When people reach old age, occasionally they are fine, unaccompanied old people, life is lonely and lonely, especially those old people whose children are busy with work, although they live with their children, but the inner loneliness, who knows? However, if you have a babysitter around, you can solve this problem very well.
First, Uncle Li is a 78-year-old man, and since the death of his wife, Uncle Li has lived with his son.
Uncle Li's son is a self-employed owner who runs a processing plant specializing in the production of leather goods. Because of the many affairs of the factory, there was no time to take care of Uncle Li. Therefore, although Uncle Li has no worries about food and clothing in his son's home, he is lonely and bored inside.
In order to relieve the loneliness in his heart, Uncle Li wanted to find something sporadic to do in his son's factory. However, in an accident, Uncle Li fell in his son's factory. As a result, the sciatic nerve was injured, the lower limbs were paralyzed, and he could only live in a wheelchair.
Originally, Uncle Li was well-intentioned, but as a result, he caused a complaint from his son and daughter-in-law.
Uncle Li, who has limited mobility, is even more lonely and boring in his later years. In the past, when Uncle Li could still act, not only could he take care of his own life, but he could also go to his son's factory to help with some bits and pieces, or go for a walk in the park and waddle through the bay. Today, mobility is restricted, and they can only live at home, and their lives need to be taken care of.
Fortunately, Uncle Li's son was filial piety and found a nanny for Uncle Li.
With the care of the nanny, Uncle Li is no longer alone. Someone chatted with him, someone pushed him out for a walk. At this time, Uncle Li judged the two of them, and his face was full of happy smiles.
Second, Uncle Chen
Uncle Chen is a retired worker with a monthly retirement salary of more than 4,800 yuan.
Economically, Uncle Chen is lucky, because he has no worries about food and clothing, is less than the top, is more than enough than the bottom, and is not only economically independent, but also quite wealthy.
However, economic prosperity could not make up for Uncle Chen's emotional shortcomings. Emotionally, Uncle Chen did not go well. In the early years, Uncle Chen's feelings were fateful, and he became a family after several twists and turns, and he only wanted to spend the rest of his life with his wife Bai Shou and old age. Unexpectedly, Uncle Chen's wife suffered from various diseases in his later years, and later died of acute cerebral infarction, leaving Uncle Chen alone.
The departure of his wife brought an incomparably big blow to Uncle Chen. Uncle Chen loves her wife very much, especially the hard-won marriage, which is more worth cherishing. However, sometimes fate cannot be changed.
Fortunately, Uncle Chen also had a son and a daughter, and although his wife left, she left two useful children for Uncle Chen. This also left a little comfort for Uncle Chen's soul.
However, because the children have a career, they cannot always accompany Uncle Chen. Therefore, after the death of his wife, Uncle Chen was only a single shadow.
Sometimes Uncle Chen couldn't help but sigh that he would rather have his dead wife alive than have a family fortune.
Uncle Chen said that when his deceased wife is alive, his life will not be lonely, there is something to say, and there is something to accompany. And now, although he has no worries about food and clothing, and his children are mature, he has no wife and is lonely inside. Although he also raises flowers, walks dogs, and plays chess with old friends, this only relieves the boredom of his superficial life, and the loneliness in his heart cannot be solved. And every time I come back from playing outside, I have to face the cold house.
Uncle Chen said: There is no woman in the family, the room is exceptionally cold, cold rice and cold stove, even the air is a little cold, solidified.
In order to break this deadlock, Uncle Chen painfully hired a nanny who was responsible for Uncle Chen's diet and living.
After having a nanny, Uncle Chen no longer feels lonely in his life, there is something to say, the deserted house is full of life, and he can eat delicious hot meals on time. Uncle Chen no longer has to worry about the coldness of going home, and can play outside and live the life he wants.
Uncle Chen said that the elderly are not afraid of no money, only afraid of loneliness, and loneliness is more terrible than no money.
Third, Uncle Wu
Uncle Wu is a bedridden old man, 81 years old. Although Uncle Wu has children, each has a family, and Uncle Wu lives in the house of his younger son.
Uncle Wu's youngest son and daughter-in-law are doctors, and since Uncle Wu was paralyzed, there was no extra time to take care of Uncle Wu, because the doctor's work was busier and irregular than the general work. Therefore, although Uncle Wu can get good conditioning, his personal life is very lonely.
Every day when his son and daughter-in-law went to work, Uncle Wu lay on the bed and faced this huge house, feeling particularly cold inside.
Sometimes Uncle Wu's sons and daughters-in-law both go to work, and there is only Uncle Wu left at home, and Uncle Wu wants to drink a cup of water and it is difficult to go to the toilet, not to mention someone to talk to him. Even if someone comes, Uncle Wu's son and daughter-in-law are not at home, they will not come.
Uncle Wu, who was lying sick in bed, was really lonely and bored, and sometimes he could only stare at the ceiling in a daze.
Later, Uncle Wu's son found a nurse for Uncle Wu, and once Uncle Wu's son and daughter-in-law went out to work, the nurse took care of Uncle Wu's life.
With the care of the nurse, Uncle Wu is no longer alone, he can lie on the bed and chat with the nurse, or he can order the nurse to bring tea and water. Uncle Wu's life has returned to the old days. Uncle Wu's lonely and boring life in his later years was full of anger.