"There is you in this life" Zhong Hanliang "regressed" back to the most beautiful years
CCTV hit drama "There Is You in This Life", the audience suffered in sadomasochism.
In the plot of the latest episode, Tan Jing, played by Li Xiaoran, rejected the marriage proposal of Nie Yusheng played by Zhong Hanliang, who was absent-minded in driving and had a traffic accident. When you wake up, you actually want to eat "spicy hot"! After a series of pure behavioral speeches, he was diagnosed with "psychological regression".
Before watching the drama, I only knew about amnesia, but I didn't expect to make such a professional term this time.
Talk to everyone about science.
"Psychological regression" refers to the fact that when people encounter setbacks or are in a negative state such as anxiety, they give up more mature acquired behaviors and skills and retreat to a relatively early lifestyle and behavioral skills to meet their own needs.
You can understand that "psychological regression" is to activate the self-protection mechanism, and we see that Nie Yusheng returned to the university era after suffering psychological regression in the play. That was when he was preparing to go abroad, and Tan Jing also passed the IELTS test. Everything is in the best state. Then, the little friends watching the drama can know that Tan Jing's father died of a heart attack, and Tan Jing hated Nie Yusheng's father and proposed to break up. For the next seven years, Nie Yusheng lived in pain.
This happens in middle-aged people because they feel a "midlife crisis", anxiety, fear of growing old, and psychological "help" to choose self-protection to avoid fear and anxiety. Manifested by a reduced sense of responsibility and even the beginning of eating children's food.
Psychological regression will occur at any stage, and people around you should be reminded, helped and cared for in time. Actively cooperate in a mature way to confront psychological conflicts and real problems faced. Living in "youth" is just an escape.
The overall tone of "With You in This Life" has been set, and the happy ending will come as scheduled. I hope that "Yusheng" will wake up as soon as possible and release the pain. Tan Jing can also believe in Nie Yusheng's love for herself and face difficulties together.
