On October 20, 2002, a group of showbiz people gathered in the first farewell room, including Chen Daoming, Zhang Fengyi, Zhang Kaili, etc., especially Chen Daoming, who has always been a tough man and elegant, actually cried at the scene.
Who died? She is Li Yuanyuan after the Golden Eagle Vision.
Most of her friends now probably don't know her, after all, she left too early.
She could have gone so early, when she was just pregnant, she was diagnosed with advanced cervical cancer, as a mother, in the difficult choice of first protecting herself or protecting the child first, she resolutely chose the child despite the opposition of relatives and friends.
Then, the end is naturally the birth of a child, and a generation of beautiful people has since vanished.
This thick maternal love, how not to make people move, how not to make people regret.
While she gave her life for her children, her husband did not fail to live up to her efforts.
Li Yuanyuan, formerly known as Li Yuanyuan, was born in Jinan in 1961 with parents, sister and four of her.
Her parents are both literary and art workers, and since she was a child, she has heard about it, watched others perform, and grew up listening to Peking Opera and model plays, which makes her cultural literacy extremely high.
In 1977, she was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, and after graduation, due to her superb business, she stayed in school as an acting teacher.
At that time, colleagues and friends around her were sorry for her.
"You look so good, your acting skills are so good, not acting is a loss for the show business."
After listening more, Li Yuanyuan also began to think about filming.
In 1983, Li Yuanyuan participated in her first work, the movie "Li Bing". She played a simple girl "Cuckoo" in it, which made people in the industry pay attention to her.
But for several years after that, she still taught in school, more involved in drama performances, and seemed to be waiting for a future that suited her, and seemed to be waiting for a role that suited her.
Then, she successively participated in a series of film and television dramas, including "Secret Agent", "Shanghai Morning", "Hong Kong Stock Market", etc., with "Shanghai Morning" she was affirmed by the Golden Eagle Award.
Through filming, she not only gained fame, but also made good friends throughout her life.
In 1998, China's new "Ru Lin Wai Shi", that is, Mr. Qian Zhongshu's "Siege of the City", was adapted into a TV series to start filming.
The director found Li Yuanyuan to star in one of them, Su Wenyun, one of the three female protagonists, a cunning and hypocritical woman, and the male protagonist Fang Wanxin has more emotional dramas.
The actor playing the male lead is Chen Daoming, who once commented on Li Yuanyuan:
"I was impressed by the fact that she was one of the most literate actresses I've worked with."
In the days of filming, the two often discussed how to act better together, and in just a few months, the two became good friends without saying anything, and they cherished this friendship with each other.
In 2000, the two were going to work together on "Dong Zhujun", but Chen Daoming could not participate in the performance for various reasons, and Li Yuanyuan won the Golden Eagle Award through this drama, when she was only 37 years old, which can be said to be relatively young.
When playing Dong Zhujun that year, she played supporting roles such as Yuda Hairong, Huang Yi, Tong Dawei, etc., which showed how popular she was at that time, and the career upward trend was obvious.
In her career, Li Yuanyuan has always been smooth sailing, in contrast, her feelings are constantly twisting and turning.
First love generally has a bad ending, especially if the other party is still married and is doomed not to blossom and bear fruit.
Li Yuanyuan was mainly active in the drama industry before, and in 1986 she participated in Shakespeare's play Antony and Cleopatra.
She played Cleopatra and Jiao Huang played the male protagonist Anthony.
At that time, Jiao Huang was 25 years older than her, and was a drama prince in the drama industry, and his strength could be imagined.
Jiao Huang also has feelings for Li Yuanyuan, such an innocent beauty gets along day and night, and her marriage is a pool of stagnant water, which naturally makes people can't help but think of wrong.
Jiao Huang was married at the time, had a bad relationship with his wife, and had been separated for a long time, but he had never applied for a divorce certificate.
It was the 80s, and such extramarital affairs would be looked down upon and criticized.
On the one hand, Jiao Huang did not dare to take a step forward, after all, this is not what the two people are willing to do, and there are organizations, units and even the obstruction of people around them.
On the other hand, Li Yuanyuan's parents strongly opposed, and in desperation, Li Yuanyuan could only end this relationship with Jiao Huang.
The fierceness of the first love made Li Yuanyuan's young heart hurt.
After some time, she and liu Guoqing, an alumnus of the university, came together.
The two people in this relationship are very commensurate, Liu Guoqing is the screenwriter, Li Yuanyuan is the actor; Liu Guoqing is outgoing, Li Yuanyuan is gentle and virtuous, the two are similar in age, it can be said that it is a match made in heaven.
Soon after dating, the two were married.
The two who can complement each other in both personality and career are very sweet for a while.
Sometimes, Li Yuanyuan will also help her husband to revise the draft, give advice, and live a small life.
In her free days, Li Yuanyuan does housework at home, takes care of flowers and plants, and her husband works on his desk, such a warm daily routine often appears in the small home of the two.
But Liu Guoqing is still somewhat macho, and from time to time his wife tells him where to change how much or hurt his self-esteem, and over time, the two will naturally have a conflict.
After a long time, the two gradually found that there were inevitably some irreconcilable problems in each other's personality, and as these problems were continuously magnified, the feelings of the two were constantly consumed, and finally chose to separate.
Li Yuanyuan, whose first love and marriage were not smooth, worked hard for her career in the following years.
Then she finally met her husband Yang Cheng, who accompanied her all her life, at an event.
He is a wealthy businessman who admires Li Yuanyuan and understands her past, so he especially loves Li Yuanyuan in the two of them.
At that time, Li Yuanyuan ended a marriage, and her heart was more painful; and Yang Cheng also ended her last marriage, and both of them were people who had been injured in the marriage and were more able to understand each other.
Both of them are sincere to each other, because of the nature of Li Yuanyuan's work, each reunion time is not long, but Yang Cheng will fly over to accompany her. This kind of care and love made Li Yuanyuan very moved.
Many friends around do not understand Li Yuanyuan, why should they find someone like this, who is different from their own circle,
Li Yuanyuan once said: "The place where Yang Cheng is there is my home." ”
So they got married.
At the age of 37, Li Yuanyuan found out that she was pregnant, which made both her and Yang Cheng very happy.
She is an elderly mother, and Yang Cheng is more meticulous about her. And Li Yuanyuan also suspended work and concentrated on raising a fetus.
Soon, Li Yuanyuan found that she would bleed from time to time, which seemed to be a sign of miscarriage.
So I hurried to the hospital for examination, and the results that came out simply made Li Yuanyuan fall into hell:
She had cervical cancer, and it was advanced.
In particular, there is a choice: whether to choose to protect the child and give birth to it, or to choose to receive treatment and first shed the child.
Chen Daoming knew about Li Yuanyuan's situation at that time, specifically visited her in the hospital, and advised her to save her life first.
People around her, especially her husband Yang Cheng, are advising her to accept treatment and say it later.
For Yang Cheng, the palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are all meat, but what he loses in the face of his wife is life. He could only firmly choose to keep his wife first.
Li Yuanyuan herself was embarrassed, and the advice of her friends and husbands told her that it was for her own good, but she also had her own insistence:
I am an advanced maternal age, this child is very rare, even if you choose chemotherapy, you may not be able to cure it, it is better to leave crystals for the living people, leaving a thought.
With this mentality, Li Yuanyuan only began to do chemotherapy after giving birth to the child. Her child has been living with her mother in the hospital since birth, so much so that she always thinks it is her home.
Since receiving chemotherapy, Li Yuanyuan's hair has been falling continuously, and Li Yuanyuan simply shaved her head without stopping.
Looking at the hair on the ground, Li Yuanyuan said that it was false not to be sad, but she could only feel it silently.
Yang Cheng looked at his uncomfortable wife and had to comfort him from time to time:
"It's all right, well it'll grow back." In my heart you are the most beautiful. ”
Looking at her husband coaxing her like this, Li Yuanyuan could only relax and smile.
"Forget it, I'm playing the nun myself."
In fact, since Li Yuanyuan fell ill, her husband Yang Cheng was visibly silent with the naked eye. However, in front of Li Yuanyuan, he still maintained an optimistic and positive posture.
In the last days of Li Yuanyuan's last days, the day before the operation, Yang Cheng shook his wife's hand and said softly:
"Wife, you should feed the child again." I would like to record this for later viewing. ”
At that time, Yang Cheng also knew in his heart that the possibility of his wife being cured was relatively low, and this operation was just a little hope that they could seize.
The recording day is a good day specially selected by Yang Cheng, the wind and sun are beautiful, and the sun shines.
The 2-year-old son snuggled up next to his wife and ate milk quietly. Yang Cheng looked at such a beautiful picture, his eyes did not blink, he only hoped that this moment could be eternal.
No matter how much Li Yuanyuan wanted to live, the disease finally took her life.
This feeding is also her last feeding, and after the son wants to be a mother, he may only be able to watch the video and her past works.
In the last three months of Li Yuanyuan's life, her husband left all the things in the company and concentrated on accompanying his wife in the hospital.
Li Yuanyuan lay in bed every day unable to move, and Yang Cheng teased Li Yuanyuan with tricks every day.
At that time, Li Yuanyuan didn't even have the strength to laugh, she could only pull her face and try to make a laughing action.
For more than 100 days, Yang Cheng took care of and accompanied Li Yuanyuan day after day.
Sadly, it was also the longest time the two had spent together since they got married.
During the treatment, they did not let go of any folk remedies, divine doctors and the like,
There was a time when I heard that there was an old Chinese medicine doctor in Yunnan who could treat cervical cancer, and the family members held a little hope and flew directly to Yunnan with Li Yuanyuan and her life-saving equipment.
Unfortunately, this doctor did not treat Li Yuanyuan well, and in the end Li Yuanyuan left us.
Li Yuanyuan was very calm when she left. It was a silent night, and no one spoke, and no one tried to break the silence.
Yang Cheng hugged his son as usual, accompanied by Li Yuanyuan's side, and constantly spoke softly with her.
Li Yuanyuan was unable to speak at that time, and could only quietly listen to her husband tell her reluctance.
As he spoke, the electrocardiogram next to Li Yuanyuan's bedside showed a straight line, and looking at Yang Cheng, who had Li Yuanyuan's eyes closed, a line of tears flowed silently.
He gently laid down his son, put him to sleep, and lay down alone next to his wife.
The movement was gentle, as if he did not dare to wake up the people around him. In this way, Yang Cheng sat next to Li Yuanyuan all night, accompanying Li Yuanyuan's last night.
After Li Yuanyuan's death, the funeral came in late October 2002. The actors she has worked with and her friends in the circle have come.
You Yong quietly looked at Li Yuanyuan's posthumous photo, silent, as if tracing, but also seemed to be recalling.
Zhang Fengyi was holding a chrysanthemum in his hand, and he was also expressionless, perhaps it was difficult to accept all this in his heart.
Zhang Kaili held a photo of Li Yuanyuan in her hand, silently crying, seemingly sad but unable to bear to disturb her friend's departure.
The 68-year-old mrs. Guan Shulan directly cried: "She is still so young, she left too early." ”
Chen Daoming, who has a deep friendship and high appreciation for Li Yuanyuan, also left sad tears.
"She's a good actress, so she left, which is really a loss to the audience, and it's very regrettable."
"I should have persuaded her again, and if I could persuade her, how nice it would be..."
Li Yuanyuan has been gone for 20 years, and her former friends miss her, and her fans also miss her, only to say that she left too early and left too many regrets.
When she left, the child was only 2 years old, and now she is 22 years old. Today, he has grown into a filial piety and a responsible child.
The reporter learned from Yang Cheng's mouth that Yuanyuan's son also knew his mother very well and knew that his mother had given up the golden time of treatment in order to save him.
From time to time, children will also take out their mother's photos and mother's works to see, so they are all vivid Li Yuanyuan.
Good feelings once in a lifetime will exhaust people's strength, Li Yuanyuan and Yang Cheng are probably like this!
As Li Yuanyuan's husband, Yang Cheng did not continue the string in the 20 years since Li Yuanyuan left, but he grew up alone with his children.
For the love of his departed wife Li Yuanyuan, he threw himself into his son.
Watching his son slowly grow up from a young age to an adult, Yang Cheng's former obsession was also slowly put down.
It seems that Li Yuanyuan's departure took away Yang Cheng's enthusiasm for love, and he has no intention of getting married since then.
Li Yuanyuan's life stopped at the age of 41, knowing that she would soon die after giving birth to a child, she still insisted on having a child, this great maternal love, such a strong wife, it is no wonder that Yang Cheng has always missed her and has not remarried.