It's not a sin for men to be single, not to meet someone they like, and to be single is to contribute
There are still many conveniences for men to be single.
There are independent economic conditions. Filial piety to parents do not have to be careful with brothers, no longer have wives to be scrupulous and jealous of picking their noses and picking their eyes. Every time I help my parents buy food, I am scrambling to pay for it, I bought it, my brother must give me money, I quickly said no, no, why is the family so clear? One is that everyone does not care, the second is that the premise of not counting is because there is no outsider in my family, I and my brother do not need to discuss with anyone to spend money, and the third is that of course, it is not difficult financially (girls with financial difficulties do not like you).
No wife, no father-in-law, no children, of course, do not need to consider the problems that most men need to consider, spend money to buckle the rope, so just manage the parents, the pressure is not much. For parents, they can spend money with a high degree of freedom, harmonious family, and harmonious coexistence.
If we want to retire in the future, we have long planned and can walk around and play around. Go back to your hometown for the elderly, fiddle with flowers and plants, return to the roots of the leaves, and pass away suddenly, smiling nine springs.
Therefore, the desire of modern men to marry and have children is reduced, not that men are becoming more and more stupid, or it is difficult to find a partner, but the more money a man has, the stronger the social competitiveness, and the more superior the viability and living conditions. Don't men settle accounts? Life understands that choices are very important, and I have long thought clearly that I do not want to sleep with a woman from another family, someone I don't like.
Some people say that such a life is incomplete, but love is a luxury, and pie in the sky will not hit you. The love of men and women is very good, and it does not affect having a very good life, because the essence of life is loneliness.
I've always advocated that men don't be too persistent, watching each other's delicate faces become wrinkled and crow's feet, do you really like it? Then why don't you look for an old woman?
Our generation is middle-aged to understand that it is good to have a good marriage, but it is also very cool to be single, because society is good and progressive, and it is not so lonely as society says.
May you be single and never move forward.
