Many people want to do things in one step, come up and do perfect, if it is not perfect, he would rather not do it, which is itself a problematic attitude. In fact, even if you make a little change, it will be much better than it is now.
From the United States shootings, the United States has a particularly large number of shootings every year, only in the Chicago area, in 2016, there were 3550 deaths, 4331 injuries, and even on National Day, There were 60 shootings in Chicago. Many people have called for a ban on guns in the United States, but they have not passed in the congressional discussions, the reason is very ridiculous, the Democratic Party wants to ban guns, the Republic wants to limit guns, both parties feel that their plans are very good, the result is indisputable, and finally no one's plan has passed, and the ban on guns and the limit on guns have not been done. Obviously, it's a stupid act, because even limiting guns is much better than doing nothing. Democrats are pursuing the best gun ban in their minds and giving up the opportunity for change. That's what I'm going to make today, preferably a better enemy, to put an end to perfectionist ideas.
We have to constantly strive for perfection, close to perfection, but the world itself is not perfect, so don't always think about the best things, but think more about how to become better. Many people always want to come up and learn from Wang Yangming Zeng Guofan, and become a saint at once, this is a kind of perfectionist thinking, even if you become better first, it will actually be very beneficial, for example, you can learn their habits of daily reading and daily reflection. This is definitely good for you, and as for the wisdom of the pattern, it will take several years of accumulation to achieve.
Perfectionism is always the natural enemy of human beings, and when we do things, it is enough to think about how to make things better.