The writer Han Han once said: "We have reason to believe that love based on love is short-lived, because love itself is short-lived; And love based on money is forever, because money is forever. ”
Perhaps, this is also the reason why modern people are secular, talking about money may be vulgar, but the life of not talking about money is definitely a chicken feather, the era of sentient drinking water has passed, and instead money determines the degree of happiness.
It is precisely for this reason that every woman wants to marry a man with relatively good material conditions, and then run a marriage that does not have to worry about money, but life has no script after all, not what you want to get, the hand of fate will arrange something, some things, the harder you work, the more futile.
As the saying goes: it is better to rely on others than on themselves, but some women still hope to find a good man to change their economic situation, and the result is a lot of jokes.
In a program, a 22-year-old girl's blind date has attracted the attention of netizens, this girl's surname is Zheng, just graduated from college, with a monthly salary of five thousand, a good face, the reason for the blind date, is to rely on young beauty to find a good husband, and then become a rich wife with no worries.
At the beginning of the show, Ms. Zheng did not hide her vanity at all, demanding that the man must prepare a 500,000 dowry.
This price has dissuaded many people who are close to her, and finally, under the full efforts of the program team, she finally found a rich second generation JiaGe who meets Ms. Zheng's requirements.
Jia Ge is 32 years old, the family has tens of millions of family properties, monthly consumption of more than 50,000, claiming that the only advantage is not lack of money, from the condition alone, is the ideal object of Ms. Zheng.
However, at the first sight of the meeting, Ms. Zheng expressed her strong dissatisfaction: she looked average, a little short, and quite dark.
Jia Ge was quite satisfied with Ms. Zheng and made it clear that he liked it.
Then, the two began to explore the mode of in-depth discussion.
After a simple greeting, Ms. Zheng cut into the theme and put forward her own requirements: "The bride price is 500,000, the house is 180 square meters, and the car is BMW 5 series." ”
Jia Ge's face did not change the color of the sitting land increase: "The bride price is added two million, the house is a villa, and the car is a luxury car." ”
Having money is really willful, and three words and two words make Ms. Zheng's heart blossom.
After agreeing to Ms. Zheng's request, Jia Ge also put forward his own request, he felt that Ms. Zheng earned too little five thousand a month, let her resign as a full-time wife, dress up beautifully every day, and accompany him to various socializing.
Ms. Zheng was not happy to hear it, she felt that modern women should have their own careers, but also have their own social circles, and cannot all-round around men.
The two had a heated discussion about whether to work, and neither could convince anyone, so in desperation, the issue was put on hold and the next topic was discussed.
At the next stage, Ms. Zheng made another request, the rich man made her insecure, not allowing her to empathize after aging and not falling in love, just in case, Ms. Zheng proposed to add her name to the property certificate of Jia Ge's villa.
After hearing this sentence, Jia Ge, who had always been generous, had a complicated expression on his face, obviously he did not want to add, and the question was still unable to reach an agreement.
Then, the two talked about children, this time Jia Ge said: give birth to a girl 400,000, give birth to a boy 800,000, each child with two nannies, plus a house.
The reason why Jia Ge said this is because his family has three generations of single transmission, and he is more anxious about having children, hoping that the more he has, the better.
After Ms. Zheng heard it, she shyly covered her face and smiled, thinking that she would happily agree to this, but unexpectedly, she said that she was so young and did not want to have children, let alone a machine that gave birth to children.
Therefore, in the issue of having a child, the two disagreed again, and began to persuade each other, Jia Ge felt that early birth and late birth had to be born, but Ms. Zheng felt that the youth and beauty were gone after giving birth to a child.
Jia Ge offered to ask a professional beauty and yoga teacher to restore her physical beauty, but Ms. Zheng felt that the day after tomorrow repair and natural maintenance were two different things.
The question hit the nail again, and the two continued to put it on hold, moving on to the next topic.
Jia Ge proposed to try marriage before marriage and observe in advance whether each other could be put together in terms of life, but Ms. Zheng refused, and also said her own concerns: If the two are not suitable for marriage, then their innocence will not be ruined?
In this regard, Jia Ge also has concerns, then in case he finds it inappropriate after marriage and wants to divorce and divide the property, then is it not his own loss?
After talking about various problems, the two people's plans for married life are contrary to each other, one: Jia Ge hopes that his wife will be a full-time wife, and Ms. Zheng feels that women should have their own careers; two: Ms. Zheng hopes that the villa has its own name, and Jia Ge feels inappropriate; three: Jia Ge hopes that his wife can have more children, and Ms. Zheng feels that she is not a child machine; fourth: Jia Ge hopes to try marriage before marriage, and Ms. Zheng does not want to gamble on an uncertain future with innocence.
Four problems, let this blind date end in failure, in the final analysis, in the man's various conditions, the woman instigated, everywhere to talk about money in the marriage, she is afraid of her own loss, so dare not continue.
After watching this blind date, I understand that when there is only money and no feelings in marriage, it is a game without temperature, and both are racking their brains to calculate each other, only to forget that love is the basis of happiness.
It is undeniable that in this era of the supremacy of money, it is impractical not to talk about money, but if you only talk about money, then marriage becomes an exchange of interests, and love has no sincerity to speak of.
Therefore, many things do not have absolute truth, and marriage should talk about money and love. Marriages with love and no material things alone are not secure, and marriages with money and no feelings alone are cold.
Ms. Zheng is as beautiful as a flower, and may be able to rely on young capital to find the rich man of her choice, but she based her marriage on the supremacy of appearance at the beginning, and when her youth passed away, Fanghua was no longer, it was the day she was left out in the cold.
After all, a woman's beauty will be outdated, but a man's money will never be outdated.
Jia Ge is rich and may be able to rely on money to find a woman who can bear children for him, but when a woman bears children for him for money, don't expect her sincerity.
After all, money can be made a lot, but sincerity is the hardest to find.
Therefore, both men and women must establish a happy family, first of all, they must have love as the foundation, secondly, they must have the determination to accompany each other to the old age, and finally let the material add icing on the cake to the life of the small family.
There is no calculation, only a two-way marriage can create a warm and happy family.
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