Today is the second day of the first lunar month
According to folk customs
Married daughter
Today I will go back to my mother's house with my husband
So here's the problem
The second day of the Lunar New Year
Why go back to your mother's house?
Back to the mother's home, also known as "going to the mother's house"
It is a very distinctive folk custom
On this day
The daughter who marries must return to her mother's house
And walk with your husband
So this day is also called
"Greeting Day" or "Grandpa's Day"
In the old times
There is a concept called:
"The girl who marries out, the water that spills out"
thus
Return to my mother's house on the second day of the Chinese New Year
It is the daughter who marries
A moment of filial piety to parents
In fact
Which daughter doesn't want a daddy
The farther you marry
The more I look forward to going home for the New Year
The son-in-law should pay homage to his father-in-law and mother-in-law
The son-in-law fulfills his filial piety
This is also the embodiment of the harmonious family concept of the Chinese
But due to the epidemic in recent years
Many people are separated
But strong affection
There is no distance because of the distance
Whether it's going back to your mother's house
Or "Cloud New Year"
Uncles are facing a "major issue"
That is:
How to please the mother-in-law?
There is a saying:
"An aunt and a half"
The second day of the Chinese New Year
It's the uncles
A moment to express love for your father-in-law and mother-in-law
I often heard others ridicule before:
"You and your beloved girl
Mother-in-law in the middle."
So, please the mother-in-law
This is especially important
This one
【Strategies for pleasing the mother-in-law】
Please refer to your aunts
【The first trick: "Throw in the towel"】
If no one arrives, so will the ceremony.
Find out in advance what your mother-in-law likes,
Give her more gifts that her old man is happy with.
【The second trick: "More dedication"】
Usually more concerned,
Holidays and many greetings,
The mouth should be sweet, and the heart should be sincere,
Let your father-in-law and mother-in-law feel your love.
【The ultimate move: "Sound East Strikes West"】
If you want to win the favor of your father-in-law and mother-in-law,
More love for your wife.
They feel your kindness to their daughter,
Must have been very happy too.
【Adapted into a poem to please the mother-in-law' raiders】
Poetry:
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
The mouth should be sweet and the hands should be diligent
Gift greetings have to be loving
Be sincere, don't be a routine
Well-behaved gentleman is endearing
Say it's "flattering"
In fact, it is more important to reveal the truth
Less routines
More sincerity
It is the biggest "magic weapon" to win the praise of father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Friendly Reminder:
Please the mother-in-law
Health comes first
Pray to the New Year on the clouds
Do not gather outside
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