Introduction: Many things between lovers may seem boring to outsiders, but the parties feel very sweet. When the girlfriend is angry, the man will start to spend time coaxing people, how can they be more effective?
Speaking of coaxing girlfriends, it is better to explore a question first - why do women get angry?
There are many "straight male" friends around, often living in fear, because the girlfriend will throw a proposition to him from time to time. For example, what if you meet a miserable ex-girlfriend? What should I do if I meet a better girl in the future? What are her shortcomings that need to be improved in time and so on.
Some straight men are very sincere and have to answer questions, and they are very frank and honest, not knowing that the other party has a red card in his heart at that moment, ready to settle the account afterwards.
In this regard, the boys are also very entangled and helpless, can they still speak in the future? Do you want to tell the truth or a good lie in the future? If you are not careful, you will turn your face, like turning a book.
In fact, many years later, it is also very interesting that two people who love each other can still make a fuss and get angry because of one sentence or two sentences.
There are also some boys who are really a rectum, and they will not give up until their girlfriends come to the black, which is also a kind of skill and ability. Having the ability to be angry is not nothing, and having the ability to coax well is called the real skill.
But many boys say that they really try to coax their girlfriends in various ways, but what if the girls just don't forgive?
That can only say that you coax the wrong way, the real effective way to coax your girlfriend, the more simple and rude, the more direct, the more effective.
Usually these easy-to-use methods include the following.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="82" > the first: meet directly, show attitude, and sincerely admit mistakes. </h1>
In the TV series "You Are My Glory", the emotional line between Qiao Jingjing and Yu Tu is very sweet, but there are also twists and turns.
After Yu Tu rejected Qiao Jingjing's confession for the second time, Qiao Jingjing also simply let go, after all, he was an adult, and since some things were not available, they did not have to twist.
However, Yu Tu's side began to be unable to put it down, so he put down his body to find Qiao Jingjing, first looking for Qiao Jingjing's assistant, and learned about Qiao Jingjing's itinerary.
If Yu Tu was still holding on at that time, thinking that Qiao Jingjing must still like himself, and the two of them might still have a chance in the future, then maybe Qiao Jingjing really wouldn't give Yu Tu a chance at all.
When Yu Tu called Qiao Jingjing again, made an appointment to meet, and learned that Qiao Jingjing attended a classmate party, he rushed to the scene, boldly confessed, and confessed his heart in a high profile. Don't hide or hide, show your love attitude, and sincerely admit your mistakes. In this way, he immediately won the beauty return, and the lover ran in both directions, and the sweet honey came to the finale.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="137" > the second kind: gifts, flowers, and diamond rings are fine. </h1>
In fact, most women are relatively soft-hearted, men generally admit their mistakes, take a soft, as long as women still have this man in their hearts, almost will be willing to forgive him.
And women also prefer the feeling of being cherished, if the lover sends them flowers or their favorite gifts, it is even sweeter.
There are also men who feel that this is very hypocritical, and it also seems that women are very snobbish and unwilling to spend this money.
But men don't know that for women, they may be the one who likes to give gifts. Expensive gifts from men to women, for women, are proof of their worth and status in men's hearts. The gift that a man gives to a woman that she loves is proof that you are attentive to the woman.
You say to a woman that a man loves her very much, but never spends a penny on her, do you think this woman believes that men love her?
Why did Wang Jiazhi in the movie "Color Ring" receive Mr. Yi's huge pigeon egg, he would be emotional, would abandon the entire assassination plan, and would shout "go fast".
Because Wang Jiazhi understood her position in the minds of men, she proved that she was worthy of this love.
Women are troublesome sometimes, but women are also really good at coaxing sometimes.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="139" > the third kind: directly solve the girlfriend's three meals a day. </h1>
Now many girls are more and more independent, they go to work to earn money to support themselves is not a problem, they have ideals and goals, do not need men to raise, just want to live more and more exciting.
Some girls have a good career, but their lives are very sloppy, if you meet a boy who can live, understand life, and is willing to take care of girls, it is a match made in heaven.
There was once a female friend, a typical career woman, three meals a day so-so, always ready to go.
The friend met a boy with a gentle personality, and when the two first got along, the friend did not go well, and felt that the boy was grinding and chirping, and all kinds of dissatisfaction.
The boy probably also felt that the girl was not satisfied with him and often got angry and did not talk to him. The boy did not pestered the girl, but carefully prepared three meals a day for her, and every night he packed the prepared meals and put them in front of the girl's door.
This feels a bit like the little brother He Ziqiu in "In the Name of the Family", thoughtful, in order to cook for his sister directly moved to the next door of his sister, cooking for his sister three meals a day.
After a long time, the girl was moved, and felt that the two had different views on their careers, but for the family, one inside and one inside and one outside the main was also very good, just complementary.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="140" > fourth: say nothing, hold her, kiss her. </h1>
When lovers quarrel, girls may resist the hugs given by boys, and some straight men will really think that their girlfriends are angry and do not want to hold her.
But in fact, most of the girls are duplicitous creatures, and what they show on the surface may not be what they think in their hearts.
When something unpleasant happens to each other, she ostensibly resists the hug you give, but in fact expects more comfort and coaxing from you. At this time, the domineering hugs and kisses of boys will stimulate the secretion of oxytocin in the back lobe of the human body, thus giving girls a certain sense of security and satisfaction.
Two people who love each other together, if it is not a matter of principle or big right and wrong, there is nothing that a hug and a kiss cannot end, if it cannot be solved, then hold it for a while.
Some boys think that women are too troublesome, then simply do not talk about girlfriends, such ideas are too extreme and absolute.
There are also many boys who think that women are so many things, why do they always get angry, and when they are angry, they keep coaxing? In fact, this is the emotional game and interaction between men and women, only through continuous fighting of wits and courage, can we promote each other's feelings, and life will be colorful, rather than a pool of stagnant water.
Some boys think that their girlfriends are angry and still want me to go and dream about it. After a while, you will find that you have no girlfriend anymore.
Of course, there are also some girls who are soft-hearted and forgive after being verbally coaxed by men. However, some girls are more difficult to talk to, and once the boyfriend angers them, especially if they touch their bottom line, they will never be soft-hearted and will not forgive.
Feelings are a very mysterious thing, and men and women also rely on fate to create the final ending.
For more and more girls, if they can't get emotional love and material care from men, what can a relationship bring to women? Although this kind of thinking is more narrow, women are very emotional, and they are easy to fall into.
So when the boys are angry with their girlfriends, don't worry, first see what methods are used to remedy it. Either verbally confess or take practical action to coax your girlfriend.
As for what kind of practical action, it depends on what you are good at, if you have money, give gifts to show loyalty, if you have talent, contribute your skills. If there is nothing, then treat her with sincerity and give her the warmest hug.
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Today's topic discussion: If you are a boy, how do you coax your girlfriend? If you're a girl, how do you like your boyfriend to coax you? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.