For the post-70s and post-80s, if you have chased Japanese dramas, then Yamaguchi Momoe and Suzuki Ho nami are not familiar with much.
At the peak of his career, Yamaguchi was in his early 20s and married actor Tomokazu Miura.
After marriage, he washed his hands to make soup and took care of his two children. The relationship between the two has always been in harmony, which is a clear stream in the show business circle.
Another goddess, Suzuki Ho nami, is relatively tortuous in terms of marriage.
In 1991, the Japanese drama "Tokyo Love Story" swept across Asia. The heroine of the play, Akame Lixiang, is a perfectionist of love, and she is pure, warm and bold about love.
Nanami Suzuki played the role of Li Xiang in the play, and she played this role to the fullest, and with this play, she became popular throughout Asia.
In real life, Suzuki Hoami, like Li Xiang, demands perfection and purity from love.
She was married twice, the first was relatively short, and in 1998 she married her second husband, who died and gave birth to three daughters.
Just when everyone thought that the goddess would continue to live so happily, in July 2021, at the age of 54, she chose to end her 23-year marriage.
Her parents wanted to raise her to be a lady.
But everyone has their own dreams in their hearts, and parents can't really interfere.
When she was in elementary school, Nanami Suzuki loved baseball.
She is also a child king, gathering girls who like baseball to form a community girls baseball team, often having fun.
Once a competition was held in the community, she also rushed to take her own team to register, and did not want to be rejected.
So she took the lead in pulling up a white cloth strip at the community congress to protest sexist practices.
As a result, she got the nickname of "Wild Girl", which made her parents cry and laugh a little.
Originally, I wanted her to become a lady who was praised by people, but I didn't want to be so wild.
Suzuki Spentami spent her junior high school years at Kamakura High School in Kanagawa.
The city of Kamakura has appeared in countless japanese film and television works.
Therefore, when she was in middle school, she often witnessed various crews shooting in Kamakura.
At the age of 20, Suzuki Saw Anami Kamari's advertisement for a nationwide audition of models, she also signed up and stood out among the many contestants.
As a result, Nanami Suzuki, who has just turned 20, officially stepped into the show business circle.
To this end, she gave up going to college to continue her studies.
In 1991, "Tokyo Love Story" premiered in Japan and received a 22.9% rating.
This drama made Suzuki Honami famous in one battle, and at the same time pushed her to the peak of her acting career.
At this point, it was only her fifth year as an actress.
"Will chase after thorns, the foot is sprained, jumping will also chase, the rain is the greatest, throw down the umbrella also have to chase, if he does not wait for me, let him regret it for a lifetime." 」
This famous saying of Li Xiang's bold pursuit of love has been printed in the hearts of countless young men and women.
It turns out that girls can also be so brave to pursue their true love!
You should know that in Japan in the early 90s of last century, in love, women are generally in a passive position, and it is really rare to dare to say such a brave and straightforward declaration of love.
Suzuki Ho nami's touching smile in the play, super healing, so that countless people are fascinated by it,
There are audience comments:
"Her smile is as if all the happy things in the world have turned into petals blooming in an early morning."
"The moment you like someone will always remain in your heart, it will become your courage, and it will become a ray of light in the darkness." 」
This is Akaka's other golden love sentence, and it seems to be a portrayal of Suzuki Honami's love.
Suzuki Honami once said in an interview that her attitude towards love was the same as That of Li Xiang.
"In fact, I am also like this, I have a tendency to pursue perfection in love, so I will ask for everything to the people I like."
In 1992, Suzuki Met Kazuhito Kawai and announced their marriage after six months of dating.
Now that the fans are frying pans, how can the goddess marry like this?
But Nanami Suzuki is already a goddess who has spread all over Asia, and Kazuhito Kawai is just a little-known racing announcer;
In terms of income, the two are even worse.
But she felt that she had chosen love.
"I'm serious about being in love, and it would be great if I could stay with him for the rest of my life."
However, it is easy to fall in love, it is difficult to stay together, and it is even more difficult to keep a lifetime.
After the marriage, the conservative Kazuhito Kawai could not accept The frequent appearances of Suzuki Honami, hoping that Suzuki Ho nami would give up her career and return to her family, but at that time, Suzuki Honami was still very young, and she was unwilling to give up her career.
In addition, the two people are very busy at work, gathering less and leaving more,
The marriage lasted only three years before it was divorced.
A year after their divorce, Nanami Suzuki falls in love with Takaaki Ishibashi, a member of the Japanese hilarious group Tunnel Duo.
They met through the cooperation of the "New Prejudice King Contest" in the TV show "Tunnel 2" (Fuji Tv).
At that time, Ishibashi Takaaki had a family and had not yet divorced.
This is equivalent to "little three", but the woman who is in love is so blind and desperate.
Suzuki Ho nami gives people a feeling of intellectual beauty, but she does not want to face her love, and she is still as warm as a moth to a fire.
Soon, Suzuki Ho nami became pregnant, so Takaaki Ishibashi quickly went through the divorce procedures and then married her in 1998.
When she first married Takaaki Ishibashi, Nanami Suzuki did not want to give up her acting career.
She likes to perform and like the stage in her heart, and filming is not only a job, but also a kind of enjoyment for her.
However, Japanese society is actually very traditional, and daughters-in-law must respect their mother-in-law.
At that time, her mother-in-law was very dissatisfied with some of her large-scale performances in the play, hoping that she could stop and concentrate on family and childcare.
So, she reluctantly bid farewell to the stage.
In this regard, she is completely different from Momoe Yamaguchi.
After getting married, Yamaguchi had to say goodbye to the showbiz completely, washed his hands and made soup, devoted himself to his husband and son, and enjoyed a bland family life in peace.
Momoe Yamaguchi did not regret it at all, even if for a long time after marriage, her husband Miura Tomo and a person to support the family, the pressure was quite high, at that time his income was not high.
But Yamaguchi would rather live a simple life, and she is still firm in her decision to quit the circle.
The reason why Yamaguchi Ishie is like this is inseparable from her childhood experience.
When Yamaguchi's mother gave birth to her, she was not the legally recognized wife of Yamaguchi's father.
Yamaguchi's father, his wife and son, daughter, had repeatedly assured Yamaguchi's grandfather that he would handle the matter completely responsibly.
After Yamaguchi Washie was born, his so-called handling was only to write the word "acknowledgement" on his household registration book, and did not marry Yamaguchi Momoe's mother.
In order to support her two children, the mother had to work hard to find all kinds of odd jobs to do.
Growing up, Yamaguchi Not only did not give him the care he deserved, but he also did not pay any maintenance.
But after Yamaguchi Became famous, Yamaguchi's father pestered her, competed with his mother for custody of Yamaguchi, and even borrowed money from the company as a parent, and he also held a press conference to denounce his daughter for all kinds of wrongs.
At the age of 17, Yamaguchi spent a large sum of money to sever legal ties with his father.
These experiences had a huge impact on Yamaguchi. She longs for a complete family and wants to give her children a complete, warm, loving family.
Even if you are not rich, can't afford a mansion, can't afford luxury goods, it doesn't matter.
After Yamaguchi Got married, her dress has always been relatively simple, and the house she lives in is also bought in installments.
In the face of Yamaguchi Momoe's heyday in order to get married, Miura Yukazu was also very touched, and after marriage, he worked hard and actively, and his acting career has been improving.
What is even more rare is that he has been filming for many years, soaking in various beautiful women, and there are no rumors.
However, after Suzuki Honami married Takaaki Ishibashi, she had to give birth to three daughters in succession.
But how did her husband reciprocate her?
Over the years, Takaaki Ishibashi has been accused of making harassing gestures on the show, and has also been photographed intimately with other women.
In short, negative rumors keep coming.
In 2008, after 10 years of silence, Nanami Suzuki suddenly announced her comeback.
It is said that during that time, the husband's company had problems with the turnover of funds, so Suzuki Ho nami was anxious to make a comeback.
Fortunately, the influence of the goddess is still there, and the audience is still very fond of her.
Ten years later, she still conquered the audience with her acting skills, and she is still a royal sister.
But Takaaki Ishibashi is still a macho, and sets strict requirements for his wife to shoot:
For example: "You have to call before you go out to report it."
"Go home immediately after filming", "Call in the evening"
Sometimes, When Nanami Suzuki is too busy at work to reply to messages in time, her husband will be furious.
Suzuki Ho nami makes more money than her husband, and he still thinks he is the domineering president.
The husband even shouted: You are still a housewife at home!
However, Suzuki Ho nami had a hard time making a comeback, and it was hard to accumulate a large wave of fans, and then quit the circle, I am afraid that I will never come back in the future!
And the experience of her husband's company operation problems before made her feel that she still made money and spent money, was more free, and was more at ease.
More crucially, in her acting work, she found herself again.
For the sake of her three daughters, she temporarily chose to be patient, in order to give her children a complete home.
In July 2020, Nanami Suzuki opened her own studio;
Later, at the age of 54, she spent another 300 million yen (17.5 million yuan) to buy herself a mansion.
The area is relatively large, even if it is with three daughters, it seems very spacious.
In February 2020, Nanami Suzuki was interviewed by a magazine and couldn't help but complain when talking about family life:
"Why did you have to be tied up by your family in your own time?" I have almost no space of my own at home. ”
A reporter once asked her: As an actor, how do you balance family and work?
Yasumi Agi Answers:
"Before you can be a wife and a mother, you have to be yourself."
In July 2021, Nanami Suzuki announced her divorce.
Before that, she was well prepared:
In her career, she set up a personal studio,
In life, she bought another house so that she could have a comfortable place to live and provide a warm space for her daughters to spend together.
Women who are independent, have their own pursuits, and can make their own money are such a sassy!
At that time, for love, she rushed into the castle of marriage at all costs.
Later, for the sake of the family, he chose to give birth to three daughters and hard parenting.
When the child is older, she begins to make a comeback and resume her career.
In her heart, she has always been a brave "wild boy" who pulled a banner to protest sexism in elementary school.
She never sets limits for herself, and if she lowers her posture, it must be for love.
But when love is no longer so pure, when love has become tainted, has become a shackle,
She will not hesitate to choose to break this shackle and let herself live freely and independently.
Enjoy your career and live freely.
Suzuki, like Akamei, was a perfectionist in love, desperate for love.
But the ending is also the same as Li Xiang in the play, and finally chooses to leave, leaving only a background for the people who once loved so much.
But isn't life a process? The result is sometimes in your own control, but as long as the process is sincere, sincere, and a choice from the heart, then everything is without complaint or regret.
At different stages of life, the focus is different, and the perspective of looking at problems is also different.
Loving and being loved is a precious experience.
Nanami Suzuki, over the years, has maintained a good body shape, almost never gained weight.
Raising three children is a hard thing, and it is really rare that she is so disciplined with herself.
In 2021's "Tang Detective 3", Suzuki Ho Nami also made a cameo appearance, with short hair and a resolute gaze, which looked very domineering.
Although it is already fifty or so, it feels like it is only a little more than 40, and the aura is very powerful.
This aura is by no means a fake, but a reflection of her inner strength.
Although she has always lived in Japan, she has never been influenced by traditional Japanese thought, and she has never believed that a woman's greatest goal is to marry a good man, and then marry and teach her children, and live a peaceful old age.
She has been being herself and living out her independent self.
It also set an excellent example for the daughters, women, to live this life well, to work hard, to fight for themselves.
Divorce does not mean that the love that was once warm was not warm enough,
Not divorcing doesn't mean you're always happy.
However, time has passed, people are changing, the heart is also changing, if you feel that separation is better for each other, it is to break free from the shackles, then peaceful separation may be a good way.
When Nanami Suzuki announced her marriage, her attitude was very peaceful:
"Declare the end of the stage of two people raising children together."
Only a woman who sees very well can be so peaceful.
With the passage of time, she has gone from a young girl to now almost the age of flower armor.
What is old is the face, and what is not old is the heart.
She's still the wild boy who dared to protest sexism in elementary school.
Still the one who is full of tenderness, brave and warm for love,
Still the woman who pursues pure love and rushes into marriage for love,
She is now a sonorous rose that blooms gracefully on her own.
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The author | Linda
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