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A few days ago, the Chinese men's football team lost to Vietnam and was scolded on the hot search.
A nanny named Liang Hongcha took a video about her experience as a nanny in a men's soccer team for 7 years.
She said that after passing the interview at that time, she lived in a large villa of 500 square meters of the men's football family and truly saw the life of a rich person.
The hostess's cosmetics are all high-end international brands, which together require hundreds of thousands, and designer bags and perfumes are countless.
These 7 years in the men's football family are the happiest 7 years in the nanny's life.
Every night she would follow the host to watch the Chinese Super League on time, and the European Championship and the World Cup were even more unbroken.
The man will also explain to her the tactics on the field and the way the team plays, and over time, the nanny even thinks that she can be the coach of the national team.
During the offseason, the nanny will also follow them to travel abroad, and in the past 7 years, she has traveled to many countries and gained a lot of insights.
Later, the man changed the club because of the transfer, and the nanny did not go to the house.
The nanny also teased in a pun that another reason for her resignation was that the man's feet were a little smelly, and she really couldn't stand it.
After working in the men's soccer family for 7 years and earning 600,000 yuan, the nanny has been very satisfied.
Although her little salary may not be worth a luxury bag by the hostess.
The high annual salary of the Chinese men's football team is almost well known. But many people may not know how extravagant and comfortable their lives can be.
In a central area like Beijing, living in a large mansion that ordinary people dare not imagine;
Driving all kinds of luxury cars;
Wear hundreds of thousands of starting watches;
Going abroad to play a game charter flight to sit in first class is standard, eating and living at least according to the standard of five-star hotels;
Wives are often models, flight attendants, hostses, good looks and good temperament...
However, in the overly comfortable soil, only the fruit of mediocrity can be produced.
The Chinese men's football team, with generous treatment, always played disappointing results.
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In the past two matches around the Spring Festival, the Chinese men's football team first lost 0:2 to Japan, and then 1:3 to Vietnam.
The basic skills are not as good as the Vietnamese team, and it does not make people see the fighting spirit and enterprising spirit at all, just like Fan Zhiyi said, "The face is gone.".
What is even more heartwarming is that the Captain of the Vietnamese Men's Football Team, who defeated the Chinese men's football team, has a low salary to go to the farmers' market every day to sell shrimp to make a living.
Their figures are strong and powerful, with well-defined abs and strong thighs;
In contrast, the Chinese men's football team is often criticized for its "white chopped chicken" figure. The waist is covered with extra flesh, and there is no trace of training.
Looking at their daily dinner photos, you can understand that men's football has become the norm for smoking and drinking, even if it is a taboo for athletes.
Watching the Chinese men's football team, I remembered that C Luo's former teammate once said such a thing:
"If Ronaldo invites you to his house for dinner, you must resolutely refuse." Because after you finish eating, you still have to train with him.
On that occasion, he invited me to his house for dinner, and all that was on the table was salad, boiled chicken and water. I thought there would be big meat in the back, but it turned out not.
Soon after eating, he asked me to practice with him, then let me go swimming with him in the pool, and then pulled me into the sauna...
He is a machine, always training non-stop. ”
Why did Ronaldo become a top football player? Because he's really super disciplined.
When other players go to drink and dinner, he is always eating some fruit, oat bread, steak and fish, and never eats junk food.
In addition to training, he often locked himself in the gym and insisted on doing strength training such as pull-ups, dumbbells, and push-ups every day.
His almost perverted self-discipline and his always intense training have always allowed him to maintain his best competitive state.
He said: "I'm improving every year and professional players need a desire to win and I'm happy that I've maintained that desire all these years.
It keeps me in better shape always forward, so I don't stop and will never be satisfied. ”
The overly comfortable Chinese men's football team and C Luo, who never let himself be comfortable, is simply the sharpest contrast.
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In fact, no matter in which industry, the most powerful person must be a combination of "high talent + hard work", which is indispensable.
2 tips for you who want to continue to cultivate in the field that suits you:
(1) Apply Denimo's law to find your own talent.
Zhu Deyong, a famous cartoonist, has been slow to respond to words since he was a child, but he is sensitive to graphics and likes to draw.
He painted at school and back home, full of blank spaces in books and homework books.
Although his academic performance was not very satisfactory, his level of painting was increasing day by day. Later, the media found him and opened a comic column for him.
Because he found his own advantages, he became a good cartoonist.
His works such as "Double Cannon", "Shibu Girl", and "Vinegar Slip" have been widely acclaimed and loved.
In management, there is a word called "Denimo's law", which means that everything should have a place to be placed, and everything should be where it should be.
That is to say, everyone, everything, has a position where it suits best, and in this position, it can play the greatest role.
Therefore, we must find our own strengths, that is, what we are good at and others do with great effort but still do not do as well as us.
Strengthen self-awareness, avoid being too narrow in your ability, thinking that you do not have any particularly prominent abilities, or overly calculating your own shortcomings and setting limits for yourself.
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(2) Quit the pot effect and keep practicing deliberately.
There is a very hot topic on Zhihu:
"Now that the competitive pressure is so great, why do we feel that the new generation of rural children is less likely to learn and have no dreams than their parents?"
There is a reply with the highest number of likes, which is roughly like this:
This society is too comfortable.
15 seconds can brush a funny video;
3 minutes can play a mobile phone to fight the landlord;
10 minutes to brush all the circle of friends;
30 minutes can play a handful of explosive chicken.
A mobile phone, as long as there is a network, can see all the world.
There is a term in psychology called the "pot effect", which refers to:
Jump out of your comfort zone and don't stick to a small flowerpot to explore the wider world.
As Wu Jun wrote in the book "Insight": "Many people can't become a big climate, not because they are not capable or have enough opportunities."
It was because I chose a comfortable life prematurely and stopped running. ”
The so-called top masters are extraordinary not only because of their superhuman talent, but also because of their continuous efforts.
10,000 hours of tempering is a necessary condition for anyone to change from ordinary to world-class master.
Too comfortable soil to produce unparalleled flowers.
I hope today's sharing can inspire you.
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Author: Little Coconut, life must be swag a little.