It is often heard that after a wedding, the young couple newly married Yan'er. Does marriage have anything to do with swallows, and why is it said that newlywed swallows? What does this swallow mean? Is Yan'er here a behavior or habit of swallows? The unbridled editor of the bar answers what Yan'er means for you? Why do you say newlywed Yan'er?
Why do you say newlywed Yan'er?
Wondering why at the wedding, when it comes to the newlywed Yan'er, we should see what the newlywed Yan'er means?
What does newlywed Yan'er mean?
Unlike the positive meaning that we now use to say that the little couple has just married and is very loving, the newlywed Yan'er itself is a derogatory term!
The source of the newlywed Yan'er allusion is the "Book of Poetry, Shao Feng, Gu Feng": "Yan'er is newly married, like a brother like a brother." ”
That is to say, the newlywed Yan'er originally told the original husband to remarry and have fun with the new joy for the abandoned woman, and then reversed his intention and used it as a word to celebrate the new marriage. Describe the joy of the new marriage.
The story of the newlywed Yan'er
What does newlywed Yan'er mean? We already know that Yan'er is newly married, and newlywed Yan'er refers to the honeymoon of newlyweds, like glue, full of sweetness and happiness. But many people don't know what "Yan'er" means. What does Yan'er mean?" Yan'er" was first written as "Yan'er", and later in the long-term circulation process, because "Yan" and "Yan" are homophonous, it was mistakenly written "Yan'er", and people have not understood its meaning since then.
"Feast" means joy and joy, and "er" means you. "Feasting on your new marriage" is celebrating your new marriage. In this way, the word is incomprehensible: it is obviously "we" newlywed, celebrating "our" new marriage, how did it become a celebration of "your" new marriage? It turns out that there is a tragic story buried in it.
The earliest source of "Yan'er's New Marriage" is the "Book of Poetry, Shao Feng, Gu Feng". The poem is about an abandoned woman who confides in her unfortunate fate when she is thrown out of her home. The abandoned woman and her husband are a peasant couple, when they first got married, the family was very poor, and after marriage, through the joint efforts of the two, the family's situation slowly improved. The most capable were the wives, who built dams for fishing, weaved fishing baskets into the dams to catch fish, and sold them at the market. The wife's heart is very kind, and if the neighbor has something difficult to do, he will rush to help even if he crawls.
But I didn't expect that the family situation was better, but the husband changed his heart, and the previous "And Er died together" Hai Oath Mountain League was all left behind, looking at other more beautiful women, like the new and tired of the old, punching and kicking his wife, and the hard work and heavy work were all pressed on the wife. What is even more heinous is to kick the ex-wife out of the house on the day of marrying a new wife, and he is not willing to give more than one step, just to the door of the house and stop moving. The abandoned woman left the house alone and embarked on the road back to her mother's house.
The sound of the wedding that was taking place at home was heard in the ears of the abandoned woman, and she could not help but be full of resentment and chanted such a verse- "The new marriage of the feast is like a brother like a brother." "Yan'er's new marriage" was originally an accusation of blood and tears of an abandoned woman, but later it became the sweetness of honeymoon! The change of meaning of the word can never hide the sorrow of the abandoned woman!