so many girls I thought Meng Meiqi was very pleasing at the beginning, because she looked beautiful, and then the business ability passed, I think girls like her should be quite promising, but unfortunately she put a good career is not fighting, have to fall in love with a boy like Chen Lingtao, it is really disappointing.
In this way, it seems that Yang surpasses the fire is very reasonable, people Yang beyond the emotional intelligence is relatively high, the concept of love is also more clear: "I think that falling in love is to make more money and then talk, that is, after you have a good career, you can talk about a stable job (love), so you don't feel that love can give you everything." Then be sure to believe that you are the noblest and never be PUA. ”
Yang Chaoyue is more sober, do you see any scandals about Yang Chaoyue?
Nothing.
It is not that I pulled ha, Yang Chaohuo is still reasonable, high emotional intelligence, will be a person, and the sense of boundaries is very strong, and do not casually fall in love. Yang Chaoyue only knows how to make money and fight for his career. Meng Meiqi really should learn from Yang Chaoyue, talk about what love, your career is not fragrant?
If you are in love, can you find a man that everyone can see?
Meng Meiqi, born in 1998, you are 23 years old Ha, long dim sum.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.