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Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

There are still two days to go to the New Year, Lang Lang and Gina at the same time posted a post to celebrate their son's first birthday, accompanied by a picture of a family of three hugging together, so happy.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

From the picture, it can be seen that Lang Lang is holding her son who has just turned one year old, and Gina is holding Lang Lang's waist with one hand and holding her son with the other, which happens to be the Year of the Tiger this year, and also uses the tiger's head to block the son's face, from the details, they want to protect their son well.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

Another photo is also Gina sitting on the table holding her son, happily interacting with her son, and Lang Lang bends down to watch the interaction between the two of them, and also covers her son's face with a tiger's head, which shows from the picture that their family is happy and happy.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

A long time ago, I knew that Lang Lang and Gina were very affectionate, whether in reality or on TV, no matter where they went, they were holding hands, I heard that at this point, the two of them were still touring in Spain, and the address of the post was also shown in Spain, Lang Lang gave a song "Jasmine" to China's upcoming Spring Festival at the Spanish concert.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

The two of them are probably two people who are super affectionate in the entertainment industry, participating in the show are two people going together, Lang Lang opened the concert, Gina also accompanied by her son, both of them are superb pianos, it is estimated that in the future, the son will be a great pianist in such a family atmosphere.

However, Lang Lang's expectations for his son: he does not need his son to have expectations on the piano, because the piano is not the only way out, and if the son wants to do something else, he will try to support him.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

For such a well-meaning father Kefan very much approve of his ideas, unlike some parents do not regard their children as an independent person, forcing their children to strictly follow their own ideas to implement, if the children are not willing, parents will be very angry, and even scold their children.

They have never thought that their children have their own ideas, always hurt their children's hearts in the name of "good for you", and always force their children to do what their parents think is good.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

Wait until the child grows up to rebel, disobey, and even serve the family law, so that the discipline and scolding of the child from an early age will make the child become a child with an unhealthy mind and inferiority.

In reality, there are still many such parents, as long as the child is disobedient, they will scold the child and let the child obey themselves, will the child really be happy?

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

Some parents for the sake of their children's good grades, admitted to a good high school, desperately to their children to apply for cram classes, to do a variety of test papers for children, squeeze the child has no free time, even if only once the results are not good, they will be scolded to look up, and even intensify the test paper for the child, so blindly let the child test for the exam, have parents ever thought about which day the child can not stand, is it possible to think about it?

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

So, can parents give their children a little free time to do what they love to do? Wouldn't this be more efficient? Usually take children out to see and see nature, see more small animals, go to the amusement park to play, relax, this is also a kind of learning, if you wait for the child's heart to be traumatized and then regret it is too late.

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

So, take advantage of now, take more children to play, a little more time to interact with children's parents and children, life is not only learning, there are many happy things, learn from play, absorption will be better, it is not easy to forget, outdoor activities are very important, try to take children to experience more, think about when they were young by their parents forced to write homework, endorsement, they are not in a good mood, long-term repression is easy to cause rebellious psychology, and line and cherish, after all, children really accompany their own time is very little, Wait until college to get married, it is difficult to see the dog every day, or a little more tolerant...

Longlangina celebrates her son's birthday and supports her son to do what he likes, and some parents should reflect

Thank you Lang Lang and Gina for bringing positive energy years ago, I hope that everyone can think more about their children's mental health, consider their children's achievements, explore their children's hobbies, support him, encourage him, cheers, parents!

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