The heart of honesty is also the heart of a gentleman, the openness of the outside world, and the strength of the heart to not care about the ordinary things of human beings.
Will such a person be killed before he leaves the house? Of course not. Human action is inherently cumbersome. It's not like playing chess, you take one step at a time, and you don't follow the rules to end.
Most people have been exposed to a lot of people in their lifetime, but very few have interacted. The takeaway brother has been in contact with many people, but he has only dealt with it and has not interacted. The poor and the wage-earners have a fixed daily life pattern, and the circle of contact has been solidified.
Usually, the brain flashes contact with people but classmates, colleagues, friends. Life is not easy, it is too tired, there is no time to communicate. Some people have to sleep with their eyes open 24 hours a day, and they are afraid to contact people and cannot be honest with each other.
People's understanding of people is also different from their own understanding of themselves. One cannot imagine how many versions one has in the eyes of others, and even so one can only face one version, that is, one's own version.
But his own version may be wrong, and when God sends the version, he does not send it for people but for random, because the world is too complicated to have the energy to calculate so much.
The simplest way to get along between people is to be honest with each other, reduce internal friction, reduce unnecessary misunderstandings, and it is not easy to pay attention to a few people to deal with a good relationship, if there are a few more friends, it is really a mess.
Kazuo Inamori agreed with this view when he started his business, and it was his openness to people that made him build three Fortune 500 companies. It was this spirit that made him a saint, the true father of management.
Everyone has opponents Kazuo Inamori who also has to face opponents, some opponents can be complementary, and some are life-and-death. But he was at ease inside because his honest heart had allowed him to see God.
Of course, it is impossible to be honest with all people, this is a real problem. You can be honest with your own heart, you can be honest with your heart, for your own people, your own partners.
Being honest with others will naturally get the reward of being honest with each other, this kind of thing happens a lot, and it is like chicken soup, too fragrant to taste. But one should remember one's true inner thoughts. Since heaven can do this, he is not afraid of heavenly condemnation. Because people are too small in front of heaven and earth, so small that there is no need for God to set any special version for anyone.
Franklin once said that what a person plants will reap, and if we treat others sincerely, others will also treat us sincerely.
It's all good guys to good guys, and for a mad guy, the more honest he is, the more he wants to hurt you. When you meet a person who flashes words about himself, his heart may be like a poisonous scorpion, and he must also pretend to pose.
Being able to accept honesty is also a vision, some people can be trusted, and some people trust him is equivalent to cutting their own flesh.
Stirring it up like this and meeting each other frankly is indeed the best talisman for ordinary people, and many things are really on the table, but in fact, they are too simple to be simple. There is nothing that cannot be said, and there is nothing that cannot be opened.
From my background, I very much agree with the idea of being honest with each other, after all, I am not as strong as others, and the more honest I am, the better I can protect myself.
One point number Li Rui