Some parents are really unworthy of parents, they only care about their own feelings, and give birth to children for a while. But they never want to care about how the child is, neither want to fulfill the responsibilities of parents, nor consider what kind of person the child will become in the future. These irresponsible parents are the culprits of the tragedy of their children, and today I want to talk about such a pair of parents, whose irresponsibility makes a little girl who is only eight years old become a "mother" early.
(Involving privacy, the parties do not use real names, some of the pictures originate from the Internet, only to cooperate with the narrative)
Eight years ago, xiaoxue, who was only eight years old, suffered a family misfortune when her father cheated on a woman named Yuling. The originally beautiful and happy family was inseparable because of this woman, and in the end, Xiaoxue's mother, who could not stand her husband's extramarital affair, chose to divorce. At that time, Xiaoxue's mother had been a housewife for the family for many years, and she had no financial resources after the divorce, so the child was sentenced to her father. Heartbroken, she could no longer take care of her daughter, and after the divorce, she hurriedly packed her bags and left the city that made her sad.
Shortly after Xiaoxue's mother left, YuLing entered the room, but she did not stay here for long. Yuling became pregnant not long after she moved into Xiaoxue's house, and since she became pregnant, she and Xiaoxue's father have been arguing constantly. Everyone's ideas are different, which family does not have some contradictions, disputes, quarrels are a very normal situation. Who knows, four months after giving birth to the child, Yuling inexplicably ran away from home. This walk never came back, hurriedly came, hurried away.
In addition to the trauma brought to the family, Yuling was left with Xiao Jie, who was only four months old. Logically, this child was born because of Yuling and Xiaoxue's father. Yu Ling irresponsibly left the child and left, then Xiaoxue's father should take the responsibility of raising the child well, after all, this is his own making. But what everyone did not expect was that Xiaoxue's father was not responsible, and the only thing he gave to his children was material support.
As for the upbringing of the children, they were all handed over to the daughter born to his ex-wife, Xiaoxue, who was only eight years old. In the name of making money, he did not care, and even let Xiaoxue drop out of school, just because he had to take care of his half-brother. This is extremely unfair to Xiaoxue, whose original family was ruined by the mother of this child, and now her schooling cannot be completed because of this child. In fact, even rejection or resentment is a common human feeling, but Xiaoxue does not resent.
In her opinion, her childhood has been ruined, and she does not want her brother to be ruined. For the next eight years, when she was still a child, she took good care of her brother, which can be said to be an early "mother". Xiao Jie grew up healthy under her care, was well-behaved and sensible, and rarely let the family worry. However, due to the death of her father this year, 16-year-old Xiaoxue is unable to raise her brother anymore, and can only send him back to her biological mother for his future.
Yuling left without leaving any information, fortunately there was a photo of her marriage, and the TV station successfully found Yuling, who lived in Taiyuan, Shanxi, through this photo. In all these years, she never felt guilty, and even tried to shirk her responsibility when Xiaoxue came to the door.
It turned out that she was not only looking for a husband with a wife, but also a wife with a husband, and there was no emotional discord in the first family. It was only because of the pursuit of excitement that she found Xiaoxue's father, and the quarrel after pregnancy made her feel that there was no future in this family, and she began to miss the thoughtfulness of her first husband.
This is the heart to return to the original family, afraid that the husband will find out the fact that he is cheating, even the four-month-old son is willing to leave it. I have to say that Xiao Jie's parents are not worthy of parents, and even unworthy of being human. First they derailed against the moral bottom line, and then they gave birth to children without determining their lifetime, and the children were born to them. But they never fulfilled their responsibilities for a day, but instead asked a minor girl to take responsibility for them, not knowing that such an act had actually violated the law.
Maintenance refers to the provision by parents of the necessary material conditions for the healthy growth of minor children, including feeding, feeding, parenting, providing living, education and activities. In addition, children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and no organization or individual may endanger or discriminate against them. In this case, the behavior of Xiao Jie's parents undoubtedly violated the law, whether it is to give maintenance or raise the child, it is their responsibility and not XiaoXue's.
In addition, Yuling married someone else while already having a family, and her behavior constituted the crime of bigamy. Article 258 of the Criminal Law: Whoever has a spouse and is bigamy, or who knowingly marries another person with a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention. However, it is difficult to say whether she can be convicted of this crime, because after so many years, it is difficult to collect evidence, let alone that no one mentions this matter.
This is not the result that Xiaoxue wants to see, what she wants is that Yuling can fulfill her parenting responsibilities. This was also something that Yuling could not shirk, and finally under the communication of the mediator, Yuling's husband accepted his wife's inexplicable illegitimate son. The funny thing is that Yuling did not want to thank her husband and Xiaoxue for their generosity, and began to worry about the self-built house left by Xiaoxue's father, hoping that Xiaoxue would not encroach on it.