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Yesterday my sister got married, and I gave her a gift of eleven thousand. She gave me a gift bag to open when I got home. When I opened the bag, I was shocked. There was ten thousand cash in it. Call

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Yesterday my sister got married, and I gave her a gift of eleven thousand. She gave me a gift bag to open when I got home. When I opened the bag, I was shocked. There was ten thousand cash in it. After calling her, her words touched me!

My name is Wang Qi, I am 36 years old and work hard with my husband in Guangdong. I am the head of personnel at one company, while my husband works as a personal assistant to the boss at another company. The couple's monthly salary is about 15,000 yuan. After deducting the cost of living, the mortgage and the study expenses of the two children, there is very little left, and life is very difficult!

In fact, we did not plan to buy a house at the beginning, but in order to give our two children a good learning environment, we gritted our teeth and bought a so-called semester house. Although the burden is a bit heavy, we don't regret it when we think everything is good for the child. After all, we are parents and we have an obligation and responsibility to give them the best life possible. I can't be rude like my parents!

I was born in the countryside and have two younger sisters in the family. My father went out to work when I was ten years old, but I don't know if he had an accident or shirked his responsibilities. He never came back after he went out, and my mom left our three sisters in order to remarry and ended up having to live with my grandparents!

But after all, the grandparents are old and have no earning power. It's not easy to support us. I couldn't afford to pay the tuition for our three sisters. So I think twice. As a big sister, I could only give up my studies with tears. When I was 15 years old, I embarked on the road of going out to work, but at that time, I was still young. I can only lie about my age under the guise of someone else's ID!

The initial period was really, very difficult. Breakfast can be saved, lunch and dinner are also the cheapest, in order to save some money, send more money to the family, reduce the burden of grandparents, so that the two sisters can study with peace of mind. Luckily, I met my current husband, Zhiqiang, who is three years older than me, and he took great care of me. Naturally, we came together. We had a baby shortly after we got married!

It is worth mentioning that when we got married, my grandparents did not ask for any dowry money. Their only request is to be nice to me. Therefore, my husband especially respects my grandparents, and from the bottom of his heart, he is willing to let me continue to support my sisters to study. Fortunately, the sisters lived up to expectations, were admitted to a good university, and the future was very good!

When the second baby was born a few years ago, the second sister deliberately returned from the province and gave the little niece a big red envelope of 10,000 yuan, and we were both very happy and very pleased. We planned to go back with the ceremony when she got married, but she wasn't dating at the time. When I asked her when she planned to get married, she didn't care, saying it would all work out!

Who knows, at the beginning of the year, she said she didn't have a boyfriend, but she got her certificate and was ready to go back to her hometown for the banquet. The target was her civil servant colleagues and college classmates, which really caught me a little off guard and a little angry. Such a big thing, she did not discuss with me privately and decided, but after all, it is a big thing, I also believe in my sister's vision, I had to take my husband home to send blessings!

At the wedding, my husband and I gave my sister the prepared 10001 (custom of the hometown, which means that Jili gave birth to a child early). After the wedding, she gave me a gift bag to open when I got home. But when I opened it with my grandparents and kids, I was stunned. There was ten thousand cash in it. After calling her, her words touched me!

Sister: "Sister, this is the decision of my husband and my heart." You know, although you are only four years older than me, in my heart, you are the same as your mother. I wouldn't be here today without your support, let alone my current husband and brother-in-law. When you got married, I had just taken the college entrance examination. I thought that when you got married, you wouldn't study for me and take care of me and my sister. Yes, I naively think your income should be quite high so that you can take on such a big burden. But when I went to see you on vacation and saw you living in a humble rental house with pickles hidden under the table, I secretly cried. From then on, I secretly swore that I would repay you and your brother-in-law's kindness, so sister, you must take this money away!"

My sister's words touched me, and I felt that all these years of hard work had not been in vain. I am also grateful to meet a husband who is so tolerant of me and my family. But when I bought a house before, my sister had already borrowed a lot of money from me. I really don't know if I should accept this ten thousand dollars.

@Storyteller Hello, thanks for sharing,

Although your parents abandoned you, your grandparents did not abandon you. Fortunately, what is more valuable is your sisterhood. They all remember everything you did for your sister and family. They always treat you as a mother, but you use practical actions to explain what is called "sister like mother". Without your efforts, perhaps there would be no today. Of course, none of this is as good as your previous friendship.

However, as you said, you really need to thank your husband. Without his support, you may be able to take care of your sister and them, but it will certainly be hard, and maybe the marriage will not be perfect. Fortunately, your sister has a conscience and knows how to be grateful, so she will give you the gift money and lend you money!

As for this money, keep it for the time being. After all, you are now a heavy burden, and your sister and brother-in-law are both civil servants. Life will be relatively easy. If you really feel bad, you can wait until they have a baby and go back with the ceremony! #Emotion# #情感PK台 #

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