In Intimacy (Roland Miller) writes that there are some very harmful notions in intimate relationships: 1. Quarrels are fatal, and quarrels indicate that love is not deep enough, and people who love each other should not have them

In Intimacy (Roland Miller) writes that there are some very harmful notions in intimacy:

1, quarrel is fatal, quarrel shows that love is not deep enough, people who love each other should not have any dispute.

2, mind reading is very important, people who really love each other should have a sharp mind, if you need to tell each other the needs, it means that the love is not deep enough.

3, people will not change, if a person has hurt you, it will hurt you again and again, the relationship can not be improved.

4, every sexual life should be perfect, only a perfect sex life symbolizes loyal love.

5, men and women are not the same, it is difficult to really understand each other.

6, a good marriage is predestined by heaven, and a happy husband and wife relationship does not need to be maintained with efforts at all.