The education of adolescent children is a very headache in today's society!
I use my personal experience to tell you that after 800, I did not achieve late marriage and late childbearing, married at an inappropriate age and had a child, I was immature myself, and I did not fulfill the responsibility of parenthood, fortunately my parents took over, my mother did not go to school for a few days in that era, but I was eager to learn, I did not encounter words or problems that would not be encountered, either ask the child, or look up the dictionary!
So when my child was in the first grade of elementary school, my mother was able to tutor, and she didn't believe that an old lady in her sixties could actually help with her homework! So every time my son encounters a difficult problem, he can solve it!
Under the careful care of my mother, my son has slowly grown up, and has also entered our headache adolescence, and there have also been problems with school weariness, early love, etc. All the children have, at this time, every time my mother quietly tells me that all his situations, let me not say him in person, you can ask him on the side! Don't talk about him when the results are broken, give him encouragement! Communicate with him more!
To be honest, my son sometimes loses his temper and yells at home! At this time, his grandmother quietly told me, leave him alone, give him time to calm down, and when this matter is over, slowly tell him that this is not right, then he can listen! He will also be like other children, all day long to ask for money is not to buy this is to buy that, I am in my own right to meet him, tell him, if the exam is not good, cancel!
The son is very angry, next time he will definitely take the exam seriously, and will always get a satisfactory result! I will also reward him symbolically! Mother and son have been getting along very well! He always said that his mother was the most open parent among his classmates!
I went to high school, more of my own personality, once he was on summer vacation, and I discussed going to perm my hair, I also agreed, provided that the school must be shortened, school must have a student-like, he agreed! Ha ha! Allow him to try it once in a while, and after perming his head tell me, hey, hot head is not good at all! On the contrary, if we say no, argue with him, then he will definitely resist, and the more things may be dealt with!
I personally think that children are not appendages of parents, you can't ask for this, that, they have different ideas for each age, we parents are also from their age, we should listen to their ideas, as long as it is not too excessive, outrageous, to respect them!
