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Marilyn in "The Beautiful Legend of Sicily", with beautiful hair, exquisite features, wearing a dress that shows the figure, wearing a light makeup, it is so beautiful that people can't take their eyes off it, making men crazy and women jealous.
If you had two options in front of you now, to give you a million, or to give you the opportunity to become a "megaloman" like Marilyn, what would you choose?
I believe that most women will choose the latter. Becoming a "million fans" is the dream of many women, in order to make themselves look closer to the "million fans", women like beauty, makeup, fitness, keen to dress themselves, willing to pay time and money.
However, no matter how you dress up, in fact, most people are still ordinary people, not ugly, but not how beautiful. Are those women who are not beautiful have no chance to become "fascination" and can only be content with mediocrity?
In fact, this problem is mentioned in the article "From spoken to body language, self-cultivation of 'ten thousand fans'" in the book "How to Make Your People Fall in Love with You".
How to Make Your People Fall in Love with You Too was published in 2011 by Lil Landz.
In this book, Lil Landz, an internationally renowned expert on emotional issues, analyzes the differences in love concepts and behaviors between men and women through countless cases based on scientific research.
It also explores the reasons and processes for people to fall in love, and guides us to use methods and techniques to harvest the ideal love in our hearts.
So, how should people who are not beautiful cultivate the temperament and charm of "ten thousand charms"? Let's step into this book and find out.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > external beauty can attract people, but ultimately can not withstand the inner beauty </h1>
"How to Make Your People Fall in Love with You" tells a story about a girl named Chunxiao, who is not very pretty, but her face is still delicate, and she is not ugly after occasional makeup.
But because of her more introverted and idyllic personality, friends and family are worried that she will not find a partner and will not be able to fall in love. But to everyone's surprise, she succeeded in her first blind date.
The other party is a college classmate of Chunxiao's girlfriend, graduated from a famous university of finance and economics, especially excellent, and is a "male god" in the eyes of many girls.
Originally, everyone did not hold out hope, after all, the two people, whether from external conditions or work, etc., were not on the same level, but the man showed great affection after seeing her.
Why is it that a man with a very high vision and good conditions will fall in love at first sight with a plain appearance and a general spring dawn in all aspects?
In the final analysis, it is actually Chunxiao's every word and deed, every move that exudes a charming temperament, which makes the man feel good.
In the process of blind date, just met, Chunxiao's performance is very outstanding, in the conversation, whether it is sitting posture or manners are very elegant, not deliberately held, very relaxed and natural, which requires a strong inner and cultivation.
When the man talks about funny things, Chun Xiao will hardly laugh, but reveal a sincere smile in his eyebrows. Even the voice of the answer is gentle and beautiful.
Chunxiao gives people the overall feeling that she has a rich inner, extremely elegant, and quality, and this kind of girl with inner charm will naturally attract the favor of the "male god" and make the other party more and more fascinated.
Through this story, it is not difficult to see that the beauty of temperament and charm can completely crush the charm on the appearance. As the book says: "Even if you have a glimpse of beauty, but only leave people with sensory attraction, once you lose the charming temperament and charm, I am afraid it is difficult to capture people's hearts." 」 ”
To put it simply, external beauty can indeed attract people, but in the end it cannot withstand the inner beauty. If a woman wants to become a "million fans", she does not necessarily have to change the outside, but also can make herself a million fans by enriching the "inside".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" how to cultivate the temperament and charm of "millions of fans" >? </h1>
Unpretty women have the opportunity to become a million fans by enriching their "inners", and inner, nothing more than a person's "temperament" and "charm", so how should we cultivate?
In this book, it is said: "Temperament and charm are always expressed in appearance, that is, spoken language and body language. Speaking is a person's speaking content, way and habits, and body language is a person's every move and behavior habit. ”
The book also tells an example, saying that if a woman, in the eyes of men, the appearance score can reach 10 points, but this woman speaks very vulgarly, often without covering her mouth, even the most basic etiquette does not understand, then, even if she is beautiful, she belongs to no temperament, naturally not attractive.
But if a woman,whose appearance may only be between 5-8 points, but is very knowledgeable, speaking makes people feel like a spring breeze, and encounters things calmly and calmly, just like the famous host Dong Qing, then her overall temperament and charm will be greatly improved.
In a relationship, or in the eyes of a man, the former will naturally attract their attention at the first time, but it will not be long before it will be found that this type of woman is just a fake, and will soon develop a sense of boredom.
This is the same as in film and television dramas, even if the second female is beautiful, once she has a vicious mind or an incorrect heart, she will be spurned.
And this will slowly lead to men will naturally be willing to contact the latter, reject the former, in the long run, naturally the latter has a better chance to become an intoxicating "million charms".
Of course, in addition, the book also mentions that a person's temperament and charm can also be highlighted from the "voice". The so-called "before you see it, hear it first" is this truth.
As the book says: "The voice of a truly charming person is gentle and beautiful, and will never make any harsh sounds, and at the same time, this person speaks elegantly, politely, and kindly, and will never be high-pitched by emotions, and will not lose control of emotions and utter evil words." ”
A person's temperament and charm are also reflected in the external image and speech and demeanor. Whether you look pretty or not, you still have to have the necessary makeup and grooming. Of course, don't ignore the manners.
Seeing this, everyone should also understand that cultivating temperament and charm needs to improve and evolve together from spoken language to body language.
As the book says: "If a person can cultivate a charming temperament and charm from spoken language to body language, it will make people extremely appreciate it, and then produce a good feeling." ”
If you want to become a "million fans", starting from self-cultivation, it will definitely make you look new from the inside out.
Seeing this, if you still have doubts, or still do not understand how to become a "million fans", you can buy the book "How to Make Your People Fall in Love with You" and read it carefully. Maybe I can have a deeper understanding than I do.
I highly recommend the book "How to Make Your People Fall in Love with You Too", which is a book that teaches you how to fall in love with your loved ones at first sight and be happy with each other, and with it, you can harvest your love more easily!
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