As we all know, a nation has stood tall in the world for a long time, relying on its own long-standing culture, and China's five-thousand-year historical civilization has left us with a vast sea of cultural classics. In these classics, many of the most reasonable sayings have undergone the test of history, passed through thousands of years, and have been handed down to this day, becoming famous sayings and aphorisms that people regard as "truth"! These classic quotes are absolutely persuasive and irrefutable. It plays a vital role in our daily lives. Today's students share with you:
Man will insult himself, and the next man will insult him—Mencius
Translation: Man must first take the insult to himself, and then others will insult him. It means that the cause of the problem should first find the cause from itself.
Here's what I saw with my own eyes: a lower grade child cried to his mother after school: "A lot of children often laugh at me, I don't want to come to school!" "The mother did not get angry and led the child to question the teacher, why is my child discriminated against, and the teacher does not care? Or go find your child's classmates and support your child. Instead, patiently and thoughtfully ask the child: "Then why do people laugh at you?" The child twisted and whispered, "Because I made funny faces when I was in class!" "Anything else?" Mom then asked carefully. "And when I play basketball, I use my feet for it, and when I draw, I scribble on the book!" After listening to the mother's voice, she said in a serious voice: "Child, do you think you have done these things right?" Should you do this? The child lowered his head and whispered in shame, "No! "Then why did you do this, and have you thought about the consequences of doing it?" Mom asked. "No, then they shouldn't laugh at me, it's not right to laugh at others, respect others!" Kid Said Strongly. "Boy, you're right, we should respect others, but why should we do those stupid things, wrong things?" If others don't laugh at us, can we not be facetious, make mistakes, and violate discipline arbitrarily? If we do something wrong, do we still need others to praise and praise? You did the wrong thing first and lost your face! Child, Mencius said it well: Man will insult himself, and the latter will insult him! If you really care about your face, you shouldn't do these things that shouldn't be done! You shouldn't do these things that embarrass yourself! Remember? The child nodded solemnly.
The mother took a breath and then said: "Child, if you want to attract everyone's attention and prove your value, you should abide by the rules and discipline, and try your best to do more things that make students look good, things that make teachers happy, and things that make parents proud!" Do you know what to do in the future? The child nodded vigorously and said: "I want to listen carefully to the class, strive to be a discipline pacesetter, when I am on duty, I will sweep the floor clean, when writing homework, I will write the words beautifully, and strive to do all right, when the talent show, I will perform a wonderful martial art for the students, win everyone's warm applause..." The mother heard here and said happily: "Baby, what is said is too right, the mother believes that you will be able to do it, because the gentleman's word, the horse is difficult to chase!" ”
See here really thumbs up for this great mom! "People will insult themselves, and the latter will insult" said too well, we adults are the same, if we really cherish our feathers, love our own face, do not do those shameful things, before doing things, think more about the consequences, will bring to themselves what adverse effects and negative effects, face is given by others, face is lost by themselves, as long as we do bad things, it means that we don't want our faces, we don't want our faces, how can we expect others to respect themselves?
This is a little shallow opinion of students, welcome your criticism and advice and exchange and sharing!