Little A's parents are a poor couple.
When Little A was very young, the family ran a hair salon, and due to the proximity to the station, the business was still booming, and the family was not bad. After Xiao A's mother gave birth to Xiao A, she began to be blessed, and when she returned to her hometown, everyone said that she had lived a very moist life. But Little A knows that the relationship between parents is not as harmonious as others think. Three days of big noise at both ends, The most impressive impression of Little A is that his parents made a big shot, his mother was heartbroken and wanted to jump off the building, and his brother was terrified by his hoarseness on the side.
Later, the station moved away, the business in the store became bleak, could not be maintained and finally had to close, and the family suddenly lost its financial resources. My father returned to his hometown and rented a shop to continue to develop the gallery. In the early stage, a lot of money was invested in decorating the storefront, and later the operation was not good, and there was no return, and there was a debt. The father was arrogant and unwilling to work to earn a living and became a job at home, buying lottery tickets every day unrealistically fantasizing about getting rich overnight. For a long time after that, the family relied on her mother, Pi Xing, Dai Yue, to earn money by working part-time, and on her grandmother and aunt for help. Due to overwork, my mother lost a lot of weight, her hair became thinner and thinner, and her face became more haggard. The relationship between the husband and wife, like this day, is terrible. My mother was overwhelmed with regret and complaints all day long, regretting that she didn't listen to her mother's advice in the first place, saying that she would marry this terrible man, if she woke up early, how good it would be!
Many years later, Little A's parents have passed the age of knowing their destiny, and Little A has long since graduated from college and married someone. After decades of gray-headed and dirty faces, no houses, no cars, no savings, my father finally let go of those unrealistic fantasies and worked steadily. The husband and wife opened a white cut duck stall, and in the morning the two got up for breakfast and began to prepare, the wife boiled the duck, the husband went to the wool to boil the duck; in the evening the wife sold, the husband packed. Gradually, life began to get better, although not rich, the relationship between husband and wife was much more harmonious, and the wife often had a smile on her face.
The real poverty in marriage is not poverty, not the lowly professional status, but the inability to be close to each other and not to warm each other. The absence of love and tacit understanding is the root of all sorrow, and there is no real poverty. Little A's parents have spent their whole lives understanding this truth, but they have missed the most beautiful years.
Remember that wedding vow? Whether sick or healthy, poor or rich, whether life is good or bad, love him, take care of him, respect him, accept him, and always be loyal to him until the end of his life. The best marriage is that as long as two people are together, no matter how big the storm in life is, I am not afraid, and I believe in you more than I believe in myself. In this lifetime, you are enough.
Life is difficult, it is love and inseparable companionship that gives us the courage and strength to face all kinds of suffering and confusion and wandering, and we are no longer lonely and helpless when we are in difficulty. Someone who is willing to accompany you to the ups and downs, please cherish, do not let your anger and sharpness ruin the happiness that you can have.