"I'm not going to let anyone sit in my place, and no woman can threaten me unless that's my decision."
Celebrities love to marry the giants, but the giants are never easy to marry.
In 1973, He Lili, whose career was in full swing, married Zhao Shiguang, a giant in the shipping industry, and since then she has withdrawn from the film industry and begun the second half of her life with her husband and lovers like a "palace fight".
01
At the age of 19, He Lili, who was beautiful and smooth, smiled with a small dimple, was caught in the eye of "The Song of Lanyu", and since then she has stepped into the show business circle and signed into Shaw Film and Television.
In that era, it was the era when the Hong Kong sisters were fighting, and all kinds of beautiful people abounded, and it was very difficult for He Lili to get ahead, and she could only run the dragon set in the film and television.
Such a day is naturally not what He Lili wants,
In order to be able to get ahead in Shaw's film and television, she even did not hesitate to "take the sword to the side" and killed a bloody road.
At that time, the folk customs were not open, and even in Hong Kong, the actors were mostly conservative, and many movie kiss scenes did not.
In order to get out of the way, He Lili took over "Wen Suchen" with "half-naked" shots.
At that time, many actresses were discouraged because of "half-nudity".
The director told He Lili directly, "If you can't accept it, just leave." ”
Naturally, He Lili will not be scared away because of a "half-naked".
After the release of the film, He Lili not only got the title of "Beautiful Prince", but countless scripts came pouring in.
He Lili successfully fired her first shot.
But she knows that this kind of topic is not long-lasting, and if she is trapped in such a sexy and gorgeous role, it will be difficult to have another way out.
So when people still remember her style, she unexpectedly became the jade girl in "Boat".
A good actor never sets a framework for himself.
In 1972, He Lili again in "Fourteen Female Heroes" against "Yang Wenguang", which won the Asian Film Festival's Special Beyond Acting Actress Award.
What really made He Lili famous internationally was Chu Yuan's film "Ai Nu".
"AiNu" is a female tong work,
Even in modern times, there are not many actresses who are brave enough to embrace the subject, let alone in the seventies of the last century.
This film is too advanced for anyone to try, except For He Lili.
Fate is nothing more than a "big gamble", the opportunity is fleeting, even if everyone around her is dissuaded, He Lili still insists on taking over the role of "Jin E".
The film that no one was optimistic about became the biggest dark horse of the year,
Not only won a piece of praise abroad, but also was selected as one of the world's top ten business cards that year.
As one of the heroines, He Lili is famous all over the world and has caused great repercussions.
At this time, she was already known as the "Twelve Golden Nobiles of Shao" along with Hu Yanni, Shen Yi, Jin Fei, Lin Jia, Pan Yingzi, Zhao Xinyan, Zhu Jing, Lin Yu, Ding Qian, Wu Jingli, and Zhu Fang.
At the time of her career, He Lili once again unexpectedly chose to marry.
02
He Lili wants to marry Zhao Shiguang, a giant in the shipping industry.
Although Zhao Shiguang is mediocre in stature, he can't stand to reincarnate, has a rich father, and is a famous playboy.
The story of female stars and the second generation of the rich is not uncommon,
In order to catch up with He Lili, Zhao Shiguang really made a lot of hard work.
Zhao Shiguang pursued He Lili for six years,
In these six years, Zhao Shiguang was always on call.
He Lili's birthday party was all under his sole responsibility, and the banquet was interspersed with various small surprises.
Jewelry babies are also not soft to send up.
In addition, he is willing to personally cook soup for Lily,
When sending He Lili home, one hand drove, the other hand let He Lili sleep on the pillow, and her arm was numb.
He Lili drank too much, vomited on him and he did not complain.
Zhao Shiguang proposed marriage to He Lili 3 times, but He Lili never agreed.
After staying in the entertainment industry for a long time and seeing more tragic deeds after female stars married giants, He Lili did not unload her heart so easily.
Men's love is mostly illusory, and He Lili only wants to find a true person.
Zhao Shiguang asked Han Wen for 6 years without prying He Lili's atrium, and just when he was at a loss, things took a turn for the better.
He Lili had an accident during a filming.
The props on the set accidentally slipped off, and the lights on the top went straight to He Lili, He Lili couldn't dodge, and in the screams of the crowd, Zhao Shiguang suddenly rushed forward and protected He Lili.
He Lili was safe and sound, but Zhao Shiguang was smashed into the hospital.
Sitting in front of the hospital bed, looking at this man who almost didn't want his life,
He Lili's hard atrium finally began to melt.
Zhao Shiguang hit the iron while it was hot and proposed again.
This time, He Lili did not refuse.
In 1973, He Lili married Zhao Shiguang in a wedding dress.
The wedding was held in a grand manner, and the father-in-law sent an extended version of rolls-Royce in a big way.
This luxury car was not only available for money at that time,
It is enough to prove how much the husband's family values He Lili.
He Lili became the object of everyone's envy,
Even He Lili's mother smiled and praised Zhao Shiguang as a good son-in-law they had chosen from thousands of times.
Rich and obedient to He Lili.
Where is a female star who doesn't want to be He Lili?
After marrying into the rich, He Lili became the rich wife of the rich, and since then she has stopped from the film industry and single-mindedly taught her husband to teach her son.
She bore Zhao Shiguang 4 children, the eldest daughter Zhao Shiming, the twin daughters Zhao Shiping, Zhao Shiping, and the youngest son Zhao Shiqing.
But the life of the giants is far from being as simple as she thinks.
After marriage, the husband and wife played the strings and chirped, and a happy and happy life did not appear.
03
Soon after the marriage, Zhao Shiguang couldn't wait to reveal the fox's tail.
When He Lili was pregnant with her first child, Zhao Shiguang couldn't help but steal it.
It was rumored that his "harem beauty three thousand", at that time, the hot fight with him was Tan Yumei, who was unsuccessful in Miss World.
Among all zhao Shiguang's confidants with red faces, Tan Yumei was the most arrogant.
To be able to enter the Miss World competition, Tan Yumei naturally does not look bad.
Linglong's graceful figure soon fascinated Zhao Shiguang to the point of forgetting his wife who had tried everything to get him.
The two originally had a sneaky date, but after being discovered by the media, they simply broke the jar and broke it, and they became paired in front of the public.
Zhao Shiguang even specially customized a private room for the two to mix.
After learning that her husband cheated on her, He Lili did not cry hysterically.
Looking at his wife's sad expression, Zhao Shiguang couldn't help but feel guilty,
"Seeing her sad, unable to sleep at night, very bad mood, how can I be happy in my eyes?" Any wife who encounters such a thing, as long as she has feelings for her husband, she is a victim. I apologized, restored her dignity, hoped that she could accept it, and also confessed to the public. ”
He apologized in the media and vowed to break with Tan Yumei.
But "the mouth of a man, the ghost of a deceitful man".
While saying "the wife is the victim", I want to give an account to the wife and the public.
On the one hand, he couldn't help but sink into the gentle countryside, and was once again photographed with the picture of the two people going in and out of pairs.
Replying back and forth like this, even He Lili lost hope in him.
After being asked about her husband and Tan Yumei, she only said lightly,
"See through, as long as he likes it, I don't care, but she should be able to leave when she has fished enough."
But people's desires are not satisfied, after seeing Zhao Shiguang confused by himself, He Lili did not breathe much, Tan Yumei's attitude became more and more arrogant.
Instead of being an unsightly lover, she wants to replace He Lili with her body and become the real "Mrs. Zhao".
She repeatedly shouted at He Lili, accusing Ho Lili of not understanding concessions, and said that if I had been He Lili, she would have divorced a long time ago.
Tan Yumei
For her small movements continuously, He Lili is much calmer.
The two have been fighting wits for nearly a decade.
Zhao Shiguang was photographed traveling to Thailand with Tan Yumei, and He Lili dragged her husband to Japan to show her love.
Zhao Shiguang sent Tan Yumei a mansion, and He Lili turned her head and bought a villa.
Tan Yumei posted the diamond necklace that Zhao Shiguang gave her, and He Lili's brow did not wrinkle and threw out a box of jewelry.
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It is said that the two people spent no less than 200 million yuan just to fight.
The two women's back and forth have fed most of the Hong Kong media.
However, "Hongu does not die, and Er and so on are concubines after all",
No matter how Tan Yumei fought with He Lili, she finally lost a layer.
In the eyes of Zhao Shiguang and the media, He Lili's silent counterattack is still better in the end.
Hong Kong media called Ho Lily "Hong Kong's first wife".
There is much praise for her "everyone's demeanor".
The open struggle between He Lili and Tan Yumei has lasted for 10 years.
Until 2004, Zhao Shiguang suffered a stroke and was admitted to the hospital, he Lili sat firmly in power,
Tam Yumei fled in defeat, saying that Hong Kong had nothing to be nostalgic about, cashed out a mansion and returned to her hometown.
At this point, this 10-year-long farce came to an end.
But He Lili's road to "palace fighting" is not over.
04
Zhao Shiguang is naturally not only Tan Yumei a woman.
Tan Yumei's affair had just stopped, and Zhao Shiguang had another woman appear again.
Cheng Xiuli was born as a dancer, and her appearance looked silent, but behind her back, she gave birth to a son and a daughter to Zhao Shiguang.
The two children were brought home by Zhao Shiguang, named after the family tree, and sent to England to study.
Cheng Xiuli spent much time with Zhao Shiguang than Tan Yumei.
One of her children was about the same age as Lily He and her children.
Before He Lili married Zhao Shiguang, the two had a head and tail.
When Zhao Shiguang's father Zhao Congyan died, Cheng Xiuli took the child to the funeral.
On the spirit hall, He Lili was so angry that she couldn't stand steadily.
Even so, He Lili resolutely refused to give up the position of "Mrs. Zhao".
Zhao Shiguang's flower heart she had no choice but to change her mind.
"If I don't have a big heart, I will be miserable, so I have to learn to be a woman with a big heart." 」
After the people, she has always given her husband enough face.
Later, Zhao Shiguang was photographed going in and out with his new gossip girlfriend Liu Yuanyuan.
She can also say lightly that Liu Yuanyuan and Zhao Shiguang are working relations, and it is normal for the secretary to take care of Zhao Shiguang.
Liu Yuanyuan is Zhao Shiguang's secretary, and compared to Zhao Shiguang's other lovers, she is considered mediocre.
Liu Yuanyuan had a husband, and after her husband died in a traffic accident, he hooked up with Zhao Shiguang.
"She had a broken birth and couldn't buy a building. The property and car she lived in were all sent by Zhao Shiguang or in his name, and her two daughters had long been sponsored by Zhao Shiguang to study abroad. ”
There is not much capital, and I can't shout with He Lili.
After Zhao Shiguang suffered a stroke, she often went back to the hospital to visit, and each time she would deliberately avoid He Lili.
Even if she knows what to know, He Lili will not be too embarrassed for her.
He Lili's generosity is undoubtedly Zhao Shiguang's favorite.
No matter how many lovers there are, what he values most is He Lili and He Lili's children.
When Zhao Shiguang was outside and messed with flowers and grass, He Lili was not idle.
The husband is unreliable, and the only one who can rely on himself is himself.
After marrying Zhao Shiguang, the last thing she lacked was money.
Instead of letting Zhao Shiguang take it to raise a lover, this money should be used to let her practice investment.
He Lili's investment has always been regardless of cost, does not talk about income, that is, money hits the water ticket, and she also likes the sound.
The store she opened believed in only one thing: not the best, just the most expensive.
The geographical location should be the most prosperous, the ornaments should be airlifted back from foreign countries, and even the water to drink is the spring water of Moganshan Mountain.
He Lili's investment lost a lot of money, and Zhao Shiguang did not pay attention to it.
He had always been atmospheric enough for his wife.
This is also the reason why He Lili has been able to abdicate.
"He (Zhao Shiguang) has a good heart, leaves room for people, and is not desperate, and his biggest shortcoming is just spending his heart." Whether spiritually or materially, Mr. Zhao has never been bad to me and my children. ”
Rich men who do not spend their hearts, mainly not thin-hearted.
05
After Zhao Shiguang's stroke, his mouth was crooked, and his lower body was paralyzed, and he could no longer be as dashing and comfortable as before.
He couldn't go out, but the warblers and swallows could come in.
Perhaps after a serious illness, Zhao Shiguang often let several illegitimate children openly come to eat.
In Zhao Shiguang's heart, these were his bloodlines, and they were treated equally.
But in He Lili's eyes, this is not necessarily the case.
For Zhao Shiguang's warblers and illegitimate children, she already had a backhand.
As early as when Zhao Shiguang returned her illegitimate children to recognize their ancestors, she made secret preparations.
All of Zhao Shiguang's assets were transferred to the name of the eldest daughter in order to prevent illegitimate children from fighting for inheritance.
In 2009, Zhao Shiguang sold Ma Huateng a super mansion called "Annamoe".
This mansion covers an area of about 2,000 square meters, with a two-storey house of about 700 square meters, private gardens, private swimming pools and tennis courts, surrounded by green mountains, and excellent scenery.
This mansion Zhao Shiguang made a net profit of more than 100 million yuan.
It is enough to prove how rich Zhao Shiguang's wealth is.
Since the ancient wealth has touched people's hearts, Zhao Shiguang has so many possessions, and there are not a few people who pay attention to it.
He Lili has been secretly preparing.
Even if you don't want to be for yourself, you have to leave this family business for your children.
In 2010, Zhao Shiguang was completely paralyzed by a stroke and could no longer have a wind, the eldest daughter Zhao Shiming added all the family property from her father, Zhao Shiguang has since retreated into the background, and He Lili has sat firmly in the position of the head of the Zhao family.
Until Zhao Shiguang's death in 2016, his illegitimate children could not be well-pleased.
All of the assets of more than 7 billion yuan fell into the hands of He Lili's children, and the others did not lose a penny.
Among them, Liu Yuanyuan originally wanted to recover a mansion of more than 10 million US dollars that Zhao Shiguang bought for her.
But the control of the property has long been held by He Lili.
Liu Yuanyuan wanted to recover the property through legal means.
The two fought a lawsuit for three years, and finally ended with Liu Yuanyuan's defeat.
After Zhao Shiguang's death, He Lili was not soft on his warblers and swallows, including his illegitimate children.
Zhao Shiguang's illegitimate son Zhao Shikang was found working in a hot pot restaurant.
After his father's death, in order to make ends meet, he had to work at a hot pot restaurant.
When asked about the inheritance, Zhao Shikang could not arouse a little resistance.
Saying that those things are not related to himself, and his sister is the best inheritance left by his father to himself.
She was able to sit firmly in the position of "Mrs. Zhao" for 43 years without wavering, and transferred all of Zhao Shiguang's inheritance to her daughter's name.
He Lili's means are not something that everyone can earn.
However, the giants are not easy to enter, and the wives of the giants are not so easy.
The lovers of the husband have been clamoring for most of their lives, fighting back and forth, and finally winning the 7 billion inheritance.
Some people think He Lili is stupid, and some people think He Lili is smart.
But life is like drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
06
Yi Shu, known as the "ancestor of the poisonous tongue", also fell under He Lili's personal charm.
"Lily has many advantages and a beautiful face! There is a small blue mole on the left cheek, a dimple on the left cheek, a beautiful figure, slender legs, beautiful height fit, wide playing, and diligent acting. However, this kind of thing is nothing compared to her speech, talking to Lily, such as the spring breeze, Lily is there, and the spring is also there. ”
If she had not married into a rich family, He Lili's life should have been a different scenery.
It's just that neither she nor her girlfriend Teresa Teng lijun polished her eyes.
Teresa met several scumbags in a row, and finally died of asthma in a foreign country.
And He Lili is "as deep as the sea when she enters the giants",
After fighting with the warblers and swallows around her husband for most of her life, she finally survived her husband and gained peace.
It's a pity that there are no ifs in life.
He Lili, who never lacks topics when filming,
After marriage, it has become a hot topic for people to talk about after dinner.
From the envy of everyone to the current head of the family,
Life is a process of constant loss and gain,
Can't keep the marriage, at least can keep the money bag,
In the end, the two people and the two are the most miserable.
Not all marriages can have lovers eventually become dependents, and finally "princesses and princes live happily ever after."
In the beginning, Zhao Shiguang also had why Lily washed her hands and made soup, and set up a surprise for her birthday party, when the two were in love, it was a match made in heaven, who could have imagined that Zhao Shiguang turned around and had "three thousand harem officials", and even the illegitimate children made several.
If the marriage cannot be consummated, but it is better to maximize the benefits, what is in the hand is real.
He Lili's marriage is regrettable, but her decision is decisive, and the practice of maximizing benefits is worth learning.
Marriage cannot be completed, at least life must learn to be complete.
He Lili, who is now the head of the family, visits the mall,
The calm and elegant appearance does not look like a 70-year-old man at all.