Speaking of "knowing", people will immediately think of a famous couplet given to Qu Qiubai by Mr. Lu Xun: "It is enough to know one thing in life, and Si Shi should regard it with the same heart." ”
Just imagine, Mr. Lu Xun, who is admired by thousands of people, still feels that it is difficult to meet a confidant, so as a grass people, how easy is it to talk about a confidant?
Confidant is an enviable word, a "nother self" in the world of red dust; knowing is an unexpected encounter of "stepping on the iron shoe without finding a place, and it takes no effort to get it"; "it is easy to get two golds, and it is difficult to find a confidant." "Confidant, you can't ask for it, you can't ask for it."
Man, the spirit of all things, is because his emotional world is extremely rich. Family affection, love, and friendship are a subject that can never be avoided in a person's life. Affection is connected by blood, and love is connected by reason. Only friendship comes and goes, like the stars in the sky that appear from time to time, like the duckweed in the water gathering and scattering.
If you don't see, how many friends walk and walk, people will disperse; how many friendships are everywhere, and the feelings will fade. Once inseparable, just like a floating cloud, occasionally projected in the heart of your waves, it disappears in an instant; once you and I wish, it is just a climbing vine, circling your branches, not seeking the sky for a long time, just for a season of brilliance. In this way, it is not strange to see everything.
It is precisely because the world is hot and cold, people's hearts are difficult to discern, which highlights the "sincerity of friendship and the higher price of confidants". Confidant, like a shadow, will never disperse; Confidant is the practice of previous lives, the encounter of reincarnation; Confidant is five hundred years of kneeling, like a lotus before the Buddha; Confidant is a part of the earthly relationship, like the rhyme of the Boya Qin, the inner language of the child.
"May the hearts of one man be won, and the white heads shall not be separated." The complicated world, the wind and rain trip, who does not long to meet a knowing, in the thin cold red dust, mutual warmth, each other to take a little warmth; who does not expect to get a heart, in the lonely journey of life, you accompany me all my life, I miss you for a lifetime?
That being the case, let's take off the mask of the world and shout hysterically: I love you! Then look in the mirror and carefully describe yourself — whether the expression on your face is real. Then, ask yourself: On the way to find knowledge, have you changed your mentality and perfected yourself, and whether you really have a radiant personality charm?
Charisma is a prerequisite for standing in the world. In short, to have personality charm, you must have the great feelings of the sea and the awe-inspiring spirit of standing on the wall; there is the positive energy of doing things in a high profile, there is the affinity of low-key people; there is a compassionate heart that feels the same pain, and there is a righteous act of the same hatred and hatred. And strive to do: uphold the Buddha-nature - with the lotus as the boat to purify all sentient beings, holding bodhichitta compassion and helping the world; inheriting the worldly wind - the poor are good at their own, and the attainment is to help the world. In this way, who in the world does not know the king, and why worry about the road ahead and do not know themselves?
Conversely, if you make some wine and meat friends, you'll never get a confidant. Because, the wine and meat friends are just colluding, the purpose of their friendship is only to speculate and drill camps, once the tree falls and scatters, they will do whatever it takes to protect their own interests.
If you are a person with a small belly and a chicken intestine, you will not be known either. Because people with small bellies and chicken intestines are always calculating, they will tear their faces for the sake of small profits, and they will mourn and complain all day long, indignant, complain about the world, and be miserable and miserable. The end can only be a lonely family, standing alone.
The real confidant is "I understand you", such as Luan Feng and Ming do not abandon, like the colorful clouds chasing the moon; the real confidant is to be alone, to help the world, and to be awe-inspiring and upright.
True confidants have no time and space distance, whether they are far away at the end of the world or close at hand; true confidants are those who cherish each other, hold the hand of their sons, and do not abandon them; true confidants, if they are in a different world, you might as well return from the covenant, how dare I rush to grow old!
May all friends in the world, from now on, cherish family affection, cherish love, and cherish friendship. At the same time, cherish your confidant even more.