Source: Big River Newspaper
In July 2020, Li Moujun, a single man from Jiyuan, released a message about marriage solicitation, knowing a post-80s woman who called herself "female garden director". No, this woman turned out to be a "cheating woman". In just one month, this seemingly sweet encounter cost him 150,000 yuan. On June 11, 2021, Li Moujun sued his former "lover" in a single complaint to the Jiyuan Municipal People's Court. Afterwards, he discovered that the woman was involved in multiple enforcement cases. In addition, there are others who have had similar experiences with him.
WeChat marriage "singles" meet the right person
Li Moujun, 46, lives in Beishi Village, Chengliu Town, Jiyuan City. Due to the early death of his parents, only he and a younger sister were left in the family. In recent years, with his sister's marriage, he has been working to make ends meet. Because his family was too poor, his marriages failed one after another, so that he was still a bare stick after a year of confusion.
"I want to have a home and live a good life." Li Moujun said that this is what he has always desired. On July 17, 2020, he was anxious about marriage and sent a marriage message through the circle of friends. Soon, a woman took the initiative to add his WeChat, and after a brief chat, the woman proposed to meet on the same day.
At night, in Jiyuan's Century Square, the two met. The woman said that her name was Lu Moujing, born in 1981, divorced for many years without love, and now runs a kindergarten alone. Seeing that the woman wore a pair of glasses, had a quiet appearance, and spoke reasonably, Mr. Li was very satisfied. At the same time, the woman expressed satisfaction with him and praised others for their truth.
"He is both a local and a kindergarten director, a role model for others, and will not deceive people." Li Moujun was very relieved. The two talked more and more, and even talked about having children after marriage. Deep in love, he told his situation truthfully: many years ago, he had lost more than 100,000 yuan in business, not only had no house and car, but also had no savings.
"If you hate me for having nothing and don't want to be with me, I don't blame you." In the WeChat chat between the two, he said emotionally. Lu Moujing comforted him, saying that she was not a material woman.
Li Moujun, who thought that he had finally found his sweetheart, did not know that he had fallen into an elaborate "trap".
Marriage heart has paid 150,000 yuan "bride price"
On the same day, Lu Moujing said that the contracted kindergarten was facing problems with capital turnover and proposed to borrow 8,000 yuan from him. Li Moujun readily agreed. He first transferred 4,000 yuan to the woman, and the next day, he borrowed 4,000 yuan from his co-workers and transferred it to the woman.
Next, Lu Moujing proposed to "flash marriage" with him, saying that he could not have a house and a car, provided that after he paid a dowry of 60,000 yuan, he could apply for a marriage license. Li Moujun was eager to get married, and quickly gathered enough money of 60,000 yuan to transfer it to Lu Moujing.
When everything was done, he began to wait for the day of his marriage license. However, unlike his eagerness, Lu Moujing was not in a hurry after getting the money, and said that the money he took was too small to repay the foreign debt, and he needed to continue to take the money.
At first, Li Moujun was a little suspicious of Lu Moujing's frequent demand for money, and he tried to ask where the address of the kindergarten she opened was. Lu Moujing always refused to disclose. After asking more questions, Lu Moujing sent him a photo of his kindergarten qualification certificate. The photo shows that the person in charge of the kindergarten is indeed Lu Moujing, but the address column is covered.
"Every day, the WeChat chat content is basically all about money." Li Moujun shook his head and sighed. In the face of Lu Moujing's uninterrupted collection of money every day, he had to collect money again and again to transfer it to her. And every time, Lu Moujing told him that this is the last time, and he will never want it again in the future.
In order to get a marriage certificate as soon as possible, Li Moujun had to transfer 100,000 yuan to her within a month according to the requirements. He silently comforted himself, "As long as you live a good life, it will not be difficult for the two of you to work hard to pay off your debts in the future." ”
The girlfriend repented that he was too poor to refuse to marry
As the days passed, Lu Moujing seemed to have changed like a person, facing his request for a marriage license, and began to prevaricate and prevaricate for various reasons, and ignored him.
The more Li Moujun thought about it, the more wrong he became, and he felt that something was wrong. "Where's the money?" Why do you keep asking for money?" Under his repeated questioning, Lu Moujing finally admitted that he owed foreign debt due to gambling.
In August 2020, he once again urged Lu Moujing to get a license to marry himself, this time, Lu Moujing made it clear that he would not marry him, and hated him for having nothing, "You are too poor, nothing, I am not a fool!" This sentence, like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, made him completely abandon the illusion of marriage. He asked the other party to return his dowry, but Lu Moujing said that the money had been used up and there was no money to return to him.
In September 2020, after much hesitation, Li Moujun chose to call the police. Subsequently, under the mediation of the police, the two wrote a mediation agreement: due to Ms. Lu's poor current situation, the two people negotiated for repayment after three months, and repaid by the end of December 2020, during which the credit card procedures were borne by Ms. Lu. Lu Moujing also wrote an IOU of 138,000 yuan to Li Moujun.
However, Lu Moujing did not repay the loan according to the agreement. On June 11, 2021, Li Moujun sued the former "lover" to the Jiyuan Municipal People's Court in a complaint, demanding that she refund the loan of 149,500 yuan.
● Behind the lie The "girlfriend" is involved in multiple enforcement cases
"Under the guise of marriage, using the identity of a teacher, he deliberately cheated money." Angry and helpless, Li Moujun complained about his experience to the media. After the news report, he learned that there were many victims like him. In contrast, he and Lu Moujing had the shortest time of contact, just one month.
On October 9, the judgment provided by Mr. Li shows that on August 2, 2021, the Jiyuan Municipal People's Court ordered Lu Moujing to pay Li Moujun 149,500 yuan within 10 days after the judgment took effect.
However, after the case entered the enforcement stage, Li Moujun was surprised and angry again. The enforcement judge told him that in addition to him, there were many civil enforcement cases under Lu Moujing's name, and he was currently unable to perform the judgment.
For this statement, the reporter of Dahe Daily specifically contacted the executive judge of Li Moujun for verification. The judge told reporters that there are currently 5 cases under Lu Moujing's name that are currently being executed. In addition to Li Moujun's case, there is another similar case. At the same time, he said that Lu Moujing was indeed the person in charge of a kindergarten, but not a legal person. Because there was no property available for enforcement in his name, enforcement was at an impasse for a while.
"She simply won't let me live!" In the face of reporters, Li Moujun covered his face and cried bitterly, and his emotions almost collapsed. He said that most of the dowries that have been paid to Lu Moujing have been raised through loans, loans and credit cards, and now he has not married, but has been deeply involved in the whirlpool of debt, and his body and mind have been seriously damaged.
"I absolutely cannot let her go, and I want her to be punished by the law!" Li Moujun said.
● Lawyers say that Lu Moujing may be suspected of fraud
On October 9, Qi Bo, director of Henan Langqi Law Firm and practicing lawyer, said in an interview that according to Li Moujun's statement that "there are many victims like him", then, he should consider the following aspects, such as: whether the purpose of Lu Moujing's request for money is consistent with the actual use after that, Lu Moujing deliberately concealed gambling debts, Lu Moujing's attitude before and after asking for a dowry, whether he had the true intention to conclude a marriage with Li Moujun, and other information similar to Li Moujun's encounter with a third party. The above information may be a clue to the suspected fraud crime.
As to whether the specific crime constitutes a crime, the public security organs should investigate and finally the people's court will make a ruling. However, in the current situation, Li Moujun can make a complaint with the public security organs, and the public security will decide whether to investigate and file a case.
Here, he reminded the public that marriage should be based on feelings, so both parties should strengthen exchanges and enhance understanding in order to trust each other. Do not blindly believe that "the sky will fall Lin Sister", if the two people just started to communicate, do not understand enough, the other party is asking for money for various reasons or proposing to get married as soon as possible, should be highly vigilant, do not fall into the beautiful trap.
Source: Dahe Newspaper reporter Cui Feng