I don't know if everyone has an impression of Zhang Liang, a few years ago, he took his child to participate in a variety show, and then he did not appear for a long time, until recently he appeared in everyone's field of vision again.
Previously, Zhang Liang's cognition of "children's sex education" in the program attracted widespread attention and was well received. Zhang Liang said that now he is only kissing his daughter and cannot kiss his mouth, because he must teach his daughter the consciousness of self-protection and let her daughter know that these intimate things, even fathers cannot do to their daughters, and others cannot do them.
It is because of these words that Zhang Liang has become "someone else's father", because few parents will consider these for their children now, especially at a time when sex education is relatively scarce. Many netizens said that Zhang Liang broke his heart for his daughter's sex education. So what is the current situation of Zhang Liang's two children today?
Zhang Liang has a son and a daughter, the daughter is almost 6 years old this year, the little guy is cute, cute and lively, and even in front of the camera will not feel the slightest fear, and the son is almost 15 years old this year, very early to become a child model, height perfect inheritance of the father, a pair of long legs is very eye-catching.
Both children are cute, and from the state point of view, even if the parents are divorced, they are not affected. It can be seen that Zhang Liang and his ex-wife have done a good job in educating and protecting their children.
01 Children's sex education is lacking, what problems should parents pay attention to?
Zhang Liang's emphasis on children's sex education has attracted the attention of netizens, in fact, it can be seen that the younger generation has increased their awareness of sex education, which we should be thankful for.
However, it must also be admitted that at present, we are not in place in children's sex education, there are still many deficiencies, only by recognizing these deficiencies can we make up for them in the later stage and promote the improvement of children's sex education.
First of all, there are still some parents who have not yet realized the importance of children's sex education, and most of these parents feel that their children will understand this after they grow up, and they do not need to educate. In fact, if there is no sex education for children now, and there is no correct guidance, children's sexual concepts may be deviated, then when they grow up, they may go astray or be violated by others.
Many children have been violated before, but because of the lack of sexual knowledge, they do not know that they have been violated, and they do not know how to tell their parents when they go home. It is enough to see the importance of correct sex education for children.
Secondly, although some parents know the importance of children's sex education, they do not know how to conduct correct sex education for their children, or find it difficult to talk about, resulting in delays in sex education for their children. In fact, before parents carry out children's sex education, they must first systematically learn this knowledge, it can be said that many parents do not have a comprehensive understanding of sex education, which also leads to their inability to start, or have more than enough and lack of strength.
Only after a comprehensive understanding of children's sex education does it become known that children should begin to enlighten their sex education when they are two or three years old, because children at this stage have begun to have "gender awareness". After that, as the child grows up, and then slowly expands the scope of sex education, little by little to the child, rather than popularizing all the relevant knowledge to the child at once, but also according to the child's different ages, imparting different knowledge, otherwise if the child understands improperly, it is likely to mislead their behavior.
In addition, there is a problem that needs attention, that is, parents should know that the scope of sex education is actually very extensive, not only including the relevant aspects of sex, but also the understanding of reproductive organs, as well as gender awareness, sexual hygiene, self-protection awareness, menstrual care, etc., and even the details of the "wash hands before and after defecation" This small matter, may also be beyond the imagination of parents, because many parents can not think that this also belongs to the scope of sex education. This is also the reason why parents want to systematically learn sex education courses, only in this way can they better educate their children.
Finally, I also hope that parents must be patient and careful when educating their children on sex. Because the child may forget after the parents have finished speaking, and this is the case over and over again, it is necessary for the parents to have more patience so that the child can better accept it.
At the same time, parents should also find different ways to educate according to the different personalities of their children to ensure that their children can better accept this knowledge and better protect themselves in the future. Of course, in addition, parents must also teach their children how to protect themselves, otherwise they just talk about knowledge, and children do not know how to protect themselves, in fact, they will be easily hurt in the future.