Originally a high school sophomore with excellent character and academic qualities, Ali has always dreamed of going to college and becoming a good fashion designer. However, after watching several talent shows on TV

Originally a high school sophomore with excellent character and academic qualities, Ali has always dreamed of going to college and becoming a good fashion designer. However, after watching several talent shows on TV, Ali's thinking has changed a lot. She thought: Why can't I design clothes for myself? Why can't I get someone else to design clothes for me? Coupled with the good condition of Ali's appearance, at the instigation of friends, Ali decided to participate in the talent show. The teachers advised her not to be impulsive, but Ali couldn't listen. Next, it was to practice songs, buy costumes, and learn to act, not only did I have no time to study, but I often took leave. Soon, Ali's academic performance plummeted, and she was second to last in the semester exam. However, Ali feels that it is all worth it, which star has a good academic performance?

In this way, Ali confidently participated in a talent show. Unexpectedly, the first round was brushed off, which made Ali very angry. She felt that she was much stronger than the contestants who stayed behind, and she thought that the judges had no vision, or had unspoken rules. But she didn't give up, always fantasizing that she would be discovered by a director or a record label. As a result, she lost many battles, and each time she was eliminated miserably. During this period, she did not pass the high school entrance examination, and she did not get her high school diploma, let alone the college entrance examination. Today, Ali is unemployed at home and still has no heart for the dream of stardom. Whenever she encountered difficulties, she comforted herself like this: of course, the road to stardom will not be so smooth, and didn't Wang Baoqiang become famous overnight? There will always be Bó Lè who will find out.

Ali fell into an illusory psychological trap and was reluctant to wake up. Many young people have dreamed of stardom like Ari. In fact, many of them have no pursuit of acting careers at all, but just like to be "stars".

Today's college students also have this mentality when they are employed, they pay too much attention to salary and employment units, and it is really sad that they are not employed and frequently jump jobs. Education experts advise college graduates that the number of graduates who currently need employment is very large, and the contradiction between supply and demand is more prominent, hoping that they will not hold the idea of being in place in one step and doing executives with high salaries just after graduation to find a job. This kind of thinking is very impetuous and does not help your career development at all.

There is a well-written lyric in the song "True Heart Hero": "No one can succeed casually." "There is no ladder in the world that allows us to easily knock on the door of success, and all successful people have gone through a painful struggle to achieve small success." Therefore, we still get rid of the temptation of ladder psychology, face the thorns and bumps in life, and be an indomitable warrior.

No one can succeed casually. There is no ladder in the world that allows us to easily knock on the door of success, and all successful people have gone through a painful struggle to achieve small success. If it is not a cold bone, where will the plum blossom smell? Therefore, we still face the thorns and bumps in life and be an indomitable warrior.

Some time ago, there was a news that was very hot, saying that a mover was deeply involved in the quagmire of buying lottery tickets and could not extricate himself, causing his wife to be separated. Many people did not buy lottery tickets before, always feel that winning the lottery is not so easy, but once they hear that someone has won a huge prize of 5 million yuan, people will be a little unable to hold back, red eyes that is certain, how good is it to get rich overnight, with so much money who still uses so hard work? Others can win the lottery, why can't I win? Maybe I'll be able to hit big luck one day. Many people buy lottery tickets with this mentality. The moving worker's job is certainly harder and doesn't make much money, and his motivation to change his life by buying lottery tickets is understandable. But the mover saw buying lottery tickets as the only means to change his fate. He bought all his salary into lottery tickets, but he never won even a second prize. But he still couldn't restrain himself, and every time he always thought, "What if I win this time?" As long as you win 5 million, you have everything. "The wife left him, and the son's tuition did not fall. But when he has money, he will still desperately buy lottery tickets. He said: "I don't know why, I always think that next time I will hit 5 million." It's really tempting! Who do you say wouldn't want to get rich overnight? ”

Another psychological cage. Fantasy is a common problem for many people. They always think, "What if I win?" In fact, how many "what ifs" are there in the world? Most people's success is achieved by being down-to-earth and hardworking.

However, we often see people who have "background", "connections", and "connections", these people make us mentally unbalanced, and feel that good luck always falls on them. As the saying goes: "Thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi." "I've never done anything that hurts heaven and earth, god should always take care of himself once, right?"

There is an old saying that teaches us: "Only when you eat bitterly, you will be a superior person." However, there are always some "smart people" who want to find shortcuts to become "people on top" without suffering, believing that once they sit on the through train leading to fame and fortune, glory and wealth, they will have to wind and rain. This kind of psychology is absolutely undesirable, not only is it not conducive to the development of life, but it may also hinder normal life.

"Star complex" is the psychology that most people have, especially the flood of talent shows today, which has made countless young boys and girls have unrealistic fantasies. They tend to see only flowers and applause, screaming fans, and extravagant living and countless bills. Wang Baoqiang, the actor of many in "Soldier Assault", has leapt from an obscure mass actor to a big star who is rushed to report by the media, and has also become the object of pursuit by countless people with star dreams. They thought the same opportunity would come to them. So, they gave up their studies or jobs, and instead applied for art schools, or went to become extras, dreaming of which director they would one day be photographed by, so that they would become famous overnight, becoming big stars like Fan Bingbing, Zhang Ziyi, and Jackie Chan, living in villas, driving famous cars, and living an enviable life.