There is a common psychological law in life, that is, the more you want to get things, the more you don't get them, and the more feared things are, the more likely they are to happen. In fact, this feeling can be understood as the "Murphy's Law" in love.
In front of the people you like, the more you are afraid that the other party you do not like, the more you will make mistakes, your performance will become unnatural, unable to show the charm you hold normally, and the result will be that the other party will lose your good feelings for you.
The performance of all this is actually the gain and loss of heart in love. Too much care about the other party's opinion of themselves, and even too strong a sense of need for the other party, resulting in their own attitude becoming too persistent, and even reached the level of paranoia. Your mind will become oversensitive. In the eyes of the other party, your sense of paranoia is often the culprit that he does not dare to go near you, which eventually leads to an irreparable ending.
So how do we change the "Murphy's Law" in love. Let's share with you the psychological effects we may encounter. When we find our own shortcomings, we must have the courage to change our past selves and enhance the value and charm of the present.
In fact, in the relationship, there is nothing more addictive than the unguessable randomness. Imagine if someone else saw you and knew who you were, what you would do next, what was going on in your head. If the person doesn't have a brain problem, then he won't be interested in you and won't talk to his brother or girlfriend about you. Because human nature is to like to explore those curious things that make them elusive. Only these things are worth their time to ponder.
It's only interesting to be full of curiosity and randomness.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, there is more or less a sense of control in love, and what you have to do is to let the other party see positive feedback in the relationship, but not every time you will get positive feedback from your reaction.
Like a lyric, not every date, I show up. Not every phone call you make I answer.
Therefore, the source of charm is a kind of heart that makes people entangled and guessed.
It has to be mentioned that this method is used too much, but it will make the other party think that you are neurotic and impatient with you. It can only be used occasionally as a way to enhance charm and freshness.