Get along: Sorry, thank you

　　Text/Cheng Song

　　Since coming to Yuyao, my work has been normal, so my breakfast time is also normal; every time I go to the same house to buy breakfast, when he hands me my breakfast, I will say very politely: thank you! He will also reply to me: you are welcome.

　　Some lovers, from love to strangers; some colleagues, from friendly to face-turning; some relatives, from selflessness to complaining. The main reason for this is because we feel that this is all deserved, all taken for granted. Some people are sweet and sweet when they are together; after marriage, they have their own lives, and they struggle for life and children; two people go from strangers to familiarity to love, but they can't get to the whitehead. It is because we feel that we are all familiar and should not be polite, so we become casual, and the result is complaining and hating, followed by tragedy.

　　When we were young, my mother took care of us and washed our clothes, and we felt that it was taken for granted, because it was my mother; men felt that it was right for their wives to watch their children wash and cook at home, so even if they had time to be in a daze, they would not care about their wives' hardships; women felt that they had capital, and men should raise me, because he was my husband, which was taken for granted.

　　For people who love each other or relatives, the most hurtful words are casual, whether it is a family or working outside, working hard in society, do not become casual because of familiarity; once two people become casual, they lose the most important point of getting along: respect. Without respect, there is no so-called equality, people like to compare, so as long as it becomes unequal, people will have a bad psychology, choose the wrong way to express it, resulting in serious consequences. There is an idiom circulating between husband and wife: respect each other as guests.

　　Sorry, sometimes it is not necessarily that I have done wrong, but it shows that I care more about the relationship between two people and am reluctant to snub it, which is a manifestation of love; sorry, sometimes it is true that I have done something wrong, although I am forgiven, I still have to apologize seriously, it is a sign of respect; sorry, sometimes it is a kind of tolerance, to avoid two people arguing about a kind of concession, is a realm; sorry, sometimes even if it is a small thing, as long as it is their own mistakes, they must sincerely face it. It is a cherished performance. The wife is watching TV, you pass in front of you to block the view, if you send a sorry, disturb you tv, will she yell at you: you block me from watching TV. The wife is in the serious office, you go to get something to meet him, even if it does not affect him, send a sorry, will she be very impatient to say you? Everyone thinks that what they do is right, never like to admit mistakes, such people are often unsuccessful; if you want to do the right thing, you must admit your mistakes. Doing wrong things is not shameful, doing wrong things is the most shameless; just like in some factories, when you take the initiative to admit your mistakes, you may not be blamed; and when you do wrong, you are afraid that the leader will say you, want to hide the results and be discovered, maybe your work will be lost. The same is doing the wrong thing, why is the gap so big? The reason is like I said, the courage to admit mistakes is not only a kind of responsibility for yourself, but also an account for others, so that people can see your attitude.

　　When you see your mother washing her own clothes, you run over and say: Mom thank you, you have worked hard; do you know how long this sentence can make your mother happy? Thank you, sometimes it's a comfort. When eating, seeing that your wife has put the dishes and chopsticks away, you send a sentence: Wife thank you, the food you made is really delicious; she will not complain that you don't see anyone every day, only when you eat do you know to come back. Your wife has just given birth to your child, and you hold your wife's hand tightly and say: Thank you; no matter how much she suffers, no matter how much pain she suffers, it is very gratifying.

　　Don't ignore your mistakes because you are too familiar with them, and feel that it is okay for the family to say or apologize; at any time, don't forget to thank everyone. Thank the people who love you, they will feel that their efforts are worth it; thank the people who care about you, they will feel that their intentions have not been in vain; thank your colleagues, they will feel that you are respectable and worthy of contact. Sorry, thank you; you can't sell a penny for these six words, but if you do it seriously, it can create your wealth for a lifetime and happiness for a lifetime.

　　November 15, 2014