It is often said that relying on relatives at home, relying on friends when going out, friends have more roads to walk. The growth of a person, the guidance of the superior, the help of the nobles, the friends to raise the solemnity. Friends are people who, in addition to our partners, can know each other and love each other throughout their lives.
Sometimes friends insert knives in both ribs and look at each other. Sometimes staggered people pull people into the water, not afraid of opponents like wolves, afraid of teammates like pigs.
We all hope to meet close friends and friends, but we can't meet friends and bad neighbors, a hill of raccoons, and wine and meat friends. Making friends is not the more the better, not just casually. Although dating is not a selection of talents, not a choice of spouses, but also need to be examined and identified. The following five kinds of people cannot intersect, let alone deeply.
The first type of person, the one who does not honor his parents. We will meet some people who are arrogant and arrogant outside, but unfortunately, at home, they forget that the high church is on the top, do not honor their parents, and command their parents. In life, there will be people around them who have married their daughters-in-law and forgotten their parents; some people have entered the city and dare not recognize their parents who are from the peasant background in rags and clothes; some people have arrived at the organs, afraid of the earthy parents to come to the door, if there are such people in the circle of friends, they will break off friendship and estrangement from early. Can a man be loyal to his friends if he is not filial, disrespectful, or loving to the parents who gave birth to him?
The second kind of person, the person who does not lose money in business. The moon has profits and losses, clouds and clouds, people have gathered and scattered sorrows and joys, and everything has never always been kept as desired. If a friend is a businessman who never loses money and always makes a lot of money, then there are two possibilities. The first is to do evil deeds, steal chickens and dogs, and steal from the ocean, and certainly only earn money and not lose money, unless caught. Another situation is that people who are good at calculation, who must be more powerful and have no dime.
There is a Q&A on the Internet, saying that I went to dinner with two friends, went to the toilet myself, and the bill was there, and the two friends disappeared. Where can this be called friends! People who make money in this kind of business package and make friends with you must never be willing to pay, only want to get. Can you trust and be bold in your dealings?
The third kind of person, the one who drinks and does not get drunk. Wine every confidant a thousand cups less, words do not speculate more than half a sentence, no matter how good the wine, no matter how large the amount of alcohol can not withstand the enthusiasm of friends catalyzed, good brothers meet, often do not get drunk, wine is not drunk people are drunk. There is only one possibility for people who are not drunk, that is, to cheat, when drinking, stealing and slipping, spilling wine; stealing beams and changing pillars, pretending to cough, and spitting wine on towels; Ming Xiu Zhan Dao darkens Chen Cang, taking advantage of people's lack of attention, exchanging boiled water for wine, mixing liquor with water, not putting into the heart, not putting into the truth, not really drinking, but letting others get drunk.
Smoke a lifetime of smoke and burn a lifetime of hands, drink a lifetime of wine, and produce a lifetime of ugliness. People who are never drunk are naturally never ugly. Other people's drunken appearance, drunken gaffe, drunken nonsense, may be watched by him, or even grabbed the handle, how many people are accused of improper words and deeds at the wine table. He is not drunk, he will never spit out the truth after drinking, "everyone is drunk and I am awake", such a person is not only incapable of communicating, but even terrible.
The fourth kind of person, the one who plays cards and does not lose. Such people have the characteristics of the second and third kinds of people. Normal games, on the card field, can not help themselves. Random cards are played, and it is impossible to win every game. If you can always win, you can't lose. There is only one possibility, cheating, dishonesty. At the same time, he is good at calculation, especially when there is money to bet on the cards, if every game must be won, who dares to play mahjong with him. This kind of person is not necessarily a friend, but there are many more troubles and calculations.
The fifth kind of person, three times broken. As the saying goes, a gentleman's word is difficult to chase. Words that are spoken, such as spilled water, are difficult to harvest when they are covered with water. Once the words are spoken, they must be honored, which is a manifestation of integrity, a reliable embodiment, and a reliable display. Some people dare to pat their chests in person to please you; after that, they will disappoint you with both hands. We often say that there is only one in two, not again and again. Once untrustworthy to others, 50 points are subtracted, and two untrustworthy people are equivalent to zero points.
There was once a colleague who worked in a different place and left from one place at the same time. Later, he seemed very enthusiastic when they met him. It was agreed on the spot that on Friday, a party would be held somewhere, and he said that he would invite so-and-so to drink together. As a result, I told him on Thursday that he was going on a business trip on the weekend and was sorry that he couldn't get together. This is understandable once in a while. Later, I met again in an activity field, I took the initiative to invite him, and agreed to invite a few friends around him together, he happily agreed, but that afternoon, he said that his leader called him, sorry not to participate in our activities, I laughed that this activity is because of you, you do not participate, the theme has changed. I have since decided not to invite him to any events. Without true feelings, true righteousness, and truthfulness, such people's contacts will always be used as excuses to prevaricate and break promises.
A person who does not have to say much, can understand the cold and warmth, and understands your heart is better than thousands of business cards in the address book, more than the boldness of a sip on the wine table. Friends are not the more the better, you can know the heart to change your heart, three or two is enough.