Everyone has their own unique qualities, but we often bury our talents because we don't discover their own traits. So how do you make your distinctive qualities shine with brilliance?
Lü Yan, a woman who is not a beautiful woman in the eyes of Chinese, has won a place in the arrogant Parisian fashion industry, allowing the Chinese people to raise their eyebrows and breathe a sigh of relief, and Lü Yan has become a business card to show the world the style of Chinese supermodels.
Lu Yan's beauty is very outstanding, and it is also very beautiful. Lu Yan's eyes are very characteristic, her lips are also very sexy, coupled with her tall figure and cheerful personality, let her shine on the catwalk. Lu Yan's experience of changing from an ugly duckling to a white swan is still praised.
Foreign media commented on Lu Yan: "Half angel, half devil" - you can smile brightly and pure like an angel, or you can be cool and wild like a devil.
Before her debut, Lü Yan was only the daughter of an ordinary miner at a silverstone mine in De'an, Jiangxi. She was particularly tall since she was a child, because she was too stand out from the crowd, she always deliberately bent over, and she was a little hunched over time. Although I have always loved to play with boys, by the age of 18, girls' beauty-loving nature still prevailed. In order to correct her body shape, she left her hometown to study in Nanchang and signed up for a modeling training class. At that time, she really did not want to be a model herself in the future, because there was no such thing in her previous life.
In 1999, because the training class had to select 5 students to participate in a model selection competition in Beijing, purely for the sake of making up numbers, the tall Lu Yan went to Beijing and officially entered the industry. By chance, she met two agents from France in the hotel lobby and was taken to France. More than 4 months later, she still "didn't expect anything" to stand out from the World Super model contest and win the runner-up in one fell swoop.
After becoming famous, the most questions around Lu Yan were related to her appearance. Lu Yan, who has a face that gathers oriental elements, is very popular, and the "ugly girl" in the eyes of the Chinese people has frequently amazed many international top designers. Walking between the two extreme opposite evaluations of "absolute beauty" and "strange and ugly", in the words of industry insiders, Lu Yan "subverts people's traditional concept of beauty", and the broader summary is that Chinese society has developed to a stage that can tolerate weirdness and can withstand subversion, just like young girls can wear black clothes and can face the sky, while old women cannot, because only the former has the capital that can withstand splurge and "bad practice".
If Lu Yan happened to be born in this era, it is better to say that she found her own personality sky. If there is no personality sky of her own, I believe that Lü Yan is still just an obscure ugly woman, but it is Lü Yan's personality sky that gives her the opportunity to play her potential, making her fly higher and higher in this international top fashion group.
Opportunities are equal for everyone, and the key is whether you are good at discovering your own piece of personality sky. If you are still mediocre, you need to use personality psychology to dig and find your own personality sky, and then soar in the air, so that your personality light paints a colorful picture of your magnificent life.
In fact, when each of us is born, we have a different quality, some people are expressed in art, some people are expressed in academics, some people are expressed in hands-on ability, and some people are different in public relations. Therefore, when you have not discovered your own characteristics, you must not be arrogant and self-destructive. Believe that you must be a person who is useful to society and others, your life must be valuable, and you must be able to create a different life value.
There was such a genius who started programming at the age of 13 and predicted that he would become a millionaire at the age of 25. He is a business wizard, with a unique vision that allows him to always see the future of the IT industry accurately, and a unique management approach that allows the growing Microsoft to remain alive. His wealth is even more mythical, becoming the world's richest man at the age of 39 and topping the Forbes list for 13 consecutive years. He's the famous Bill Gates.
Bill has been energetic since childhood, can shake the cradle as early as an infant, loves to think from an early age, and can devote himself to something as soon as he is obsessed with something.
From his grandmother's enlightened education to his parents' tireless search for clubs and schools for Bill Gates to suit his talent, he provided fertile soil and fresh air for the development of his talents.
As the son grew older, the environment in the family could no longer accommodate the further development of Bill Gates' talents. Therefore, his parents set their sights on society and actively found his own space for Bill. At an event, Bill Gates prepared a report for the class called "Investing in Gates Inc." This report has almost become a family affair, his grandmother helped to get the cover, and even his father intervened to help, and the atmosphere was very active.
After graduating from elementary school, his parents, after consulting Bill Gates, sent him to Lakeside Middle School. At Lakeside Middle School, Bill became obsessed with computers that would make him devote his life to it. When Bill Gates was a student at Lakeside Middle School, he often arranged his studies according to his own interests. He worked his favorite subjects and learned them very well, such as math and reading. After graduating from high school, Bill Gates wanted to go to Harvard University, but a year later, he left Harvard, gave up his studies, and started a computer company with others. Although his parents did not agree with his ideas, Bill Gates resolutely left Harvard University, which has fascinated hundreds of millions of students, and began to make a big splash in the field of software.
Successful people have their own successful qualities, in fact, you also have, but you have not found your own sky. So from now on, use personality psychology, find your own sky, spread your wings and fly there, I believe you will fly very high.