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Zhang Xiaoxian once said: I did not miss you very deliberately, because I know that when I meet, I should be grateful, and when I pass by, I need to let go. I just think of you in many, many little moments. Like a movie, a song, a lyric, a road and countless moments of closing your eyes.
"Missing" is an emotion that every couple of lovers will have, and "I miss you" is also a confession that every couple often says.
But where the word "think" is mixed with the feelings, it is likely to prove that the love between two people is strong and hot. Because I love someone, I miss it, because my mind is full of each other, so I can't wait to express this emotion to the other party.
However, in the face of this romantic word to the extreme, many men are puzzled. When a woman says the words "I miss you" to him, they tend to just say "me too", and other than that, don't know how to respond.
There are some men who are really wooden and don't know how to deal with it, while some men don't care. In fact, whatever the reason, when a woman can bravely say what she thinks of you, it is enough to prove that she loves you miserably.
If you are willing to cherish the relationship between you and be willing to live up to the woman who loves you so much, don't be perfunctory, or just stupidly reply "I am too", she will be more impressed.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" Data-track="9" > appeared in front of her and surprised her </h1>
Loving someone is never to speak with the mouth and listen with the ear, but to express it with practical action. When a woman says I miss you, the most direct meaning is that she needs you very much at this moment, and she wishes that you can face each other at this moment.
So, what can be done to make her more excited? Quite simply, nature is in front of her, give her a surprise, and believe me, she will love you more firmly.
The reason for this determination is actually due to a personal experience of my friend. Friends and boyfriends in love for 3 years, the boyfriend wants to get married, but the friend still wants to talk about love for a while to see, after all, marriage is not a small thing, in the premise of not sure whether she can be happy, she does not want to let herself enter the marriage so quickly.
Of course, she also wants to investigate, not because her boyfriend is not good to her, in fact, although the feelings of the two people are not vigorous, they also belong to the long stream, and there has been happiness in the plain, and naturally there have been times when they blush.
But then something happened that made her change her mind. It was a business trip for my boyfriend, about a week or so. She happened to be hospitalized with acute appendicitis on the sixth day of her boyfriend's business trip.
The pain made her miss her boyfriend more intense, and although she couldn't bear to tell her boyfriend that she was hospitalized, she couldn't help but tell her boyfriend that she missed him.
What she didn't expect was that just three hours after she told her boyfriend that she missed him, he came back. The moment she saw her boyfriend, she broke her guard, and the tears couldn't stop flowing down, hugging her boyfriend tightly, saying that she wanted to get married.
Later, friends learned that in fact, her boyfriend had long sensed that something was wrong, because the two people used to open video chats before, but on the day of hospitalization, she was afraid that her boyfriend would see that she was in the hospital and chose to call.
And the friend's boyfriend through this subtle difference, coupled with thinking about his words, the first time to the friend's friend to call, only to know the news of the friend's hospitalization. In this hurry, I immediately finished my work and rushed back by the earliest plane.
Even if a man is careless, as long as he loves you, he will become very careful. And even if a man is careful, as long as he doesn't love you, you will never appreciate his carefulness to you.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="20" > I will always be with you </h1>
Of course, not all men can quickly and timely appear next to their lover when they say they miss him, but this does not mean that men can only say "I am too".
Women are sensual and sensitive. Just three words will not make them feel any love, but will make them feel perfunctory.
But the phrase "I will always be by your side" is different. When women see these words, they will have a full sense of security in their hearts, and they can also feel the responsibility and commitment of men.
Imagine when a woman would say the phrase "I miss you"? Either it's because of some happy thing that makes her think of you, or it's because she thinks of you when she encounters a troubled thing, is in a bad mood, and needs someone to care and hug.
Whatever the reason, when they say it, it proves that she desperately needs you in her heart. At this time, if you can't appear by her side in time, the first thing to do is not to express your thoughts, but to comfort her.
A sentence of "I will always be with you" can make a woman's fragile heart instantly find a sense of belonging and dependence, which is more effective than any enlightenment.
When you can use this sentence to make her feel safe enough, she will naturally be more moved by you, and your feelings will naturally move forward smoothly.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" > so coincidentally, I'm thinking about you </h1>too
This answer may not be as strong as appearing directly in front of her and saying, "I will always be with you," but it is clever. It cleverly mixes the word "fate" in the answer.
Women often believe in fate in the relationship, whether you happen to send each other WeChat messages at the same time, or you just want to ask each other out, as long as you have not made the same move in advance, it will make them excited and excited, and relish it.
Therefore, when she says she misses you, and you say that you happen to be thinking about her, she will naturally feel that the fate between you is wonderful. This satisfaction cannot be replaced by anything, for it is very accidental, a powerful proof that you are a match made in heaven and earth.
In feelings, the most taboo is actually unilateral payment. Any relationship requires communication, interaction and communication between the two parties. When you don't care about every word the other person says to you, the other party will gradually be disappointed, and when you attach great importance to every word the other party says to you, and respond sincerely rather than perfunctory, the other party's love for you will increase day by day.
Therefore, for a woman to be more impressed with you, you need to take their words to heart. Whether she says "I love you" or "I miss you" to you, you have to try to give them the answers they need most.
May every woman meet the man who holds her in the palm of her hand; may every man read his partner's heart.
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