1 - Indigenous feminism is the love of the bottom feminist rights, and equality/ability theory is the guide for elite women.
2 - Native feminism will only make you a hysterical shrew with a high probability, it doesn't make any sense.
3 - There's nothing wrong with using sexual charm, use it to the end, it can instantly open the gap between you and men of the same age when you are young, know that smart beautiful women are invincible.
4 - But don't "rely too much" on it, you still need the ability to base it, because 35 then this blessing will decline rapidly.
5 - Men are big pig's hooves, this saying is true, your career and wealth are your best companion forever.
6 - The real top women are all hanging, and they lurk under the surface of an enterprising female leopard, even if her greatest achievement in life is marriage.
PS - Girl, you are really talented and talented, you obviously have enough ability to fight with men in career and marriage, do not be dragged down by the local feminist rights, the air is shaking, it will only hinder you from owning your own career and life.
Okay, the groundwork is over, and this article officially begins:
The opening volume, Hao ze's original intention and intention to write this article are very simple,
I hope that every girl who reads this article can understand an incomparably cruel and cold fact, that is, "marriage is not only a symbiosis and co-prosperity of partners, but also a battle of wits and courage for each other's power, and only a delicate balance is the best state of marriage." ”
Because last week, Haoze received numerology advice from three members of a local feminist organization.
All three women have several striking things in common:
1 - They are all divorced.
2 - Personal images are very good, over forty years old and well maintained, but after the divorce these expensive and energy-looking looks do not make any sense.
3 - Before the divorce, they were very keen to watch various palace fight dramas and self-media articles, and naively thought that these little tricks were the real way to be a groom.
4 - Before the divorce, he felt that he was very capable, occupied the light of her husband, known as Wang Tai Liu Tai Zhang Tai, after the divorce only to find that he was no one, and he could not make a living.
So these female losers with similar life experiences gathered together to form a feminist organization called XX Angel Women's Care Organization, whose daily task is to scold men together.
It is worth playing that whenever a new young girl joins this organization, these life mentors and sisters will solemnly warn the younger generations to remember:
1 - You are responsible for being beautiful and he is responsible for making money to support your family.
But they don't know that the appearance of the flower will be thanked, and no matter how beautiful the beauty is, it will be tired after a long time.
2 - Women, it is better to do a good job than to marry, and to find a man is to find a reliable, rich, once and for all.
But they don't know that men's earning power will continue to evolve, but once you are idle at home, you will lose your independence for a long time, and it is extremely difficult to recover.
3 - Feminist feminism, that is, women are in power, men conquer the world, women conquer men, you manage your husband and have everything.
But they don't know that men with a little career achievement are impossible to be controlled, let alone conquered by you, they are just not happy to spend time with you.
Really, if this person lacks induction; introspection; the ability to reason, he will absolutely fall into a cycle of failure for a lifetime, and eventually he will toss himself to waste.
It was also after this incident that Hao Ze suddenly realized that the local feminist rights, or most of China's feminist activities, are actually essentially suppressing women and infinitely improving the status of men.
So don't look at their remarks that seem to spoil you as a woman, in fact, they are corrupting your life in death. What is more worrying is that there are too many excellent girls, who are gradually being brought into the ditch by the self-media and local feminists.
Because they continue to render to you extremely disgusting ideas such as timely pleasure, consumerism, and gender superiority, and package these ideas into a complete world view for you, and this kind of easy-to-understand and seemingly speaking from your point of view is most easily accepted by girls.
As a result, under the reckless brainwashing of pastoral feminism, countless young girls who have just left the campus and just entered the society have given up their instinctive achievements and futures, and even gradually given up their own minimum independent ability, and finally voluntarily become an accessory to men, and are discarded "daily" supplies.
Quality men are not fools, the ordinary sexual attraction of most girls is not only meaningless in the eyes of high-quality men, but also unattractive in the eyes of middle-class men, and now the market price is 2000 a night can sleep to the level of quasi-star level of fresh and beautiful girls, why should I be with you?
Besides, don't you see that even these few failed people in their young lives, after aging and declining, have completely lost the bargaining power in marriage without an economic foundation as a foundation?
Of course, you will ask, is it wrong for several women mentioned at the beginning of the article to sit at home and enjoy the good life brought about by their husband's career development?
There is nothing wrong with that, and there is nothing wrong with the fat sheep that have been eaten dry and wiped out by wolves.
Remember the concept of marriage = venture partner that Haoze once mentioned?
So when your partner passes over time,
Start to have far better profitability than you;
Have far stronger social contacts and communication skills than you;
After having a much stronger contemporaneous attraction than you,
You have to reflect on how much control you have in a marriage.
At this time, the difference between you and the fat sheep that has been eaten only by the slag of the bones is the feelings that you and the wolf once had for each other, and the children you gave birth to together.
unbelief? "Hey, if it weren't for the kids, I would have been divorced a long time ago." How, is this sentence incomparably familiar? Well, you must have a lot of male friends around you who said that.
So why is the local feminist so persistent in promoting these harmful remarks?
Because local feminism is also the best ally of merchant marketing.
You know, these venting words are always the most comfortable sounding, and they always seem to stand in your point of view to accompany you to anger men, so you feel as if you have found a like-minded "sister", but you don't know that this sister is actually treating you as a "leek".
From an economic point of view, almost every sentence of local feminism is what businesses love to hear:
For example, buying a certain brand of hair dryer and curling iron is the best way to prove that he loves you!
For example, buying a donkey card and a diamond ring is the best way to prove that he loves you!
For example, buying aquamarine pit is the best way to prove that he loves you!
You see, local feminist rights are doing invisible marketing to merchants, which is why local feminists are particularly fond of being directly related to various luxury goods and consumer goods.
The immediate result of this move will be
The male group is generally working harder, and the female group is generally more relaxed and bad.
In the end, the two groups were motivated by their careers and their own requirements.
But when they wrap up their venomous and useless knowledge in a language that you like to hear, you gradually begin to accept it and even finally approve it completely.
The result was that the poison of consciousness wrapped in the most insidious was packaged sweetly, and then the young women drank it all and kept asking for a refill.
"Hey hey, look at the traffic after I scolded men, and let a lot of stupid women buy my things, and when the old woman made money, I would leave the stupid man in my house." — A female big V
Another reason is that the local feminist rights have never had the so-called leading figures and ideological programs, and it is purely a shrew scolding the street and bravely tearing up the comparison.
As a result, although there is such a group, the original intention of this group to get together is to complain to each other all day about the unfortunate life of marriage, and then this group of resentment slowly condenses, forming a local feminist culture.
So when the leaders of international feminism are outstanding women such as Marie Wollstonecraft, Simone de Beauvoir, etc.
China's local feminist will praise Zhang Nüxia as a representative of feminism, you say, can you expect this group of people to give you what good fruit to eat?
In addition, to tell the truth, Hao Ze really did not understand what she really had to learn, the bad mate selection gaze or the excellent knife technique? How can she be a good feminist representative??? Moreover, Zhang Nuxia did not carry any big flag after cutting a knife, wasting such a good opportunity to set up a person in vain.
(I still remember a reader who said that her sharp blade out of the sheath represents the spirit of women's rebellion against unfair marriage in the new era, so Haoze does not question whether some scumbags beating wives can also mean to maintain family stability and social harmony?) )
Upper-class women and high-quality middle-class women are happy to embrace male power,
Because they can speak purely by ability and financial resources,
And the essence of male power is who is strong and who is the boss.
Women at the bottom and women with low education levels will be willing to embrace local feminism.
Because in addition to brainwashing, local feminism will only talk about giving full play to gender advantages.
I think that all Chinese women should abandon the so-called feminism (especially the local one), but unfortunately, many Chinese women hear the word feminism and immediately report their blood pressure.
So please these women before the blood vessel burst, let us take a moment to talk about what is the real sense of male and female rights.
In fact, the real sense of male power is not to respect men and degrade women, but a set of social operation rules that have been popular for thousands of years, which is based on the rules of the game that men have more physical strength than women in ancient times, so they gradually survived.
To some extent, male power should actually be called equal rights, that is, "ability dominance theory", it does not matter who you are, no matter what your appearance and gender characteristics are, you can bring everyone to make money you are the grandfather. (So the little WuMei who shot all over the world is called Fan Ye, and a selfish director is jokingly called Feng Pants)
You may disagree with this view, but I personally believe that the theory of competence dominance, like the three laws of physics, is not yet possible to be overturned.
And China's native feminism has been distorted into the "theory of female love", and it has become a complete cocoon of self-restraint.
For history has taught us two incredibly bloody and profound lessons:
1 - Behind the rights of others, there must be a greater demand.
2 - The right to be able to unworthiness of status is never long-lasting.
(Not convinced?) Come, let the 20-year-old you and the 40-year-old you, and then pursue your husband at the same time, which one will he choose?
Your answer will most likely be 40-year-old you, because you have such a long emotional foundation, well, what about the removal of feelings? See what I mean. )
But native feminists don't understand, they don't want to give in marriage but only want to get; they don't want to strengthen their independence; they don't want to stay in positions that match their status (in the same way, incompetent men should do the same, it sounds cruel, but it is a good thing to have a clear understanding of themselves. If you insist on standing up in a kneeling position, the result is that the head hit by reality is broken and bleeding.
But if you really want to change, it's really really simple:
Stand up, get out there, and make yourself as financially profitable as men.
When you can achieve a net disposable net worth of tens of millions, there are a lot of high-quality men to pick for you at will, Xiao Tiantian and Lu Tianwang and the story of Fat Sister and Zheng Gongzi you always know, right?
I don't know if you have ever found that when the local feminist rights are constantly turning the river and the sea, there has never been a local male power force to come out to resist, the reasons for this, I don't know if the girl has you thought about the reason?
You will also rarely see articles such as "Men Should Love Themselves", "On How to Manage Their Wives", "How to Make Girlfriends Obediently Recognize Each Other".
Today gives you a clear and simple answer, and that is because "they don't need to".
Because without any cultural or activity education, our men are generally born in a competitive environment. (You have to admit that Chinese men face more job pressure than Chinese women)
Therefore, the enterprising spirit of wealth and career can be described as a natural coverage of 99.99% of the proportion.
No matter how the local feminist rights are tossed, as long as their income and economic disposable power are stronger than women's, over time, the balance of family status will naturally tilt to the man's side, and it will be natural.
At the end of the article, I will share a chat between Hao Ze and a certain big brother.
Since the 1990s, this Jun has eaten the benefits of the stock market and the two waves of real estate, and it is also a relatively famous capital calf on the beach, which is currently worth about four or five hundred million, and recently it has not been able to participate in some campus forums run by the two schools in the North and Qing Dynasties all day, and there is nothing to hook up with female students.
Hao Ze smiled and asked if he was not afraid of his sister-in-law knowing that he was getting a divorce? Big Brother took a puff of his cigarette and replied:
"Make a fart, everyone is in their forties, the family's assets and income are earned by me, what qualifications does she have to say anything?" All day long I know how to buy things and discuss with the stupid old ladies how to manage me and investigate my whereabouts, once I was angry, I directly told her that I really went out to soak the girl, to divorce casually, ask for money only to give the child's alimony, the other point is not much to give, the assets I have long been reduced to zero and transferred, come, you leave to show me. ”
You see, this is the problem, when the vast majority of Chinese women still think that their small skills can manage their husbands, Chinese men can have a unique advantage in the marriage relationship as long as they are guaranteed to be one position ahead in their careers.
Once the accumulated gap is accumulated, it becomes a huge "ability difference", which can be called a dimensionality reduction blow.
In the end, please every girl, review the core of this article again:
I wish every reader girl who talks about Haoze that the peach blossoms are full of marriage and the fortune is rolling koi!
I also hope that you can learn to accept the cruelty and coldness of this society, but do not be afraid,
Because you are in an era where a little powder can instantly improve your sexual attractiveness;
Because you are in an era where as long as you spend effort to sharpen yourself, you can have the bargaining power of the cause;
Because you are in an era when a woman has money and can have a super power to choose a mate;
Because you are in an era of equal rights that as long as you have the ability, you can do no hanging and hanging.