Recently, another incident of school bullying was exposed.
Uncle Fish is gritting his teeth and pounding his chest.
The victim was a high school boy.
He was repeatedly bullied and sexually harassed by 8 classmates at school.
Unfortunately, when the victim reported the problem to the school, it was not taken seriously.
The teacher believes that there is no such thing as "sexual assault" between boys.
I think it's just a boy's fight.
As a result, the victim suffered from depression and was so painful that he cut his wrist at home.
Instead, the perpetrator was proud and sent an understated message:
"I suggest you jump straight off the building."
Such a horrific story actually happened on today's high school campus.
It's so heart-wrenching.
Today, Uncle Fish also borrowed a movie to talk about the topic of school bullying.
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The picture on the poster is of a girl being slapped.
This also reveals the theme of the movie - school bullying.
The film was released in 2012.
He won the Grand Prix in the "A Kind of Attention" section of the Cannes Film Festival.
It is said that after the screening, many spectators left their seats in tears.
Netizens who have seen it call directly:
"Super Big Movie!"
"Even more abusive than The Hunt!"
Directed by Michel Frank, he is considered one of the great contemporary artists of Mexico.
His films often use dramatic plot conflicts and unusually calm camera language.
The two are in stark contrast to stimulate a strong mood of moviegoering.
This film continues his usual shooting style.
From the seemingly ordinary daily life, discover the evil side of human nature.
The protagonist of the story is named Yalei.
She is the little girl on the cover of the poster.
Because her mother died in a car accident, her heartbroken father took her away from home and came to Mexico City.
The father-daughter duo is trying to start a new life here.
At first, everything went smoothly.
The beautiful and generous Yalei quickly integrated into the new classmates and made a group of friends.
Just when she thought she was on the right track, an accident happened.
The accident seemed ordinary, but it would ruin her and her father's life.
It all started with a class reunion.
Under the influence of alcohol and marijuana, Yarei mixed with José, the big handsome guy in the class.
They are bold in the bathroom, enjoying the joy of fish and water.
Originally, this was not to blame.
But the problem is that when the two were passionate, Jose recorded all this with his mobile phone.
And Yalei believed him completely and did not dissuade him.
The nightmare starts here.
YaLei, who returned home, found that her sex video had actually been posted on the Internet.
She was overwhelmed for a moment.
In a panic, I didn't go to school the next day.
Unexpectedly, José came to her house to find her.
In the face of Yalei's anger, he explained that the video was not sent by him.
He left his phone in the toilet, which could have been sent by anyone.
He even said with a slight grievance:
"I'm also in the video, and I'm also a victim."
Persuaded by José, Yare decided to pluck up the courage to go to school.
But things were clearly not as rosy as José had described.
He said he was also a victim, but had not been harmed in any way.
Yalei, on the other hand, was attacked in various ways.
On the one hand, there is harassment from the opposite sex.
During class, the boys in the same class handed over a note with insulting words written on it.
When going to the toilet, two boys sneaked into the toilet, took off their pants and filmed Yalei with their mobile phones.
Also shouting:
"In the video you let him do it."
This means:
"You let him go up, then it doesn't matter if I go up!"
On the other hand, there is humiliation from the same sex.
The girl who had been good before, because she was jealous of her being with Jose, was determined to get revenge.
They tricked Yalei into coming home and dressed her in a sexy revealing dress.
Yalei didn't want to wear it.
Just as she resisted, the two girls threw her to the ground and forcibly cut off her hair.
He also called her, "bitch."
After being bullied again and again, Yalei gradually became autistic and silent.
But she did not dare to openly resist.
You can only release your inner pain in your favorite swimming sport.
Speaking of which, one might ask:
"Why didn't Yalei resist?"
There are three reasons for this.
First, she was afraid that her father would know about smoking marijuana and going to bed.
This is more difficult for girls to talk about.
As you can see, the same film is exposed, almost no one is targeting Jose, all of them are humiliating Yalei.
Second, it is because after the death of the mother, the father himself is under great pressure.
Yalei looked at her father's pain silently in her eyes.
She felt that if she told her father about herself, it would add more pressure to him.
Third, there is also a lack of effective communication between Yalei and her father.
Some topics about girls are difficult to open to their fathers.
And the father also lacks enough sensitivity to his daughter's heart.
Neither of them understands each other's true thoughts.
In fact, after Yalei first clashed with her classmates, her father came to school.
He knew his daughter had lied to him, but he didn't keep asking.
The development of events is so linked that it gradually leads to a deeper tragedy.
Yalei's disaster has only just begun.
After all the classes of the semester, the teacher decided to organize a trip to the sea.
The students cheered.
But the next second, they all showed their ugly faces.
After the teacher left, the students brought YaLei a birthday cake.
It turned out that today was Yalei's birthday.
But these people were clearly not here to celebrate.
A male classmate laughed and said:
"Eat, we spent hours in the toilet making this cake."
Yalei tasted it and felt sick and wanted to refuse, but was forced to continue.
The boy pinched her nose, and the girl was responsible for stuffing the cake.
Seeing that Yalei shut up, they simply smeared the cake directly on her face.
It turned out that this cake was made of a special material - semen.
Yalei traveled with her classmates.
Because of her isolation, she could only sleep alone in the toilet.
The fat boy who had fed her cake before noticed this.
While the other students were celebrating their trip, they sneaked into the toilet and plotted against Ya Lei.
The fat boy kept arching over Yalei.
Yalei resisted desperately, but could not push him away.
At this time, the camera was aimed at the students drinking outside the toilet.
How happy they are, how desperate Yalei is.
Yalei was like a numb fish, silently accepting the fate of being devoured.
After the fat boy finished, he immediately showed off his "achievements" with his friends.
That night, it was another collective bullying.
At the campfire by the sea, classmates peed on Yalei.
Fearing that the teacher would find out, they dragged her into the sea and let her wash away the stench.
By the time the classmates reacted, Yalei had disappeared into the depths of the sea.
However, Yalei did not die.
With good water quality, she escaped the disaster and swam back to the shore.
Later, she returned to her former hometown.
In the old mansion where no one is, away from all the distractions.
The story ends here.
In the follow-up, it is about how Yalei's father investigates the truth and takes revenge for Yalei.
The father rushed to the school to confront his classmates.
After seeing the video on the Internet, I learned about Yalei's recent experience.
Near the end of the film, the father drags a boy who has bullied Yalei into a boat and sinks into the sea.
Unlike other revenge films, this film is particularly restrained and cold.
There is no sensational music, and there are no deliberately amplified close-ups.
But the calmer it is, the more infuriating it becomes.
There is a scene in the film depicting Yalei after being bullied.
She didn't cry, she just stared numbly at herself in the mirror.
The real and introverted performance appropriately shows the weakness and dazedness of the heroine's heart.
One point worth discussing is the end of the film.
It seems to be a common revenge cool movie ending.
But in fact, it is not cool at all, but it makes people feel like a fish in the throat.
If you think about it, this kind of counter-violence with violence does not change anything.
Tragedy has happened, and Yalei's heart has planted permanent pain.
Tragedy doesn't just exist in movies.
The story in reality is likely to be darker.
Like the case described at the beginning of the article.
At the beginning of the Weibo exposure, there were detailed event introductions and many big V forwards.
But before long, the pictures related to the event were hung up one by one.
Obviously, it is a topic that many people are paying attention to, but it is blank when it is clicked.
Even the pictures in the news reports were all hung up.
I don't know, I thought it was a picture that was inappropriate for children.
In fact, it is the victim's written description of the case.
It was not until a media outlet conducted an exclusive interview that the authenticity of the matter was completely confirmed.
The topic was re-established.
The 16-year-old boy in reality, just like Yalei in the movie, lives a dark life.
Because of the exposure of his sexual orientation, he was targeted by the boys in the same class when he first entered the school.
They would taunt him directly:
"Eh, are you a jerk?"
They would also choke him by the neck at the end of class and hold him in the corner.
Would dump garbage into his closet and scatter nails on his bed.
Even press the boy, show him the A film, pinch his body, give him a stroke.
In the most serious case, a classmate splashed flower lotion on the boy's lower body and filmed him.
Even sent videos to the class group.
Seeing this, Uncle Yu only felt a pang of nausea.
What kind of person would do such a thing to one's classmates?
I remembered that the movie "Young You", which also talks about school bullying, has just recently been nominated for an Oscar.
The real version of "Young You" happened in this high school.
It wasn't that the boy hadn't asked for help before.
He complained to the teacher and told the teacher about some of the lesser injuries he had suffered.
As a result, the punishment given by the teacher was only —
Copy the daily code of conduct of secondary school students 4 times.
Such a punishment is nothing more than a formal response.
For these 8 people, of course, there is no use.
You can imagine that these people will still be triumphant after being punished like this.
It turned out that it was better to bully classmates than to die, and it only took a few times to copy the code of conduct.
No wonder someone can be so unscrupulous.
Even more ridiculous is that the boy suffered from severe depression and tried to commit suicide by cutting his wrists.
As a result, he was dissuaded from school.
A 16-year-old boy who has just entered the first year of high school has encountered such a great malice from around him.
Since then, how has he thought about society and how has he faced himself?
This bullying incident reflects a serious problem.
That is, the lack of moral education for minors.
The disregard of these bullies for other lives is chilling.
Coincidentally, Han Meijuan, an Internet celebrity who recently caught fire in the talent show, also exposed the experience of being bullied in high school.
The reason is similar to that of a 16-year-old boy in Beijing – not like a "normal man" .
Because he had marks of surgery on his face, he had to wear makeup.
As a result, he was scolded by his classmates as "girly" and "perverted", and pushed him into the women's restroom.
This speaks volumes about one thing:
In an education system that emphasizes "masculinity" and "men should be like men", there is no room for 16-year-old boys in Beijing, nor for Han Meijuan.
A small number of ignorant high school boys who have received this kind of education will use this as an excuse to bully their "girlishness".
In fact, their use of "real men" to judge others is itself a form of disrespect for others.
Bullying and insulting others completely loses one's conscience.
In contrast, the two victims appeared warm enough.
Even if the Beijing boy exposed the incident, he also guided everyone not to be a teacher of Internet violence in the chat record.
Han Meijuan, who grew up poor, became famous online at the age of 18 in order to treat her grandmother's cancer.
Compared with the two, it is almost clear who has more good character.
Uncle Yu sincerely hopes that the bully in this incident will be severely punished.
I hope that school teachers and parents can take the initiative to educate and guide their children.
First learn to respect life, be a good person, and then do learning.
May such tragedies never happen again.