"Whose daughter-in-law, she was busy and busy, it turned out that she was going back to her mother's house, wearing a big red coat, wearing a flower on her head, rouge and incense powder on her face, a chicken in her left hand, a duck in her right hand, and a fat doll on her back..."
This song "Back to Mother's House" can be described as popular, almost everyone can sing.
On the second day of the first lunar month, most parts of China have the custom of returning to their mother's home. This day is also called "Greeting the Son-in-Law Day", and there are many customs in various parts of the mainland, although the forms are different, but they all reflect the family affection of reunion, harmony and harmony.
The reason why I chose the second day of the Chinese New Year is because I have to get up early on the first day of the Chinese New Year, and after people get up early, they will fire firecrackers, open the blessing gate, greet the gods of wealth and joy, and go out to prostrate themselves for the New Year.
Every house is like this, everyone is busy.
On the second day of the Chinese New Year, people do not have to get up early, everyone is idle, and at this time, when they return to their mother's home, they can talk about the past and chat about home with their brothers and sisters who have not been seen for a long time.
The daughters who married out took their husbands and children back to their mother's house to visit the New Year on the second day of the Chinese New Year.
Married daughter
Returning to the mother's home, also known as "walking the mother's house", is a very distinctive folk custom.
在正月初二这一天出嫁的女儿要回娘家而且要与丈夫同行。
Folk believe that the daughter who marries cannot return to the door on the first day of the New Year, and returning to the door will eat the mother's family poor, and can only return to the mother's home after the second day of the first year.
In the old days, there was a concept called: "The girl who marries out, the water that is spilled out." Therefore, returning to her mother's home on the second day of the Chinese New Year is the moment when the married daughter expresses filial piety to her parents.
In fact, which daughter does not want to be a mother, the farther she marries, the more she looks forward to going home for the New Year.
You will also be able to better appreciate the old saying: mother's family blessing, not called blessing.
A daughter is blessed in her mother's house, not called blessed, but blessed to still enjoy happiness in her husband's family.
In the mother's family, she is a daughter, and she is naturally blessed to be cared for by her parents.
When you arrive at your husband's house, you are cared for by your husband, accepted by your in-laws, and you still maintain happiness between raising your children and family chores.
After all, most of my life is spent at my husband's house, not at my mother's house.
If a woman chooses a man, she actually chooses the happiness of the second half of her life.
It's an expectation, and it's even more a trust.
Therefore, the husband should give more understanding and support in this regard, after all, every wife who is busy in chai rice oil and salt has once been a "little princess" in the palm of someone else's hand.
愿这美好的日子能让浓浓的亲情，不因为距离而疏远，更因为春节期间的相聚，变得更加厚重而宽广！
Half a child's aunt
There is a folk proverb that says: "On the second day of the first lunar month, all the people on the road are Xiaosheng and Xiaodan."
It is said that on the second day of the Chinese New Year, the streets are full of men carrying gifts and preparing to return to their mother's house with their wives.
On this day, the son-in-law wants to pay homage to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and the son-in-law does a filial piety, which is also the embodiment of the harmonious family concept of the Chinese.
There is a saying: "An aunt is half a child". On the second day of the Chinese New Year, the "uncles" were also full of energy, bringing gifts to visit their father-in-law and mother-in-law. It is a good opportunity for "half a child" to meet "mother-in-law".
Therefore, returning to her mother's home on the second day of the Chinese New Year is also the moment when the "uncles" express their love for their fathers-in-law and mother-in-law.
The warmth of the two families
Nowadays, who to return home for the New Year has become a "choice problem" that married men and women have to face every year.
There are also some people who are embarrassed because of the disagreement, whose "mother's house" will they return to for the New Year?
Many people have given the answer with actions: some people choose to rotate the New Year, some people bring both parents to swim together, and some people pick up both parents to celebrate the New Year together.
The original "two families" have become a family: reminiscing about the past, talking about the family, so that the family affection can be more intense, and the love can be placed! It not only enhances feelings, but also tenders the years!
Tomorrow is the second day of the first year, are the married sisters ready to go back to their mother's house?