Once when Zhao Benshan called his daughter Zhao Yufang, Zhao Yufang suddenly said:
"Dad, I miss you."
Hearing this, Zhao Benshan's nose was sour, looking back on the past, he consciously cared for and cared for his daughter too little.
Feeling guilty, Zhao Benshan took Zhao Yufang to his home, which was also the first time Zhao Yufang came to his father's house after his parents divorced.
Unexpectedly, when I learned that Zhao Yufang had come to the house, Zhao Benshan's second wife, Ma Lijuan, was very dissatisfied with this.
Not only did he treat Zhao Yufang coldly when he entered the door, but he also closed the door afterwards.
Zhao Yufang, who entered the society very early to work hard, is very good at observing the color, only to find that her stepmother is not waiting for herself.
After eating, Zhao Yufang left with interest.
Zhao Benshan was very dissatisfied with this and said angrily:
"She is my own daughter, you love me, you have to be good to her, she will come to see me often in the future, if you have been unable to accept this, then divorce!" 」
Later, Zhao Benshan arranged work for her daughter, but despite this, she also started from the grassroots level.
Not long after working, Zhao Yufang reached the age of marriage and lived a meticulous life every day.
On the other hand, her youngest daughter Zhao Yihan grew up in the palm of her hand, from the film and television industry to live streaming with goods.
Zhao Benshan laboriously fulfilled all her requirements.
The same is Zhao Benshan's child, why is the gap so big?
01
Zhao Benshan was born in 1957 in Tieling, Liaoning.
Coming from a poor background, he grew up on a very poor life, and when he was six years old, his mother died of illness.
His father also left him young and fled, and since then he has become an orphan without a father and a mother.
Fortunately, his blind second uncle was very fond of him, not only treating him as his own, but also teaching him a lot of knowledge and skills.
With the second uncle teaching him skills such as blowing, pulling erhu, and turning two people, Zhao Benshan found a job in the literary and art propaganda team.
With the dissolution of the propaganda team, Zhao Benshan became an unemployed vagrant again, and after a few years of muddling.
He also reached the age of starting a family, but he was poor and had no parents, and he was disliked by the people around him.
Until later, the mother of his elementary school classmates could not see the eyes and helped him to open up the marriage,
Zhao Benshan met Ge Shuzhen.
Ge Shuzhen is also the child of the bitter family, with several brothers and sisters in the family, and her life is poor.
Marrying out as early as possible can also reduce the burden on the family.
Ge Shuzhen, who is accustomed to a hard life, does not have many requirements for Zhao Benshan, and can live a solid life.
In this way, two people who longed for a family came together, met in 1979, and married in 1979.
With a family, Zhao Benshan also has the motivation to struggle.
The two belong to the first marriage and then love, at first the two respect each other as guests, the female protagonist inside the male protagonist outside, the life is very stable.
Later, in the daily relationship between the two people, the feelings of the two gradually warmed up.
Day after day, I have an infinite vision for the future, in order to let my woman live a good life.
Zhao Benshan continued to work hard in his career, and finally had a head start, he stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala with the craftsmanship he learned from his second uncle.
During this period, it was Ge Shuzhen who took care of the size of the family and gave birth to a son and a daughter for him.
Ge Shuzhen has always been very supportive of Zhao Benshan's career and expressed understanding for her husband's busy behavior.
As a virtuous wife and mother, she took care of some things in an orderly manner, and Zhao Benshan, who had no worries, went farther and farther in his career.
The situation of gathering less and leaving more makes the feelings between the two more and more weak, especially after the fire, Zhao Benshan has seen the wider world,
There was also a gap in this arranged marriage, not only that, but during this time, the younger son was also found to have hypochondriasis and heart disease.
The onset of the illness not only crushed the son's body, but also caused the family to fall apart because of the huge expenses.
In order to collect the money for his son's medical treatment, Zhao Benshan became even more homeless.
But Ge Shuzhen, who has no culture and no great insight, hopes that her husband can stay when facing the burden of life.
On the one hand, the huge medical expenses of her son, on the other hand, the dependence on her husband, Ge Shuzhen is increasingly independent in the entanglement.
Soon, Zhao Benshan's fame spread all over the country, and the money in his pocket was also increasing, and he successfully became the first ten thousand yuan household in the village.
A night of popularity made Zhao Benshan lose himself, and also let him get lost in the flowers and greenery of the outside world.
Zhao Benshan's popularity has also made the gap between him and Ge Shuzhen bigger and bigger, and the topic between the two is getting less and less.
With the few meetings, the two no longer intersected, and eventually the relationship lit up a red light.
At first, Zhao Benshan felt guilty about his wife, and was embarrassed to say that he was divorced for the sake of face.
But the clear-eyed people can see what he thinks, that is, Ge Shuzhen is deeply trapped in it and can't see clearly.
Perhaps the people around him also realized that this marriage existed in name only, so they told Zhao Benshan:
"I really can't get by."
In May 1991, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen went through divorce procedures.
In order to make up for his wife, he left the more than 200,000 yuan of savings and the house and car he earned to his wife and left the house.
Considering that his children were small and he was busy, Zhao Benshan left his children with Ge Shuzhen.
Ge Shuzhen has more than 200,000 yuan in her hands, but she will not operate, and in the process of treating her son, the money is getting less and less.
In order not to sit on the mountain and eat the air, Ge Shuzhen looked for jobs everywhere, and she did the work of waiters, cleaners, nannies, etc.
Nevertheless, in 1993, the youngest son had a heart attack and died at the age of 12.
The blow of her son's death and the long period of overwork caused Ge Shuzhen to fall ill.
02
But what was Zhao Benshan doing before?
I'm talking to Ma Lijuan.
The two met in 1988, ma Lijuan was a teacher at the Xiqu Academy, and the two met unexpectedly because of a performance.
When we first met, Ma Lijuan was young and beautiful, and she was knowledgeable and could talk to anyone.
Ma Lijuan's excellence attracted Zhao Benshan's attention, so in the subsequent relationship, Zhao Benshan always intentionally or unintentionally contacted her.
Over time, he became fond of Ma Lijuan.
The surging love made Zhao Benshan lose his mind.
At this time, Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan were still just friends, and they were also Zhao Benshan's unrequited love.
He had been divorced and did not have much culture, and Zhao Benshan always had some inferiority in front of Ma Lijuan.
So the relationship between the two has always stopped as friends.
Until 1992, Zhao Benshan was hospitalized in a car accident, and when Ma Lijuan learned of this matter, she traveled thousands of miles to take care of him.
In the relationship between the two in the hospital, the feelings gradually warmed up, and Zhao Benshan saw that there was a drama between the two.
After that, he invited Ma Lijuan to his team to give a lecture.
As they came and went, the two became more and more acquainted, so Zhao Benshan took the initiative to open the window paper, and in the same year the two entered the wedding hall.
In the second year after the marriage of the two, bad news came from their hometown, and Zhao Benshan's son died of illness.
Although Zhao Benshan did not participate in his son's treatment and escort, his blood thicker than water affection made him feel like he was struck by lightning.
During that time, Zhao Benshan was immersed in sadness, and often stayed alone in the room for a day.
After that, he vented the pain of losing his son in his career, and it was this force that made Zhao Benshan's fame completely start.
Not only has he appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times, but also starred in many film and television works.
Gradually, there is a saying that "there is no Spring Festival Gala without Benshan" and "after passing through Shanhaiguan, there is something to find Benshan".
In the Spring Festival of 1997, Zhao Benshan, who participated in the Spring Festival Gala, had just stepped off the stage when he received a call from home.
After answering the phone, he ran home in a hurry. It turned out that Ma Lijuan gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
The arrival of the two children made Zhao Benshan smile again, and washed away the pain of losing his son.
So he poured all his favor into the two children, and named the two children Zhao Yihan and Zhao Yinan.
At this time, Zhao Benshan lived a very rich life, luxury villas, luxury cars, cruise ships, and even a private plane.
Material satisfaction made Zhao Benshan cherish family affection and love even more, so since the birth of two children,
Zhao Benshan arranged the best treatment for them, and then sent their children abroad for education.
It is no exaggeration to say that two children grew up with golden spoons.
03
In 2003, Zhao Benshan set up his own media company and had a more stable income.
In satisfying his children's material lives, he also longs for his children to receive a better education.
So he began to plan for his children, and saw that his young daughter was full of yearning for film and television.
He took his 8-year-old daughter to the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and took photos with many well-known directors and stars.
His son Zhao Yinan is also proud of his father, and he often brags about his father to his classmates.
Because there was no parent-teacher conference, no one had ever seen Zhao Yinan's father, so no one believed that it was his father.
For this reason, Zhao Yihan returned home with his head down, and said pitifully to Zhao Benshan:
"Dad, you sign me a few names."
Zhao Benshan smiled and took him in his arms and asked, "Why do you want to sign?" ”
Zhao Yihan told the beginning and end of the matter, and Zhao Benshan laughed:
"Well, Daddy will send you to school tomorrow, won't they believe it?"
Zhao Benshan sent his son to school, and was envied by many children, and when they learned that Zhao Benshan was Zhao Yinan's father, they all looked at Zhao Yinan with adoring eyes, which greatly satisfied Zhao Yinan's vanity.
After all, it was a child, and his father was a big star who was very proud of him.
When they were a little older, Zhao Yihan and Zhao Yinan followed their mothers to study abroad.
However, Zhao Yihan, who has been pampered since childhood, not only did not break through the achievements abroad, but also learned to rebel, plastic surgery, early love, and show off wealth.
The grades are often at the bottom, and after graduation, they did not choose to retake or continue to develop, but directly returned to China.
After returning to China, Zhao Benshan took care of everything for her.
In order to meet Zhao Yihan's desire to shoot a drama, Zhao Benshan used his personal connections to send his daughter to the "Hometown Love" crew.
Entering the show business for the first time, Zhao Benshan did not arrange important roles for his daughter, but a supporting role to test the waters.
After that, he arranged for Zhao Yihan to cooperate with Lin Xinxin and play a couple.
After filming several film and television works in a row, Zhao Yihan did not make much of a splash in the film and television industry.
Perhaps Zhao Yihan and Zhao Benshan realized that plastic surgery face is not far away in their acting careers, so Zhao Yihan took the express train with live streaming with goods.
In the live broadcast, Zhao Yihan gained a large number of fans and set a record of 880,000 yuan in two hours.
In order to win eyeballs and traffic, Zhao Yihan often pulled Zhao Benshan to appear in the live broadcast room.
Because of Zhao Benshan, Zhao Yihan has been invited by "Happy Base Camp" and "Every Day Upward".
And in the show with the "social you ball sister" quote quickly became popular.
After that, Zhao Yihan completely released himself, obsessed with plastic surgery, often injected in the face, and even spent 300,000 yuan to make a nose, which also made Zhao Benshan a little sad.
After all, who would want to see their child "wielding a knife" in the face?
Today, she has gained millions of fans and her love in the live broadcast industry, and her life is very leisurely.
04
On the other hand, Zhao Benshan's eldest daughter, Zhao Yufang, is particularly ordinary and low-key.
After experiencing the pain of losing her son, Ge Shuzhen also cherished her daughter even more, and she quickly cheered up for her daughter's future.
Raising her with hard work, Zhao Yufang is well aware of her mother's difficulties, and has become particularly sensible and takes the initiative to undertake housework.
In 1999, Zhao Yufang was admitted to Dalian Foreign Chinese College with her own efforts.
After graduation, Zhao Yufang was admitted to the establishment of the work.
In 2007, under the urging of her parents and friends, Zhao Yufang married Wang Yang.
On October 6, 2008, under the supervision of Zhao Benshan, Wang Yang and Zhao Yufang held a wedding.
The day before the wedding, Zhao Benshan looked at his daughter with tears in his eyes and said:
"Daddy is sorry for not giving you a complete home and making you bear a lot. Dad hopes that after you get married, live a good life and be happy forever! ”
On this night, the father and daughter let go of the gap of more than ten years.
After marriage, Zhao Yufang still lives with her mother, and the little two often take their mother out to play, and their lives are very happy.
Ge Shuzhen, who left Zhao Benshan, did not choose to remarry, but through her own efforts, she made a restaurant bigger.
Today, she no longer worries about work, does not worry about life, and has her own assets.
And Zhao Benshan's two daughters have also lived the life they wanted, which can also be regarded as complete.
However, when compared, it seems that the difference is so large.