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Men and women, who loves to lie more?
This is a difficult question to answer, but Japanese ai master and novelist Junichi Watanabe believes that women probably prefer to lie, and there are deeper physical and psychological reasons behind them.
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In the last issue, we dissected the "lying woman" through Junichi Watanabe's work "The Woman Thing".
"Women this thing": Men and women, who loves to lie more? 1| Zhang Xiaoyu
Today, we continue. Perhaps through his point of view, understand and feel the uncertainty of women's emotions and physiology, and how complex they are psychologically, so as to feel how incredible charm and fun are behind "women lying".
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the physiological logic of a woman lying</h1>
Recall the previous love story:
Minako and Kosaka have an affair, and she expresses her love for him. But a few days later, she said she didn't love him. When a man asks a woman how her feelings can disappear and disappear, whether she has cheated on him, the woman is speechless.
In a woman's heart, the reason for loving or not loving cannot be expressed in reason and words. She felt dazedly, as if it were because of the thin fog of the night.
What an ethereal answer! But this answer seems to be very much in line with the "emotional" characteristics of women lying.
Junichi Watanabe gave a great explanation:
Women's words and deeds are constantly wavering and changing, in fact, because of this (hormonal change). The more drastic the physical changes, the more intense the changes in a woman's words and deeds.
And understanding this physiological basis, let's talk about it, why are there women who "lie and become sexy"? What is the underlying reason behind this?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >why do some women lie? </h1>
The so-called lying woman is a woman whose feelings and physical state are constantly changing and fluctuating, and who are in a state of physical instability.
"A woman who is physically unstable", what kind of woman is it talking about?
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Junichi Watanabe uses a solid physiological theory to give us our arguments:
Physiological instability in adult women refers to hormonal imbalances. The most important of these is the number of x hormones, x hormones secreted too much or too little, will cause a variety of changes in the female body, they are in a state of continuous flow, amorphous.
Inexplicable theft during menstruation, lying around the sea; exuberant desire before and after menstruation, easily giving oneself to others; intense emotional fluctuations during pregnancy and menopause... We have seen these examples of what happens to women. Some people have a hard time understanding: how such a chaste woman can... In fact, these periods are also the periods when the X hormone in a woman's body changes most significantly.
This theory gives a very accurate picture of the close relationship between our women's words and deeds, emotions and bodies. Lying is actually a kind of upside-down "emotional change".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > how to get women not to lie? </h1>
So, what should men do in the face of lying women?
In fact, the answer is also very simple: meet her!
Since the habit of lying comes from women's physical and psychological insecurities, the simplest and most effective way to change the state of lying is to eliminate women's uneasiness and dissatisfaction.
Just like those who worship money, the excessive desire for material desires is often derived from the former lack, so it forms a state of "desire and dissatisfaction"; just like those children who are greedy for sugar, the more they do not let them touch sugar, the more crazy they want to taste the sweetness.
For women, most of the "crazy" behavior is "insecure" behind it. The same goes for lying.
Either born of a woman, or a lying spirit. Therefore, the most fundamental way to make a woman become pure and peaceful, no longer relying on lies to cover up her physical and mental thoughts, may be to actively satisfy her psychologically and stimulate her honest side.
What do you think?