Yesterday, I sent a wedding post to my girlfriend, but she excused herself from being busy and could not be present, so I asked: "Then can you repay me the 10,000 yuan you borrowed from me last time?" However, I didn't expect her to say a word

Yesterday, I sent a wedding post to my girlfriend, but she excused herself from being busy and could not be present, so I asked: "Then can you repay me the 10,000 yuan you borrowed from me last time?" However, I didn't expect that she actually blocked me without saying a word, and even refused to answer the phone, and as a result of one of my operations, she immediately transferred 10,000 yuan, but because of her words, I took the money and blocked her.

My name is Lin Yuan, 28 years old this year, is a foot therapist, when the business is good, I can get about 7,000 a month, but since the impact of the epidemic, the number of people who come to do foot therapy is obviously not as much as before, so the income is also affected.

Last week, my boyfriend and I decided to get married on National Day this year, so my boyfriend and I started contacting friends in the hope of getting their blessings.

Yesterday, I contacted my good girlfriend Lily, "Lily, I have come to send you an invitation, this year's National Day I am married, you will take your husband and children to play together." ”

Unexpectedly, she replied: "Our company has been very busy recently, and the National Day should not be a holiday, so I can't go!"

As soon as I listened, I thought to myself, people must still be working hard, just thinking about the recent purchase of a lot of things, a little nervous at hand, I said to her: "It doesn't matter, but Lily, the 10,000 yuan you borrowed from me last time, can you return it to me now, you also know that in the past two years, the work efficiency is not good, I haven't made any money, now I want to get married, I know my family situation, my parents don't have much money, it's really difficult."

Who knew that after waiting for a long time, she didn't get back to me, so I planned to send another message, but I didn't expect her to block me. I angrily took out the phone and called, she didn't answer even three times, I sent a message directly: "Wang Lili, if you want to do this, I will go directly to your husband, I remember he did not know."

After a while, I received a verification reminder from her friend, and after I agreed, she said, "Yuanyuan, I'm sorry, I just accidentally touched it." I'm really too busy with the company lately, so I definitely can't go when you get married, you take this, I don't think anyone gives you more than I give, this is even if I didn't attend the compensation bar, and my gift is also out, now we two clear, don't say something inexplicable. ”

After saying that, she directly transferred 10,000 weChat, and I was dumbfounded, not knowing what she meant, so I asked: "Lily, you said two clear, you mean that this 10,000 and I borrowed your 10,000 linked?"

She replied disapprovingly, "Otherwise, what are you thinking?"

I was speechless, and I instantly felt that my feelings for many years had changed at this moment, so I said: "Wang Lili, you can't be like this, because we have been in an iron relationship for many years, when you got married, I didn't say anything and followed 5,000, you gave birth to a child and I gave you 2,000 to buy supplements, and when the child was full moon, I also gave the child 1,000 red envelopes, and now you tell me that the two are linked, will your conscience not hurt?"

But she said, "I didn't let you follow so much, the 10,000 will be given to you anyway, you don't have to worry about my pocket anymore."

I smiled and said to her, "Oh, it's really four years of friendship to feed the dog, you can make me grow up, delete each other."

After saying that, I directly ordered the payment, blocked her, and decided not to deal with her.

Are you saying I'm doing the right thing?

@Heartwarming Baby Sauce

When I saw netizens talking about this matter, I was really angry. Mainly from the following points to illustrate:

1, Lin Yuan looks at people with poor vision, making friends carelessly, she treats Lily as a friend, so whether it is in the gift of friends getting married and having children, or people borrowing money like her, she pays wholeheartedly, but she did not expect that people do not appreciate it, and from Lily's approach, she can also see her selfishness, after all, it is a piece of kindness to feed the dog.

2, Lily is not worth making friends with, does not understand human feelings at all, or she is too selfish and wants to be greedy. Borrowing money from others and not taking the initiative to repay it, but still wanting to use the borrowed money to pay off the debt of affection, is a villainous style, which is not advisable.

3, in the wedding ceremony, I suggest according to the situation, do not follow too much, because when you need to return the gift, people may not be willing to return it to you. The same is true of borrowing money, only borrowing those who can borrow, the villain must stay away.

All in all, I think that people's interaction with each other lies in the righteous words, you treat me sincerely, I also sincerely return it, I hope that the people you meet are all sincere people.