The hottest military drama in 2021 is "Ace Troops", in addition to a lot of small fresh meat, the appearance of the old drama bone Li Youbin is also particularly surprising.
This time, he played the division commander Zheng Yuan, and his wife Shi Lanya played his ex-wife in the play, and the two husbands sang women with a very good fit.
Today's couple is what everyone calls the "old drama bone", but many people do not know that they can have today's happy life, thanks to Li Youbin's ex-wife in life - Zhang Ruiqi.
As an actor, Zhang Ruiqi gave up her career for Li Youbin when she was young, divorced in middle age, and stood up to clarify rumors for him after her ex-husband got married.
How is this tolerant and generous woman's life today?
After the divorce, her ex-husband Li Youbin became popular, did she regret it when she dreamed back in the middle of the night?
One
Li Youbin's late success is seen by the outside world as the credit of Shi Lanya.
He entered the "Bright Sword" crew because Ofsa Shi Lanya lobbied vigorously, and later the two starred in TV dramas many times as lovers, and finally the husband and wife both rose in their careers.
Many people say That Lan Ya Wangfu, but if there is no Zhang Ruiqi in the first 20 years of silent dedication, there is no Li Youbin today.
Zhang Ruiqi's family environment is good, her parents are cadres, she herself has been outstanding since she was a child, and she has received various literary and artistic training.
As a teenager, she decided to become an actress, and later entered the drama troupe with her outstanding appearance and acting talent, becoming a drama actor.
She and Li Youbin met in this troupe, the two are colleagues, usually look up and do not look down.
When he was young, Li Youbin was handsome and his appearance was also very zhouzheng, and he quickly captured Zhang Ruiqi's heart.
Handsome men and beautiful women, and there are many opportunities to get along, and they soon become close.
In the face of Zhang Ruiqi's pulse and affection, Li Youbin's heart door also quickly opened, and the two naturally came together.
In 1984, at a prosperous age, they pulled the marriage certificate after determining the relationship, which is, in today's parlance, that is, "early marriage at an early age."
Zhang Ruiqi is a very traditional woman, who carved "marrying chickens with chickens and marrying dogs with dogs" in her bones.
She believes that to be a wife is to be willing to be the backing of the family, so she took the initiative to give up her job after marriage and silently took care of everything for Li Youbin at home.
Getting married and having children was the most important thing in that era, and Zhang Ruiqi gave birth to her son Li Xiaoke soon after getting married, and her life became busier.
Originally supposed to show her enthusiasm on the stage, her life was surrounded by chai rice oil and salt, milk powder diapers.
This time, Li Youbin also has responsibilities and responsibilities, believing that men should shoulder the burden of supporting their families, so they spend most of their time on their careers.
In the troupe, he worked hard to make progress, and with solid line skills and acting skills, he soon entered the Changchun Film Studio and shot the first film in his life, "Death Certificate".
Seeing that her husband's career is so smooth, Zhang Ruiqi is also very relieved in her heart, and feels that her efforts are worth it, so she works harder to take care of her children and the elderly.
There is a virtuous and filial daughter-in-law in the family, and Li Youbin is more at ease when he works outside.
After successfully stepping into the film industry, in order to make his wife and children live a better life, but also to realize his dream of being an actor, he had a greater goal - to develop in Beijing.
At first, Zhang Ruiqi could not accept it, she felt that her husband's career had just stabilized, and it was very risky to rush to Beijing, where there was no one to rely on.
But Li Youbin insisted on going north, he tried to do ideological work for his wife, and hoped that she and her children would go to Beijing with him, so that the family would not be separated.
Looking at her husband, who has always been family-oriented, Zhang Ruiqi agreed.
As everyone knows, this trip is also doomed to the end of their marriage.
Two
Beijing is a place full of talents, although Li Youbin came from an acting family and has a lot of acting experience in Changchun, but when he arrived here, he still needed to find his own resources.
He settled his wife and children in the rental house, and he ran around the crew to take over the scenes.
When the weather is bad, he often goes out to eat a mouthful of yellow sand and comes back, but as long as he can receive the play, his heart is happy.
Seeing her husband so hard, Zhang Ruiqi was very distressed, but the only thing she could do was to silently guard behind him, take care of her son, and serve hot dishes and hot soup when he returned.
At that time, although Li Youbin was often busy outside, because the coffee position was not high enough, the remuneration for getting his hands was not high.
In Beijing, the cost is very large, Zhang Ruiqi can only save money, and her clothes are always bought at a discount.
But she was very attentive to her husband and son, always leaving them chicken, duck and fish meat, and always eating leftovers.
Seeing his wife living a hard life with himself, Li Youbin was very distressed and anxious, and once had insomnia all night.
Fortunately, kung fu paid off, and after 2000, his efforts gradually paid off, and he once made five plays in a year.
In 2002, a "Terrifying Waves" made Li Youbin taste fame for the first time, in which he played a grounded, shelfless military commander, who was praised for his tough appearance and natural acting skills.
Since then, his schedule has become busy, sometimes receiving a play and spending months outside.
During the crew's time, he could only contact his wife by phone, sometimes busy, and it was common not to contact him for more than ten days and half a month.
Li Youbin's hard work was exchanged for the improvement of the family's economic conditions.
They bought a house in Beijing, and the balance on the account was visible to the naked eye, and Zhang Ruiqi no longer had to save money.
However, fish and bear paws can not be both, and the two people who once stood on the same stage are getting farther and farther apart.
In those years in Beijing, Li Youbin met all kinds of people, expanded his horizons in the process of climbing and fighting, and met more people who could help him.
On the other hand, Zhang Ruiqi, far away from her relatives and friends, followed her husband north alone, and there was only her husband and son in the small world.
Many times she can't see Li Youbin, she has been alone in an empty room for a long time, and when she misses her husband, she can only call to listen to the voice and watch the movies and TV series he made.
Obviously the closest person, I don't know when it began to become distant and strange, Zhang Ruiqi felt that the relationship between them was becoming more and more distant.
Sometimes, Li Youbin rarely comes back, and the two couples sit together and chat, more about children, and there is no common topic anymore.
Over time, Zhang Ruiqi, who has always been virtuous, occasionally complains.
Once, when Li Youbin had just returned, his son happily greeted him and took out his award certificate to show off: "Daddy, I have three good students!" ”
Li Youbin was about to open his mouth to say two words, when the phone in his hand rang, and a phone call called him back to the crew.
In the face of her son's disappointed eyes, Zhang Ruiqi could no longer bear it, and the grievances that had been accumulated for a long time suddenly broke out and quarreled with her husband.
This
After the quarrel, Li Youbin simply did not go home, and the two were basically in a semi-separated state.
At one time, the intimate relationship became so strange, when she was alone, Zhang Ruiqi often shed silent tears.
She once wanted to change herself, but after waiting for the family for many years, she had long become an ordinary middle-aged housewife who could no longer be ordinary, and it was easy to turn over.
Such an inferiority complex makes her can only suffer loneliness silently, as long as Li Youbin does not file for divorce, she will continue to insist.
But such a thought is still a bit naïve, and the two people who are getting farther and farther apart finally came to the step of parting ways.
Three
In 2003, Li Youbin entered the crew of "Jiangshan" and met the actress Shi Lanya, who was more than a decade younger than him.
Although she was middle-aged at that time and had two marriages, she was still glorious in the crowd because of her proper maintenance.
After playing with her for a long time, Li Youbin felt the charm of the woman in front of him.
Shi Lanya is a powerful faction, with his own unique views on acting, when filming on the set, the two can't help but get together to discuss the understanding and control of the characters and plot.
In their spare time, they have both been troubled by marriage, and they also have a lot of common topics in terms of emotional communication.
What's more, they both had a son to each other, and sometimes they would talk about parenting together, and soon the two became confidants.
After this cooperation, the contact between Li Youbin and Shi Lanya became frequent, and even when there was no filming and work, they maintained close contacts.
At this time, Zhang Ruiqi was still alone at home with her son, and it was more difficult to see Li Youbin than anything else.
In 2005, the "Bright Sword" crew found Li Youbin and invited him to play the role of "Li Yunlong" in the play.
At first, his heart was a little rejected, the first reason was that the play had already set the protagonist, but later the actor felt that the character lines were too rude and the filming time was too long, so he refused.
At that time, Li Youbin also had concerns in this regard, and after reading the script, he had some hesitation in his heart: more than 900 scenes, the shooting environment was still so difficult, in the end to go or not to go?
Just when he couldn't make up his mind to complain to his confidant Shi Lanya, the other party patted his thigh and told him: "This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity!" This role is so good for you, be sure to go! ”
Under the advice of Shi Lanya, Li Youbin finally took over this role, and the final result was the explosion of "Bright Sword", which is still an insurmountable classic.
And Li Youbin, as the main actor, is naturally red and purple, jumping from a famous actor to the position of the old drama bone.
Since then, the late achievement of the big instrument has become his symbol, but there are also more and more big productions coming to the door, and Li Youbin is completely on fire in middle age.
After achieving success in his career, he began to look for the love he longed for in his heart, and developed feelings with Shi Lanya, who had been silently accompanying him.
In the absence of divorce, the two began to date and meet frequently, and were also photographed by the media in and out of the same picture.
For a time, public opinion was in an uproar, and Li Youbin quickly announced the news of his divorce from his original partner, and later at the speed of light and Shi Lanya.
It turned out that after separating from Zhang Ruiqi, he had been thinking about divorce, but considering the study of his son Li Xiaoke, he still chose not to mention it for the time being.
After his son's college entrance examination was over, he proposed a divorce to Zhang Ruiqi.
She was not surprised at all by her husband's divorce request and accepted the result calmly.
It's just that his son Li Xiaoke is a little difficult to accept, he has tried to save his parents' feelings, but unfortunately Li Youbin has made up his mind.
In the end, Li Youbin offered to leave the house and leave all the family's savings, house, and car to his wife and children.
In this way, the family that was once harmonious and loving was scattered.
After breaking up with Zhang Ruiqi, Li Youbin moved to the rental house, and naturally came together with Shi Lanya.
After the love affair between the two was exposed, Li Youbin was once labeled as a "scumbag" and a "negative man".
That period of time was very painful for him, fortunately, Zhang Ruiqi was very generous, and when asked by reporters, she took the initiative to clarify.
"Li Youbin and I have long been separated because of our long-term gathering of less and more, and many things have diverged. The breakdown of our marriage has nothing to do with anyone else. ”
Since the parties concerned have already spoken, it is naturally difficult for the onlookers to say anything more.
Since then, Li Youbin has started Shi Lanya's second marriage life and begun to work hard to get close to his stepson and play the role of a good father.
Four
Zhang Ruiqi has always been very low-key, except for Li Youbin, who stood up and responded once when he was caught in a storm, the rest of the time is basically in a "hidden" state.
Her life is very simple, everything revolves around her son, after Li Xiaoke was admitted to college, she did not remarry, and the focus of her life was completely on her son.
Li Xiaoke has always been in the eyes of his mother's years of dedication, so he is very filial.
For Li Youbin, there are still some complaints in his heart.
When others took their children to the show to promote, Li Xiaoke did not think of dipping his father's light at all.
Although Li Youbin is divorced, he is still very concerned about his children and maintains friendly contact with his ex-wife.
Thinking of his son, he will also take the initiative to meet, and every time Zhang Ruiqi is generously persuading his son to get along with his father.
Today' Li Youbin's career is smooth, and his only regret is that his son, who is over thirty years old, is not married.
He often joined forces with Zhang Ruiqi to urge marriage: "Son, although my marriage with your mother is not happy, it does not mean that all marriages are like this. ”
Every time he heard it, Li Xiaoke always responded lightly: "I know, you don't have to worry about my affairs anymore." ”
Today' Zhang Ruiqi is also more than half a hundred years old, Li Xiaoke has long graduated from work, and the life of mother and son is very peaceful.
With the increasing exposure of the husband and wife files of Li Youbin and Shi Lanya, netizens have even forgotten this past and forgotten the existence of Zhang Ruiqi.
But counting Li Youbin's fame history, in his most depressed years, it was always Zhang Ruiqi who silently supported him.
It is said that poor couples mourn, but they still lose to time and distance after experiencing the most difficult moments, and such an ending is really regrettable!
However, compared with the appearance of many celebrity couples tearing each other apart when they divorce now, Zhang Ruiqi can still take the initiative to speak for her ex-husband after divorce, such a pattern is really admirable!
Here I also hope that in the future days, she can find her own happiness and have a happy old age!