Author: Wang Hongliang
Revisit the respect for the old and love for the young
Respecting the elderly is a traditional virtue, loving children is also a traditional virtue, and respecting the elderly and loving children are all traditional virtues.
Now, some elderly people say with feeling: "Today's young people only love the young and do not respect the old, sadly, but alas, some excellent traditional concepts have been lost!" More elderly people said: "It is better to be a grandfather than to be a grandson." When rushing to the market and catching up with the meeting, when the grandson wants to eat something, as soon as he spills it, the elders buy it. When the grandfather wants to eat what, how can he say it? Bear with me and talk about it next time. ”
Now, some young people say with feelings: "We feel that we respect the old and love the young, but the elderly are not satisfied, and this mountain is looking forward to the height of the mountain. According to the requirements of the elderly, we constantly change ourselves, try to do filial piety to the elderly, and do everything possible to make the elderly happy, however, the elderly continue to increase their weight, and we live really tired. The elderly also have to weigh the hardships and difficulties of young people. Are they all human beings, why can't we understand each other and understand each other, we really can't understand it. ”
Jia sloppy this person
Jia Sloppy is a real rural person. His personal image is not good, black, dirty, clothes can be worn brightly, they are reluctant to wash, and leather shoes are full of mud and dust and are not willing to wipe. In addition, his hair may not be trimmed once in two or three months, and he does not wash his hair for ten days and half a month. Jia Sloppy said: "Clothes are not washed, still wear, buy soap, washing powder is too expensive, leather shoes do not rub nothing, you think ah, how expensive is shoe polish, buy shampoo, haircut is even worse money, we make money is not easy, we have to save some flowers!"
He's a man, as scruffy as his name. He's not the average sloppy one.
The problem of sloppiness, sloppiness is secondary, the main problem is selfishness.
Jia Sloppy didn't take anyone in his eyes at all, and in his heart there was only himself.
This guy is selfish and mercenary.
Some people say: "Sloppy child, is a small business material, careful calculation, but also cut money, unfortunately, he is too shallow in literacy, addition, subtraction, multiplication and division are not good, only to work hard."
Feed yourself and the family is not hungry
Jia Sloppy is very selfish, how selfish is he! Only care for themselves, do not care about others, even their wives and children, they are completely hungry for themselves.
When Jia sloppy was young, he could work, and every month he had to go to a small coal mine and go down the well to earn money. He did something different from others. Others have been working in small coal mines for many years, but he is not, working several shifts in small coal mines every month, earning enough money to spend the month.
His wife asked him pitifully for money: "I am married to you, it is your person, you can give me some money, let me buy some food, drink, wear and wear, count me begging you, okay?" Jia Sloppy said: "I have no money, the small coal mine has not yet been paid, where do I get money?" Your mother's father killed pigs and sold meat, he has money, you first ask him to borrow some, and when I have money, I will immediately return him. ”
His wife said, "I have borrowed more than a thousand yuan from my father, and at the moment, I really can't open my mouth, and I really don't have the face to ask him to borrow money again."
Jia Sloppy narrowed his eyes, pulled his face, and roared angrily: "Don't ask your mother-in-law's father to borrow money, you don't spend it." Now don't say I don't have any money, I just don't have money and don't give it to you, the money in my hands, I have to do something else. I just give the money to the other women in the village, and I won't give it to you. ”
When his wife heard this, she showed the woman's instinct and cried sadly.
Jia Sloppy saw this, narrowed his eyes, and said viciously, "Cry again, cry again, I will strangle you."
At this time, his wife stopped crying, rode her bicycle with her son, who was not yet one year old, and went to her mother's house to borrow money.
In fact, at that time, Jia Sloppy had money in hand, and he deliberately made it bad and did not give it to his wife.
Once, Jia's sloppy son fell ill and needed to go to the hospital. His wife asked for money, but he still didn't give it, and this guy beat his wife because of this.
His wife took the child to her mother's house and has not returned since.
Jia Sloppy also did not go to his mother-in-law's house to call his wife.
Six months later, they formally divorced.
Nice one person
Later, Jia Sloppy contracted the vice of gambling, and all day long except for eating, sleeping, and occasionally going to a small coal mine to go up and down the well, it was gambling.
Once, a female player laughed and teased him: "Sloppy, you beat your wife away, see what life you will live in the future, you can't."
Jia Sloppy said disapprovingly: "I beat her away, she was just right to run away, how beautiful a person is, and I am not hungry when I eat enough for myself and my family."
The people in the chess and card room said in their hearts: "Sloppy this guy is really selfish, he doesn't even care about his wife and children, it's really rare in the world, it's very bad."
To say that this jia sloppy, not only selfish, but also more or less a little neurotic.
He is both generous and righteous to his poker friends. When playing cards and winning money, ask a few card friends to eat and drink in the restaurant, and then pay for it yourself.
Co-married with his wife
Jia Sloppy's wife lived in her mother's house, because she took a boy, she really couldn't find a good family, so under the persuasion of her mother's mother, she returned to Jia Sloppy's side.
Although his wife and children returned to his side, Jia Sloppy still rolled his eyes at his wife and children, and often scolded viciously.
The villagers said, "Jia Sloppy's wife followed him, and no less was guilty, and this poor mother and son, Jia Sloppy, was condemned by heaven." ”
Jia Sloppy treated his wife and children with ill will, and the son he remembered looked at it in his eyes and silently remembered it in his heart.
Later, his bitter wife became pregnant again and gave birth to a son.
Retribution
Time flies so fast, it seems that in a single thought, decades of time have passed.
Jia sloppy is old and can't work.
Jia Sloppy's wife, who resolutely disagreed, ate and lived with him.
His two sons, who have married and had children and started a family, have competed to raise his wife, but No one is willing to support him.
Jia Sloppy has a strong personality, does not obey the old, and insists on executing a single person.
He often sat under the old elm tree at the west end of the village, scolding and grinning, and complaining, saying: "I don't have a wife, I really don't have a wife, I want to have a wife, why don't I eat and live with me, in the future, who dares to say that I have a wife, I will be his wife once a day."
For Jia Sloppy's sharp complaints, the villagers insisted on everything and said anything.
Later, in the name of the widow and the elderly, he offered assistance to the village.
The village did not agree because he had a wife and children and did not meet the conditions.
Jia Sloppy was not convinced, so he went to the township to ask about this matter. The township leaders and the village leaders basically agreed on the same content.
He had no choice but to sigh and return home, alone, to continue to live.
One day, his second son fetched water for him, pushed open the door, and poured the water into the tank. Subsequently, after shouting a few times, Jia Sloppy did not respond.
When his second son looked closer, Jia Sloppy had already died of exhaustion, and his body was cold.
Later, Jia Sloppy's two sons, with the help of villagers, held a funeral for him.
At Jia Sloppy's funeral, none of his wives and children cried, and their hearts were full of mixed feelings and feelings.
The work was completed on January 28, 2022