The man died, alone on the mountain, only to be found a few days later. When the neighbor told him the bad news about the woman, the woman was still watching TV at home, and she was only a little flustered when she heard the news, and there was not too much sadness.
Many people can't figure it out, feel that the woman's heart is hard, her man died outside for a few days without knowing, so don't care about him? Is it that men are bad for women?
It's really not, on the contrary, men are good to women for a lifetime.
After a woman marries a man, although she is in the countryside, she rarely does even housework, let alone busy in the fields like other rural women.
Most of the men outside the home are handled by men, and men are afraid that women will not be able to bear that pain, and they do not want her to be so tired, and they all carry it themselves.
A woman is a person who enjoys the blessings of the family, has been served by men all her life, and gradually becomes a habit, and she feels that what men pay is deserved.
After the man dies, the woman thinks more about the fact that no one will take care of her anymore, and there are not many other sorrows.
There is a serious asymmetry in the marriage between the two of them, one person is too good for the other person, the other person takes this good as a habit, and will not cherish it too much over time, nor will he realize that he should also do something for the other party, and he does not know that he should also be doubly good for the other party.
A truly good marriage should be two people supporting each other and caring for each other, and one person pays unilaterally, so that perhaps in exchange for more of the other party's reasonableness and final indifference.
If he loves you very much, then don't forget to give him some love and care, such a marriage may be happier and longer.
