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Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

author:Momo - no smell

Two little guesses, you love me, this is the sweet love of Sun Shaoan and Tian Runye

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Shao An and Runye grew up together, if it were not for the huge disparity in the conditions of the two families, the two of them would definitely be able to get married and live a happy life, and would not involve He Xiulian, a girl from Shanxi.

Runye's family is only her and her younger brothers and sisters, her father Tian Futang is the village secretary of Shuangshui Village, her second father is the leader of the county government, runye, who grew up in a superior environment, got a better education.

Less settled home is different, more people and less labor, four brothers and sisters in the family, as well as elderly grandmothers and parents, such a rotten family, every day to eat a meal without a meal, clothes are also patches and patches, life is very difficult.

Two people with different identities and different family backgrounds, even if they love each other, it is still difficult to come together in the end, and such love is doomed to have no results.

Although Sun Shaoan likes Runye, he is very inferior and feels that his family's economic conditions are poor and cannot bring happiness to Runye.

Every time Runye came back from the county seat to see him, he was surprised and delighted.

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Chinese marriage, since ancient times, pays attention to the love of the door, Shao'an and Runye, and has been fully opposed by Tian Futang

After Shao'an and Runye's love affair was known to Runye's father, Tian Futang found Shao'an and asked Shao'an not to pestering Runye anymore.

Runye was a teacher in the county town, and it was impossible to marry back to the countryside, let alone marry a poor person like Shao'an.

At that time, Shao'an's self-esteem was hit, and he decided to break up with Runye.

Shao An thought that if he wanted Runye to forget himself, the best thing was to marry a mother-in-law quickly.

Shao'an went on a blind date in Shanxi, and when he first met Xiulian, he felt that Xiulian was a woman who could live a life, and Xiulian also fell in love with Shao'an at first sight, and the two decided to get married

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Shao'an wanted to marry his mother-in-law, and after talking to his father Sun Yuhou, Sun Yuhou went around looking for a matchmaker to introduce the girl to Shao'an.

Coincidentally, Shao'an's second mother, He Fengying, has a cousin niece who is the same age as Shao'an, and she wants to introduce her cousin's niece to Shao'an.

Shao An finished the family's farm work, so he went to the girl's house introduced by the second mother, and he wanted to marry a mother-in-law in a hurry, so that he could forget Runye.

The blind date girl named He Xiulian, on the day of the blind date, Shao An wore a Zhongshan suit without patches.

When Shao'an went to Shanxi Xiulian's house for a blind date, Xiulian went to fetch water and did not return, it was Xiulian's father and sister who entertained Shao'an.

Due to the long distance, Shao'an was motion sick, and as soon as he arrived at Xiulian's house, he vomited up, and Xiulian's sister directly scooped a scoop of home-brewed vinegar for Shao'an to drink in order to alleviate his vomiting.

When Shao An was drinking vinegar, Xiulian returned, at this time Xiulian wore two twisted braids, wore a shirt with white flowers on a red background, her face was red, and the whole person was full of youthful vitality.

Shao An looked at Xiulian, who was full of shyness, so nervous that he didn't know what to say, he would only say: sour, sour, sour...

Xiulian is also a capable girl around, although she only went to a primary school, there is no culture, but her mother died early, the family and the family are all in her hands, married to live a life, she is definitely the best.

It is also strange to say that Xiulian has reached the age of marriage, and the young men in the surrounding villages, Xiulian has not a favorite, perhaps this is fate, she is waiting for the arrival of Shao'an.

Xiulian is in love with Shao'an at first sight, and she feels that as long as she marries Shao'an, she will be at ease with Following Shao'an out to beg for rice. Xiulian was a lifelong mistake at first sight for Shao'an.

Shao An spent a few days at Xiulian's house and received Xiulian's full of care.

However, Shao An's attitude towards Xiulian was the same as That of Runye, and he was afraid that such a good girl would be very bitter if she married him.

When Xiulian was working in the cornfield, Shao'an plucked up the courage to say to Xiulian: "Xiulian, you are a good woman, you can marry a good family, our rotten family, can't eat a full meal a year, can't eat meat once a year, and the fortune teller says that my life is short, you can't marry me." ”

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Xiulian is a girl who dares to love, she bit her finger fiercely, drew a blood mark on shao'an's palm, and said: "Poor afraid of anything, poor and will not take root, as long as I Xiulian is willing to marry you, what can others say, your family is not in good condition, I am willing to give you a good life, your life is short, I will continue for you." "I sometimes wonder if Xiulian didn't say the word "life extension", then she would not get cancer later."

Shao An was deeply touched by Xiu Lian's actions, at this time Shao An, his heart was full of mixed feelings, he listened to Xiu Lian's words, felt particularly down-to-earth, took Xiu Lian's hand, and hugged Xiu Lian tightly.

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

When Xiulian and Shao'an got married, it was also the beginning of the hard days

After the marriage between Shao An and Xiu Lian was decided, it was Zhang Luo who got married.

When they got married, the Xiulian family did not want a penny of dowry money, Shao'an family budget, marriage to spend about 200 yuan, but the family four walls, a dime can not be taken out, and finally or pieced together, only to borrow enough 200 yuan.

Without a marriage room, Shao An vacated the production team's cattle pen as a marriage room, and later, the two of them lived in this cow pen for nearly ten years.

Xiulian smelled the smell of cow dung every day, she couldn't stand it for a long time, she was bent on moving the new kiln, but Shao'an had been drawing a big cake for her, that is, not hooping the new kiln.

In the ten years of their marriage, Xiulian did not know how much suffering they had suffered, and the livelihood of so many people in the whole family depended on their two sons. In reality, there are many girls like Xiulian, who are willing to suffer as much as they want in order to live with their loved ones.

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Of course, Sun Shaoan not only has to take care of the life of the whole family, but also the life of the entire brigade and even the entire Shuangshui Village.

Such a man with "great love", if there is no capable mother-in-law behind him to support, his grandson Shaoan will not be able to turn the sky no matter how capable he is.

In-laws sister-in-law, little uncle has no money to go to school, Xiulian returns to her mother's house to borrow, Shaoan wants to do business and has no money to buy mules to pull bricks, Xiulian returns to her mother's house to borrow money, and the eldest sister orchid who is married often has to help, xiulian is also not quitting.

Sometimes, I feel that Xiulian is Shao'an's cash machine, as long as the Sun family has difficulties, Xiulian will immediately return to her mother's house to borrow money.

Sometimes, Xiulian is too bitter, she also wants to separate the family, but as soon as she mentions the separation of the family, she is fooled by Shao'an for various reasons, and with Shao'an's personality, he can not care about his mother-in-law or the family.

Once, Xiulian was worried that Shao'an would not be able to eat physical work, and when she ate, she filled a pot with a little thick porridge for Shao'an, and was also scolded by Shao'an.

Living in this difficult environment, Xiulian's pressure is particularly great, she manages the livelihood of the whole family every day, shrinks her own clothes and diet, and also wants to live a good life for her in-laws, which is the promise she promised to marry Shao'an, and she must do it.

Shao'an opened a brick factory Ups and downs are all her support, no money to invest, she borrowed money from her mother's family, brick kiln inside and outside the work, she did not fall. Therefore, it is very correct to say that it is difficult to meet He Xiulian in a thousand years.

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Xiulian couldn't wait until her new kiln was hooped up, and she was tired and sick.

Too many people feel sorry for Xiulian, her short life, all her energy was dedicated to the in-laws' family, and finally exhausted herself alive.

Xiulian and Shao'an have been married for ten years, although they have lived a very hard life, she feels that this kind of life is the happiness she wants

After Xiulian's death, many people felt that her fate was tragic, she paid so much for Sun Shao'an, and in the end she did not grow old with Shao'an, which was the biggest regret.

Throughout the text, in fact, Xiulian herself feels that her life is not bitter.

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

The first time she met Shao'an, she fell in love with Shao'an, and she thought that marrying someone she liked was the greatest happiness!

After marriage, Shao An is also really good to her, from some small details of life, it can be seen that Shao An loves Xiulian very much, and they live very sweetly and happily!

Every time the two quarreled and mixed, Shao An would say, "I will hammer you to death." But in fact, Shao An had never touched Xiulian.

Shao An's money earned from working outside the home was immediately handed over to Xiulian as soon as he returned home, and it could be seen how much he trusted Xiulian.

Shao An said to Xiulian, "My happiest thing is to eat enough and not starve, and there is also the matter of making a baby with you." ”

At first glance, this sentence sounds like a joke, but it actually shows that their husband and wife life is harmonious.

This is a true portrayal of the life of all loving couples, when they are dissatisfied with each other in life, they can complain and say it, they will not hide it, the husband and wife life is harmonious, and the money earned by the husband is handed over to the wife for safekeeping.

Xiulian believes that happiness is very simple, can live with the people she loves, share weal and woe, and not let the beloved people be hurt.

When Shao'an had several conflicts and conflicts with the villagers, it was Xiulian who blocked him in the whole. Therefore, Xiulian also has the title of "Guardian Demon".

Therefore, Xiulian and Shao'an's life after marriage is hard but also very happy!

Looking at "Ordinary World" again, I understand why Xiulian's 10-year marriage is the most bitter and the happiest

Some people say that Shao'an has never loved Xiulian from beginning to end, and the person he loves has always been Runye.

But I think that at the beginning, Shao'an really loved Runye, after all, the first love is unforgettable for everyone and cannot be easily forgotten.

With the passage of time, Shao An loves Xiulian more, because the various performances in his life with Xiulian are exactly the manifestations that people who love each other will have.