Everyone understands the reason, but there are such people, if there is a sense of repentance, it is okay, that is, some people cannot be scolded by others, and their understanding is low, and they also think that they are unlucky.
However, at the beginning of this situation, you can also see whether it is possible to change, knock on the side, or directly explain, generally can be said directly, most of them are intimate or close.
This is like a story about eggs, A and B two people, every day can get an egg, A does not like to eat, so generally gave B, and then came a C, A gave the egg to C, at this time B is not happy, there is a little complaint A why not give him ... The story is straightforward and straightforward. No one is obliged to pay for an irrelevant person, and it is the same to take people's hands short and eat people's mouths, and it is the same to help, help is love, and not to help is the duty.
There is also a prejudice against strangers and acquaintances. Acquaintances usually have something to look for, once there is no time to help as if they owe him, and to a stranger, Bi Gong bi respect, help is like facing a great benefactor. I think that this kind of person is also generally a person who eats soft and is afraid of hard, loves to take advantage of small things, and is selfish.
Mistakes can be corrected, and good deeds can be great. Like this problem, maybe everyone will make a few times in daily life, you may feel that this little thing is not helpful, it feels very uncomfortable, but you must also know that others have no obligation to help themselves, and others have other people's things. Just like bringing rice, it feels very troublesome to bring a person, you have to queue up, choose, if you don't want, bring something that is not to taste, it is a very annoying thing; and to bring a person, there are several to rub, refuse, some people say why to whom who who does not bring him, very disgusting tone. In the morning, a breakfast will be divided, next to the point, others will not go to the point, but also their own breakfast, some people said that he did not eat, did not eat will not buy their own? Isn't someone else's money money?
I believe that these situations have been seen by everyone, if you have this kind of problem, a word "change"! Must change! Change it and believe that others will have a better impression of you.
With this kind of problem, it is a family and friend, and it is best to say it directly, or knock on the side.
But unfamiliar with themselves, nor do they have to stay in a group of officials for many years, and they are stubborn and do not listen to people with low temper and understanding, or do not provoke such people, less contact, and do not contact it without contact.