Everyone says that the best way to treat a broken relationship is to start a new relationship, but is this really a good way to treat a broken relationship? If you can't enter the next relationship after breaking up, this period is called the "emotional window period", some people will be very empty and lonely in this period, and some people will be very reasonable to arrange this period, how to spend this period? How did you spend the emotional window period?
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In short, do something you like, enrich yourself, enrich yourself, continue to yearn for love, but not to heal your wounds, don't rush into the next relationship, just like the saying "What mistakes he made, why should I make up for it", which is unfair to new lovers.
Some people say that the way to get through the empty window period is to work, work every day, the benefits are too much, too busy to think about emotional things, and the loss of love has even stimulated the potential of work, and the tasks that have not been completed before can be exceeded.
Some people also say that they rely on reading to survive the empty window period, read professional books every day, and even take out the books of the first and second years to read again, and the problems that were felt bald at the time are now very easy to solve, so that they have the idea of continuing to study, and feel that their learning potential has been tapped.
There is also a netizen is very interesting, after the breakup of the empty window period, she felt too bored, and then accompanied another classmate to study for graduate school, the result of a strong interest in Chinese language and literature, and finally signed up for the exam, but also by a good school to be admitted.
In fact, if you think about it, breaking up is not a big deal, the reason why you will go to the step of breaking up is to show that you are not the right person for each other, since this is a mistake, why not end it? After the breakup, you will inevitably need an empty window period to "heal", in fact, this period of time is for you to think clearly about some things, you only understand what you want, what kind of people are suitable for you, think about this problem, and your empty window period can basically end. After letting go of this relationship, you can look for the next one.
Some people can't come out after a breakup, so the empty window period will be very long, or three or five years, and there are some people, after the breakup, the mentality adjustment is very fast, as long as they meet the right, basically will quickly invest in the next relationship. It really depends on how much you want to forget the other person, if you don't want to forget, then you will be immersed in it, if you want to forget, you may turn your head and forget him, and then throw yourself into the arms of others.
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