In 2005, Tianjin Newspaper Group received a distress submission, which immediately caused an uproar in the society. The person who wrote the distress draft was a woman named Pang Xiuyu.
People now say that she may not be familiar with her, because after her fame, she gradually disappeared from the public's vision. However, in that era, when Pang Xiuyu was mentioned, everyone would give a thumbs up and praise: "Prodigy Talent"!
Pang Xiuyu is a talented woman or a child prodigy. She has a deep knowledge of literature since she was a child, starting to publish articles in the third grade of primary school; publishing her personal anthology at the age of 14, and entering the Great Hall of the People in the eyes of the people; at a young age, she was used as an example, often giving reports to primary and secondary school students everywhere. In addition, she has also been favored by Barkin and received letters from Barkin.
This genius, which has been sought after by thousands of young boys and girls, returned to the public's vision on this day. What surprised people was that what was waiting for her was not the publication of her new work, but a submission to the society for help, which caused a wide discussion in the society for a time.
The general idea of the distress draft is that Pang Xiuyu hopes to find a person of comparable age to help raise his children and marry her.
As soon as this rescue draft came out, everyone was talking about what happened to the once genius prodigy. Although the news of her unhappy marriage came out before this, she disappeared after that. Now she appears again, but in this way.
"I entered the Great Hall of the People at the age of 14, gave birth to 3 children at the age of 22 but were abandoned by my husband, all of which was blamed on my father, who caused it!" Pang Xiuyu wrote such a sentence in the distress draft.
From being a genius to becoming a loser in marriage, what has Pang Xiuyu experienced?
▶ Prodigy
In 1979, an ordinary family in Tianjin ushered in the birth of a baby girl, seeing that she was so cute, her father named her Pang Xiuyu, which means: "beautiful and dignified, pavilion and jade".
Pang's father was a worker and her mother was a housewife. Pang Xiuyu's father, although the salary is not high, all the expenses of the family are provided by him, but he can also make life very comfortable.
In other families, when they were buying color TVs and refrigerators, their father took pleasure in buying books and told his daughter: "Study well and become a writer in the future!" ”
It turned out that my father liked to read, and his biggest hobby was to buy all kinds of books and read them in his free time. Over the years, the shelves at home were filled with a variety of books for her daughter to read, which laid the foundation for her future achievements in literature.
In ancient times, there were some prodigies, such as Ganluo, Cai Wenji, etc., Ganluo became the prime minister at the age of 12, and Cai Wenji could recognize the strings at the age of 6, and was gifted.
There was also some prodigy in real life, when there was a person named Nimper in the society, who was admitted to college at the age of 13 and became an example set by many parents to their children at that time.
Seeing that other people's children became talented at a young age, fathers also tried to make their daughters a prodigy. In this way, Pang Xiuyu's life trajectory has since changed, from an ordinary person to a genius.
His father made a strict study plan for him, when to learn ancient poetry and when to learn arithmetic, and made detailed arrangements. While other children played carefree at home, Pang Xiuyu lived the life of "prodigy 996" at home.
Before going to elementary school, Pang Xiuyu could already memorize ancient poems skillfully and could count. This has gone far beyond the peers.
▶ Fame
After going to elementary school, his father began to teach him to write articles, drawing on places ranging from "Leaving the Troubles" and "Records of History" to Tang poems and Song poems. In the face of obscure ancient texts, it is difficult for the average person to memorize them, let alone a child in elementary school.
However, my father has always believed that he has a poetic and bookish atmosphere in his belly, and if he wants to write a good article, he must quote and borrow from ancient texts. So he ordered his daughter to remember even if the poems were fresh and hard. In this way, Pang Xiuyu had already accumulated a large number of ancient poems when she was in elementary school.
In the third grade of elementary school, Pang Xiuyu began to write articles. The father pays attention to the call for papers in various places, and urges his daughter to write it, and then submits it to major websites. In the past three years, Pang Xiuyu has submitted many articles to magazines and journals, with more than 40,000 words before and after.
In 1991, at the age of 12, Pang Xiuyu began to show her first appearance, and her submission was recognized and awarded. He has won the second prize in the composition competition held by Liaoning Children's Publishing House, the first prize in the National Primary School Literature Club Composition Competition, and the titles of Top Ten Teenagers in Literature.
At the age of 14, it was Pang Xiuyu's most memorable year. That year, she attended the award ceremony at the Great Hall of the People in Beijing for her award. Offstage was a warm audience, on stage was a confident she stood on the stage of the attention, that year, was the highlight of her life.
"That year was a turning point, how beautiful it was before, and how miserable it was to fall many years later!" Many years later, Pang Xiuyu said such a sentence when he entered the Great Hall of the People at the age of 14.
After Pang Xiuyu won multiple awards, she was immediately named a prodigy by the outside world. At that time, people mentioned her name, and they all praised her, and even the TV station at that time opened a program for her to talk about how teenagers could become talents. For a time, Pang Xiuyu became a role model for parents across the country to urge their children to learn.
After Pang Xiuyu became famous, in addition to participating in TV programs, she also had to cope with speeches in school. Fathers see that their daughters are so "hot", they began to have different thoughts, saw her value, let her cope with various speeches and invitations, not only can increase fame, but also earn some "extra money", fame and fortune.
▶ Dropped out of school
Everything has two sides, and after Pang Xiuyu became famous, she was busy with various speeches and interviews, delaying her studies. Although her composition was good, her science grades were very poor, and she did not even rank at a moderate grade level in her class.
When everyone saw that the "prodigy" they sought after was actually a scum with poor grades, their admiration for him gradually cooled. For Pang Xiuyu, from being pursued by thousands of people to falling off the altar, the gap in her heart is huge, and gradually, she has lost her interest in learning.
Coincidentally, when Pang Xiuyu's performance declined, there was also a rift in family relations. During that time, my parents were not in harmony, often quarreled over some small things, either cold war or falling things, and the family was made every day.
The father saw that his daughter's scenery was no longer beautiful, and he always complained and was dissatisfied with her in his daily life, in such an environment, Pang Xiuyu had no intention of learning, and the decline was even worse.
Later, her parents divorced due to emotional discord, Pang Xiuyu lived with her mother, considering the pressure and current situation of life, Pang Xiuyu decided to drop out of school.
While dropping out of school and staying at home, Pang plans to rely on writing to earn a living and support her and her mother. However, at this time, she had long since lost her fame, especially after the publication of the book "Hope", there was no decent work, and there were no magazines and newspapers to publish her articles.
The wish to support her family by writing has failed, Pang Xiuyu does not mention how uncomfortable it is in her heart, she never expected that the writing on which she became famous has now become useless. No matter how difficult the life is, life still has to go on, Pang Xiuyu decided to start from the grassroots.
▶ Have children
After her dream of writing was forced to stop, Pang Xiuyu decided to go looking for a job. At the beginning, she first thought of the clerk position in the office building, but because she did not graduate from junior high school, although she had the title of a genius before, no unit dared to ask her.
After hitting a wall many times, only one restaurant would accept her, and her job was to work as a waiter in the restaurant. The work in the hotel is boring and boring, although the salary is low, but at least you can pay yourself a monthly salary, and Pang Xiuyu plans to do it first.
The mother is a typical housewife, with no academic qualifications and no work experience, and after divorcing her husband, she lives with a meager monthly pension from her husband. Now living with her daughter, I have to rely on my daughter for everything.
At the age of marriage, when Pang Xiuyu was working in a restaurant, she met a man who claimed to help her go to college, and Pang Xiuyu believed it. Quickly with men after dating.
The man is 16 years older than himself, is an employee of a company, pays more than himself, and often tricks Pang Xiuyu with clever words.
"You're not old enough to get married, and when you have children, we'll get married again!" The man said to Pang Xiuyu.
Pang Xiuyu actually believed the man's words and had a child with him in 1998. At this time, Pang Xiuyu and the man said that they wanted to get married, and the man used the busy work as an excuse to let her wait.
In 2000, Pang Xiuyu gave birth to twins, which was supposed to be a joyful thing, but she sensed that men began to get more and more wrong. Not only did men go home less often, but they often avoided her to answer the phone. Pang Xiuyu felt that things were not good, until what happened later confirmed her thoughts.
In 2001, a woman approached Ms. Pang and explained her identity. At this moment, Pang Xiuyu fully understood, she finally knew why the man was slow to marry himself, it turned out that he had a family outside, and he was just a "third party"!
There was no way, Pang Xiuyu had to decide to leave the man, and filed a lawsuit with the court, which ordered the man to give her 1200 yuan a month as maintenance for 3 children. In this way, 22-year-old Pang Xiuyu was ruthlessly abandoned after giving birth to 3 children.
After being abandoned, Pang Xiuyu lived alone with 3 children and her mother. Originally, he could barely survive by relying on his meager income from part-time work, plus the child support paid by the man.
Later, the man claimed that he was unemployed and could not continue to pay the child's maintenance, so she worked hard with 3 children to run for her life, until 3 years later, she could not hold on, and wrote a distress submission to the media in 2005.
After Pang Xiuyu's distress submission was made public, a southern man found her and expressed his willingness to live with her. However, after living with men for a while, southern men also left her.
Poor Pang Xiuyu has been frustrated in terms of feelings, but she said such a sentence to everyone without losing to fate: "This is nothing, after walking an unreliable man, there will be better waiting for herself!" ”
Now 43 years old, Pang Xiuyu has re-established a family with a man in his 50s. His children have gradually grown up, and men are gentle and considerate to her, but fortunately, heaven has finally taken pity on her.
From the age of 22 with 3 children abandoned by her husband, and finally found a down-to-earth man, Pang Xiuyu's eyes are not as clear as when they were young, but more profound.
Although the light is no longer shining, Pang Xiuyu is still very strong. When talking about her father and fate, she calmly said: "Before, I hated my father, thinking that his harshness and inhumanity ruined my life, but now I see it." Life is like this, instead of self-pity, it is better to smile and face it! ”
In real life, there are many people like Pang Xiuyu who are talented at the beginning, but later "disappear from everyone". I hope that Pang Xiuyu's future life can be smoother, and I hope that her strength can infect more people!
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