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Xia Bonian is a member of the Pudong Writers Association. He is the author of the book "Teaching You to Do Auditing by Hand: From Beginner to Proficient", and has been the special editor of Shanghai Accounting (now "New Accounting") since 1988, an audit accountant in an accounting firm since 1994, and a special writer for Shanghai Certified Public Accountant magazine since 2007.
Tutor in the Year of the Tiger
(Essay)
The Year of Shabber
I asked my granddaughter: There is an idiom of tiger characters, how many can you say? She said: The fox fakes the tiger, swallows the tiger, and the tiger looks at it...
I say a few more words to teach you: it will be a holiday soon, your parents are not there during the day, you don't want no tigers in the mountains, monkeys are called kings; you must develop a good temper, don't let the tiger's ass touch it; learn to protect yourself with a sense of safety, don't let the newborn calves not be afraid of tigers; but don't be afraid of difficulties in learning, all difficulties are paper tigers.
I said to my granddaughter: There are two important sentences, you don't understand now, slowly understand: the first sentence, do things seriously and responsibly, can not be sloppy; the second sentence: be humble and low-key, just like the hidden dragon Crouching Tiger ...
Smiling Tiger
On the bus, someone got on the bus and squeezed hard, and someone said to him: This year is not the Year of the Pig, what is the arch? He smiled and said: This year is not the year of the dog, what is it called?
So I thought of the Year of the Tiger, and we can also learn from the smiling tiger. Two quarrels are generally red-faced, hurting others and hurting themselves; if you are smiling but powerful, do not let yourself be angry, and learn to protect yourself, this of course requires a certain psychological quality.
Sometimes it is inevitable that people will argue with each other for a few words, preferring to be a "smiling tiger" rather than throwing a cow tantrum...
Alone and together
There is a 96-year-old woman who draws and writes a diary every day, rarely talks to people, but regularly chats with three old men, and when others talk nonsense, she pretends to be deaf and dumb, and lives elegantly.
It comes to mind that everyone has a different way of life, but two things are very important: first, interests are not necessarily very broad, but there are real hobbies; second, friends are not necessarily many, but it is necessary to make friends appropriately.
People should learn from the tiger's spirit of solitude, but people must also learn to get along, and being alone and getting along complement each other into a virtuous circle is conducive to physical and mental health.
Middle-aged and elderly people learn to be alone, but to avoid excessive loneliness, everything must be grasped well, inner harmony and interpersonal harmony...
Learn humor
Old friends met, and I asked him if he was still at work? He said humorously: I am now the general manager of the import and export company, and I import grain and export fertilizer every day. I say to each other, I am the chairman of Competence Limited, and the first thing every morning is to deal with import and export business. Ridicule is an important lesson in speaking, and self-deprecation is the highest state of humor and the lubricant of interpersonal communication.
An old professor said: I am now sagging, only high blood pressure; sitting dozing, can not go to bed, should not remember, should not forget; in the past there were many pen pals, now there are many patients, knowledge degradation, thinking rigidity, organ aging. I said that laughing every day is a good medicine, that optimism is better than tonic, that I often laugh at myself, and that I am happy with others laughing.
It is generally believed that humor is funny, in fact, it is elegant and wise, humor is not the ability to do things, but the cultivation of people. Personality humor is innate, and mental humor needs to be cultivated.
Some people say that learning humor is a bit of a hard axe handle, but I think it is like learning to blow at the age of eighty, which belongs to a positive attitude towards life, optimistic and upward laughter is very beneficial to life and physical and mental health.
Live to learn from the old, including learning to be a person, learning to speak, learning humor, making inner harmony, and making people harmonious...
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