"Fish farming focuses on raising water, raising trees is important in raising roots, and raising people is important in nourishing the heart." The heart is the root of everyone's life and the foundation of family education. "This is a wonderful speech that I saw on the [Gezhi Dao].
For a long time, people seem to have a misunderstanding about education: they think that schools are places where they teach and educate people, teachers are gardeners, and the healthy growth of children is inseparable from the hard work of teachers. So much so that the importance of family education is ignored.
Many times, family education is only reflected in: supervising children to complete the homework assigned by teachers, and cooperating with schools to do a good job in children's logistics.
At the pulpit of gezhi dao, an old professor who has been engaged in education work for many years put forward his own point of view: let education go home.
The professor pointed out that the teacher is a gardener, and can only prune the branches above the roots, and the roots below the branches depend on the parents.
Ancients Cloud: The Son is not the fault of the Godfather. In a family, the father's responsibility is like fixing the sea god needle, equivalent to the role of the principal, and the mother is the class teacher.
The father should calm the mother's emotions and let the mother have a full sense of security. When the mother's "heart is at ease", she is naturally happy, and the atmosphere in the home is good, so that she can establish "morality" for the child and teach the child how to behave. The father is the "way" that leads the child's way forward, and is the beacon on the child's way forward.
If the child grows up in a happy and harmonious home, the parents love, the family is harmonious, the child's heart will naturally become kind and warm, he learned from the mother that life should be adhered to the truth, goodness and beauty; and the father's broad heart and profound knowledge, like a lighthouse, attract the child to him.
A child who grows up in such a family, even if he has not made much achievements in school, his life must be smooth, and he will never do anything outrageous and disappoint his parents.
In reality, many families' education of children is mostly focused on the level of knowledge, but for the cultivation of children's hearts and personalities, they do not know where to start.
For example, widowed parenting. In the eyes of the father, he felt that educating the child was a matter for the mother, and he only needed to earn money to support the family. If there is a problem with the child's personality, the father will blame the mother, thinking that the mother did not do a good job.
Especially in the family of raising a boy, if the father lacks the correct guidance when the child is young, then the boy has no power of example, and he does not know what kind of life he should pursue.
It can also be said that his life is at a loss. After entering society, it is easy to be tempted by the outside world to do things that you regret.
Therefore, family education is the starting point for the growth of children's hearts, and only by working together and working together can fathers and mothers create a soil suitable for the healthy growth of children. Only when the roots are well nurtured, there will be a day when the child will grow into a towering tree.
#Let Love Come Home # #让教育回家 #
